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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by freecocoa(f): 10:58pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:Yea righty, figured out his way indeed. What's there to figure? Bottomline is he couldn't have slept with that much women. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Ruq: 11:06pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
freecocoa: You need to meet guys that keep records, you'll know 1000 is a small number. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by freecocoa(f): 11:17pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Ruq:Na so. Let's even agree this is true, it's not the same as having a thousand women at your beck and call. It was recorded that he had, not that he was keeping count. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Majority of side chicks uses charm to hold to demanding money from their sugardaddies. When a man gives his concubine more money than his wife there is something fishy. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by dongrassy1: 11:34pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
why all of una dey blame the men?is it dat most of you are talking from imaginary stand point?wot about the wives dat nrglet demselves after thier 1st child and turn into mgbekes,wot about the women who see starving thier husbands of sex as a tool or weapon to ride him?wot about d nagging wifes who give thier husband discomfort anytime they are togeda....the list is unending....wives should play thier game well,in most cases the wives naim dey push thier husband go outside.women learn to play on ur man's ego.men need love and respect. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by iPopAlomo(m): 11:58pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
freecocoa: But no one is bashing him for having so many women... that's my point... I'm sure he slept with at least ²/³ of them... the remaining probably was chopping his money or something... why attack men with just one wife and one girlfriend only... it's still very fair and reasonable... Hanhan... you women just like looking for trouble where there's none... |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by freecocoa(f): 12:04am On Jul 07, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:And i'm telling you that story is a lie, there's no way it's possible to keep a thousand women. How about women? It will only be fair if she gets to have 1 husband and one boyfriend just like her hubby. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by iPopAlomo(m): 12:15am On Jul 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: You can't actually quantify if it's a lie or not... Solomon was prolly on steroids... for a very wise man... 1000 women is nothing... . about women having one husband and one boyfriend... sure... but can you handle it... Will you settle your boyfriend financially....? Will you get pregnant for your boyfriend that is not capable of being responsible...? Will you tell you children they have different father's...? How convincing is romping two d!cks in a day... when you go out to see your boyfriend... and he wants you overnight... where would you tell the children you are... it's super convenient for me to have two women.... but can a woman handle it...? |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 2:43am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Tomfrench:Ah swear |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by adorable29(f): 4:25am On Jul 07, 2015 |
coldHeat: Sorry for the quote guys. Just needed to have this in my archives. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Simplymeah: 4:32am On Jul 07, 2015 |
coldHeat:Dis is indeed an epistle,i jst wish we can all view it 4rm dis perspective. If only men can devote tym 2 raising dia own children...we av so many single modas,while some av fadas dat visit weekly or monthly cos it's a polygamous home. It shud b a two way thing,not only d mum nor dad but a balanced setting wia evry1 av a role 2 play! 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by donJ2(m): 4:48am On Jul 07, 2015 |
FrancisTony: Bros, so u hvnt seen pastors children goin gaga in sch...r dy not trained as proverbs recommended? U fail to consider environmental / societal factors, peer pressure alone can turn dat trained child into lady gaga |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by donJ2(m): 5:07am On Jul 07, 2015 |
coldHeat: Men dis men dat....who run d world Wat happened to sampson and his strength? I disagree with the face that its totally our fault...its a 50-50 case... Its all cuz of love of money. A girl dates a married man, even though she can cope without d married man she still does...for lame reasons. If girls resist married men, dy wont have people to date but hall.ots- who dont hav time for love play cuz their time is money... After dating a married man wn u r single, u expect ur hubby not to. You fail to acknowledge that that ur hubby must hv lost one of his gf to an aristo.. Its a cycle...both parties are to b blamed, not only men |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by ashafson: 5:08am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Hi, i think this is the problem and solution. Male and female r born in an equal proportion but female r more resistant to diseases than their male counterpart and male get killed in accidsent,war,fights etc. Than thwe female, so u c there will naturally be more females than males which makes it not feasible to have one man one wife which ofcos results to mistresses. Solution: the solution is to allow the male marry these mistresses, this will ensure that he treats them equally and protect them from sexually transmitted diseasaes as a result of too many misatresses. AND THIS IS ISLAM FOR YOU. The Quran says: Marry multiple wives 2,3 or 4 if you can be just betwn them (materially) if not then marry ONLY ONE wife.-suratunnisaa |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by AdeQuate18: 5:09am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Reasons why some men do that is numerous ranging from the fact that his wife may be a world class nag, she may not try to be as attractive as she used to be before marriage, she may also be unfaithful. Some men do it for adventure though. And ladies if you have a fight with your husband don't ever let him pick his car keys unless the quarrel is settled cause if he does........ |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Olufemiolaolu(m): 5:19am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Those cheap sluts re to blame. Y date a married man in d 1st place? |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by donJ2(m): 5:37am On Jul 07, 2015 |
