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Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by bamac(m): 8:03am On Jul 06, 2015 |
Several people have become slaves to unhappiness when life itself is not meant for you to be sad. So many things can be done to make unhappiness to become things of the past. Here are some tips from me to you: 1 . Love God: The only true happiness comes from God. When you are sad maybe due to human errors or something else, God can turn the situation around which will definitely put smiles on your face. Without the love of God in you unhappiness will be the order of the day. 2 . Love yourself : The most important thing in life is to love oneself. Your face, figure, problems or what have you shouldn't be making you unhappy when you have a living God that requires just your faith. No matter the situation you may find yourself just learn to love yourself by trusting your problems on God alone and carry on with your life. Pretend to be perfect in your imperfection because you are the only one that can make yourself happy. The way you appear to people is the way you will be accepted, appreciated or depreciated. 3 . Be focused: When you are here and there at the same time you might be determining your unhappiness. When you know what you want and you go for it be it educationally, career wise etc then happiness is not far from you. At times, you might not have what it takes to fulfil your desires. Your desire might not come as fast as you expected it but through hard work it will surely come to past. Don't Kill two birds with a stone. Things should be done one after the other. 4 . Get ready to be disappointed: One thing that is inevitable in human race is disappointment. The fact that human beings are not perfect being then you need to expect the "unexpectable". Human being will promise and fail. Your best friend might betray you one way or the other. Someone very close to you might disappoint you. Be ready to be disappointed by those you love. You yourself might disappoint someone else unknowingly. The last time i checked, God was/is the only perfect being in the universe. Since you have this in mind you can never be sad when it happens because you are ready for it. 5 . Learn to forgive: When you hold grudges against people due to the offense they have committed against you, you will never be happy because when you have anything to do with that same person you will never be happy dealing with the person. When you hold offense against people your conscience will never leave you until you release and let go of the grudge. Forgive even before you are offended is a huge secret to happiness. 6 . Learn to love again: Many people are sad due to Heartbreak. You will not be happy because of the scar that has been left in you by the person you love. The only way to forget and be happy is to replace the one that has made you unhappy. There are so many good men and women out there waiting for you, don't think everyone are the same. Let someone else remove the scar in you and be happy for life. 7 . Be useful to others: Always remember you are not the only one in the world. If it was only you then life would have been miserable. Be helpful to others, give when its necessary to give and also help when its needed. When you put smiles on people's face you will definitely be happy. please feel free to add yours. http://bamisepeters..com/2015/07/some-ways-to-make-yourself-happy.html 67 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by Nobody: 8:20am On Jul 06, 2015 |
Correct!!...love God first and foremost 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 06, 2015 |
Nice. Be persistent in whatever you do. Then again it takes a good deal of strength to forgive one who have wronged you. Keeping grudges against people prolong pains and hinders focus. When we let go in most cases, we still won't forget what had happened 'cause the dent is there as a memory. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by greatdeal1408: 8:44am On Jul 06, 2015 |
make money have some money\ hold some cash have real cash just make some stupid money i mean ... all things will be added unto you 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by CBNIM: 10:11am On Jul 06, 2015 |
zaragal:I concur! 3 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by hormobollar(f): 11:12am On Jul 06, 2015 |
greatdeal1408:U got it wrong guy, everything is not about money.... 15 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by hormobollar(f): 11:14am On Jul 06, 2015 |
greatdeal1408:U got it wrong guy, everything is not about money.... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by bamac(m): 3:16pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
greatdeal1408:do you know what getting money has caused some people? You will not say this if you know. Money doesn't guarantee happiness 12 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by coldHeat: 10:00am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Nice post, all points are good and worthy of commendation and emulation. But might I also add that to attain happiness we have to choose to be happy. Its a choice we have to deliberately make. That way irregardless of how our situation taunts us we can always smile. It is when we try to measure our selves or reward ourselves with happiness based on our circumstances that we will always fall short. This choice must be mingled with thanksgiving to God, faith and hope for a good overall aroma that will be pleasing to the soul. Also we must at all times face the reality of our situations and not give in to illusions and delusions. A good example is when we lose a loved one; it is painful, but we must choose to accept the reality that they are no longer accessible to us in this physical plane or realm, and therefore we must move on with our lives remembering them for what they believed and walking with the reality that they would have wanted us to be happy at their demise. We need more threads like this on the front page so we can further make the world a better place by imbibing into ourselves the positivity of life. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by bamac(m): 2:11pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
coldHeat:the bitter-truth 1 Like |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by RichFoundation(m): 2:51pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
True talk 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by sukkot: 2:51pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
ok na |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by LMAyedun(m): 2:52pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Okay! Thanks OP 2 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by asumo12: 2:52pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by intergral(m): 2:52pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
BRB 1 Like |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by cjsamba: 2:53pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Nice 2 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by ugogermany: 2:53pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
:Dchangii, changii! 1 Like |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by Dindondin(m): 2:53pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
The only way is to keep licking sugar 2 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
bamac: 1 Like |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by eipreel(f): 2:55pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
watch basketmouth everyday the poster above me sha did you have to quote the whole post well your moniker says it all 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by shachris02: 2:55pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
MAKE MONEY 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by Chukwutobi: 2:55pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Never put your trust in man! 4 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by beeblah(m): 2:56pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
u're making a point!
I think we should consider that 2 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by ayusco85(m): 2:56pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Have sex once a week 2 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by 20thAccountLOL: 2:56pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by Qweenedo2(f): 2:57pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Never compare yourself to others, do not set unrealistic goals and expectations, have the mindset that you can only create happiness for yourself, Do the things you love to do most(hobbies) and above all don't live a life of others cause INDIVIDUALITY is the key. 7 Likes |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by Ambi25: 2:57pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
true talk 1 Like |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by stepo707: 2:57pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
true 1 Like |
Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by obynocute(m): 2:58pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by asscb(f): 2:58pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
eipreel: 1 Like |
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