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5 Ways To Keep Interest To Partner by dammykrane(m): 10:17am On Jul 06, 2015
Love shouldn’t die in three or some more
years. Jordan Grey, a psychologist and
author of the books about relationship,
gives five extremely helpful pieces of advice
for keeping an interest to your partner
during the rest of your life.
Find something for you HERE
1. Look in the mirror
It happens frequently that your partner
seems to lose his or her attractiveness. This
can signalize about some troubles with your
overall state of health. When you are self-
confident and happy, you accept your
partner as the most sexual person in the
world. And, vice versa, when you are
depressed and disturbed, you think that
your partner has lost his or her charm.
Thus, before dumping a fault to your
partner because of your bad mood and your
partner’s coldness, look in the mirror and
answer honestly: are you attractive enough
and adjusted to love?
2. Find the way to miss your partner
Today people communicate much more than
they used to several years ago. Any person
who we love is on the distance of just one
SMS. However, these very tight connections
lead to dispiriting outcomes. If you are
always together, you will not miss each
other and your relationship will change
from those enjoyable moments to dull
responsibility.
When you are near your lover, of course,
give your attention to him or her. But when
you leave each other for even a short period,
do only your personal stuff.
Stop writing and ringing up your partner
every single day. Don’t give a report about
your all steps and actions. Put several topics
off to discuss later. Arrange a stag-party or a
hen-party, spend your weekends separately
or just visit training alone.
3. Dispose yourself to love
Our brain works in a peculiar way. It needs
actions, words and thoughts to be united.
So when you do nothing for strengthen
your relationship, your brain builds up a
logical chain: “As I do nothing for my
relationship, I am not interested in it”.
Study the following examples of how our
perception of a partner depends on our
position:
Wrong
She always wears extended sport pants at
home and doesn’t try to look better
Correct
She trusts me a lot, so she even doesn’t fear
to look like that
Wrong
She always puts me in an awkward position,
talking about my job and making me talk
about it, as well
Correct
She is proud of my achievement so much
that even wants to tell about them the entire
world
Wrong
It’s disgusting! He clipped his nails and left
them on the table
Correct
It’s wonderful that he still tries looking well-
groomed and neat.
Flirt with your partner as like as your
relationship has just started. Surprise your
partner, give him or her some small
presents, add romance, arrange nights only
for two.
4. Think about how will you feel if you
lose your lover
Our life is not eternal. All people are mortal.
Your relationship will definitely end.
However, we have good news, as well.
How would you look at your partner infor
the last time? What would you do if you
know this is your last weekend? Would you
talk about love more often? Would you
behave more gently, fondly and honestly
with your partner?
Remember from time to time that everything
can finish any second. This will help to
become a better lover for your partner.
5. Direct your sexual energy to your
partner
Sexual energy is a limited resource. If you
squander it, watching Indecency, admiring
other people or masturbate several times a
day, you both will lose.
Imagine that your sexual energy is flowing
in your body like water, and you are to
control its stream. The more energy you
direct to your partner, the easier it is to
repeat.
There are no negative reasons for
masturbation and watching Indecency, if you
use them with your partner. It is even better
to make your personal videos and photos.
Your brain adjusts to everything you do
easily . So if you can control a result, why not
to get excited watching your partner but
not som
Re: 5 Ways To Keep Interest To Partner by demmy0325(m): 10:19am On Jul 06, 2015
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Re: 5 Ways To Keep Interest To Partner by tinuolababy(f): 10:27am On Jul 06, 2015
Okay but op you didn't highlight ur points properly.

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