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Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by HelpeeDeck(m): 1:17pm On Jul 06, 2015
Nobody commits to a relationship thinking that they are going to fall out of love, but in some cases love doesn’t last forever and unfortunately, relationships come to an end. Let’s explore some of the reasons why people fall out of love to prevent future romantic dissolutions.

1. People Change

When people have been in a relationship for years especially through periods of transition, they change as individuals and are therefore not the same people that fell in love in the first place. It is only natural for people to change and come to a realization of what they want in life. Sometimes the newly developed desires don’t mesh with those of your partner and you slowly begin to lose a sense of intimacy.

2. Trust Issues

It’s hard to go back to how it was before you found out that your partner lied to you or cheated on you. You might be able to forgive them but the idea of betrayal will haunt you forever, making it hard to carry on with the relationship as if nothing happened. Some wounds are irreparable to the point that the only way to deal with such heartbreak is by breaking up.

3. Miscommunication

In order for love to exist and keep growing, Partners have to be able to express their emotions to each other and be able to talk things through. Once the line of communication is broken, it is impossible to deal with your issues and therefore the relationship grows cold because with minimal communication there is a lot more room for conflict and misunderstanding.

4. Lack of Excitement

No relationship can maintain the honeymoon phase forever, but there is nothing more important than keeping your relationship fresh and fun. The more time you spend with each other, the more familiar you become and the less exciting your relationship seems to be.

5. Different Goals and Desires

Once you become more intimate and learn more things about each other, you get a clearer picture of where you stand in your relationship. While some see a potential for a true match, others realize that their life goals differ. For example, it might be difficult for a man who want to have many children to be with a person who doesn’t plan on having children.

6. Jealousy

A little bit of jealousy is healthy in a relationship. After all it would be a little bit peculiar for your partner to experience nothing when you get attention from the opposite sex. However it is a whole different story when jealousy takes on another form and truly causes conflict. Excess jealousy from both sides can be completely detrimental to the relationship.

7. Major Life Changes

Sometimes all it takes to fall out of love is to face major life changes. Losing a job or losing a loved one can put you into a bad place in your life, which can ultimately damage your current relationship. Many stressors in life can trigger a rocky path for relationships and those with a weak foundation seem to crumble at the speed of light.
Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jul 06, 2015
Miscommunication or lack of communication...nice one op.
Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by ArchEnemy(m): 1:26pm On Jul 06, 2015
Financial hullabaloo
Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by anuma1(m): 1:29pm On Jul 06, 2015
Love. Lost. Finish
Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by muhyeenisce(m): 1:30pm On Jul 06, 2015
Hmmm in ukwa's voice Oh! Suzana abi yyou no love me again MONEY go LOVE go...akpalakpala self contribute
Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
Infidelity. When there's no longer a mutual affection between parties involved.
Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
Financial stability should top the list.
Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jul 06, 2015
The root of your points is miscommunication.

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Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jul 06, 2015
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Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jul 06, 2015
Lack of money or lots of money
Sudden Lack of money the girl jilts you
Sudden Lots of money the guy jilts you

But then I think that will fall under point no. 7
Re: Unfortunate Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love ... by pillan(f): 3:20pm On Jul 06, 2015
Especially #2..hmmm

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