FrancisTony: @ bolded, weep for u and d people frm ur sch of tot.... So an unemployed youth can venture into armed robbery, after all, he is unemployed... My sister Marriage doesn't have much value to we men these days (am sry to say it), but do u know y Its a like a business venture, prior to marriage they bid very high and do everything possible to win d girl..(cuz she myt hv other suitors) Obviously most girls marry cuz of money and stability someone on NL even said 'Dnt marry for money but go to where the rich stays and marry for love'.... A man clearly knows that if he is not financially ok that he cant marry a girl of his dream, so why would he stay without a mistress.. since its his money that bought him a wife...he can as well buy a fleet of mistresses. *b4 any married women proves me wrong she should answer these:* 'why did my hubby marry m, is it cuz he could afford me, or was it true luv' 'Wud I hv married someone that is not so stable financially, even though he loved me more than my hubby' My take on this topic is... we all (male or female) r to b blamed. Since women have proven to men that with money, they can have anything....men will keep having them. Most women are like messi in their premarital age...having lik 2aristos and 3bfs... In marriage, d reverse is d case. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 5:37am On Jul 07, 2015 |
donJ2:Who told you ALL pastors train their children rightly? You assume, I guess.. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by mekybabe1: 6:06am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Na only the women dey find trouble bah? So ur advice is that anytime a man does something bad to his wife, she should also go out to Bleep another man? Don't forget that another man's meat is another man's poison. Men that grow pot bellies after marriage nko? Majority of guys who have extra marital affairs, don't really have a reason. Same with women and on the judgement day, God will not ask you why. dongrassy1: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by mekybabe1: 6:10am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Funny eough, the bad girls dey marry good guys while the good girls marry the bad guys. donJ2: 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by mredwifeosband: 6:17am On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 6:21am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 6:22am On Jul 07, 2015 |
mekybabe1: Abeg tell am o my sista.. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bashydemy(m): 6:31am On Jul 07, 2015 |
aflyingbird:And we call you girls? @OP How about Sugar Mama's that will be going about with young guys and will be denying their hubby their rights? Some woman are so bold that the man will not have control or say in anything concerning the family and all this is happening due to one stupid yeye court marriage... We have lost this long time ago, the west have hijack the morality in on culture, From the day you ladies start using the words we have equal right is the day you lost it..... Someone women can never and will never kneel down to greet their mother/father inlaw not to talk of the husband... Some will make life miserable for the man to the extent that the man will be scared to come into his house and if such man is getting this comfort out of his matrimonial home what do you expect.... Yoruba adage says..( We don't need to tell a child what is sweeter between bean cake and honey, He will find out himself after tasting both) samething applicable to this.... If you ask that Governor you mention up there don't be surprise how his wife treat him in the past and might happen in front of his friend.... Some women after getting married will never wanna see their hubby families distancing their self from the family and friends and at the end of the day this same family will turn their back on her and encourage the man to extra marital life wo who will she turn to? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bashydemy(m): 6:34am On Jul 07, 2015 |
yorubadelta:And real woman should stop denying their Hubby access to what truly belong to him, some women will never allow their hubby touch them if he did not give them what they want and that happen alot.. I have seen a lady who deny her hubby and says he wont touch her until he buy the car she ask for... tell me what will happen in cases like this? 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by okoomoge2(m): 6:34am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Everything boils down to morality. I am not in support of side chicks. However, most ladies of nowadays don't really understand the role of a wife and mother. Men are polygamous animals, but a vitreous woman can tame her man with meekness, love and maturity. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 6:38am On Jul 07, 2015 |
bashydemy: Well of course a wife shouldn't treat her husband with contempt .. however are you trying to say he should go ahead and get a mistress just because his wife is lousy? There is no excuse for that pls.. if you are a believer then you should know how grave an offense adultery is in the eyes of God 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 6:43am On Jul 07, 2015 |
yorubadelta:If you like wear that rubbish, Ogun go use your yansh do suya! How are you this morning? |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 6:47am On Jul 07, 2015 |
KingTom: Tufiakwa! how I go put canopy for yansh? I'm doing fab o .. trust u had a good night's sleep 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 6:47am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Nice contributions from Nairalanders but I'm yet to get the answer to the question raised by the Op! The question is why men treat side-chicks better than their wives. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 6:48am On Jul 07, 2015 |
bashydemy:God bless your mother and your father. They have given birth to a sensible child 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 6:50am On Jul 07, 2015 |
yorubadelta:Better! I couldn't sleep Hospital night round things |
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