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True Facts About Relationships by deardamsel2(f): 8:43pm On Jul 14, 2015
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things arenot better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending. Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage… Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary not supplementary.

Dating is fun… Even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful. Dr. Phil says.

You should know that: You’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he’ll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he’s not the only one, They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.

Ladies take care of your own hearts!
Re: True Facts About Relationships by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jul 14, 2015

FEMINISM


Midehi I see you oh
Re: True Facts About Relationships by Olami90: 8:47pm On Jul 14, 2015
Following

Dey will neva tell themselves d truth
#feminist+wannabes
Re: True Facts About Relationships by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jul 14, 2015
noted
Re: True Facts About Relationships by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jul 14, 2015
Freemanan:

FEMINISM

Midehi I see you oh
that was a good one.

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Re: True Facts About Relationships by piicity(m): 8:52pm On Jul 14, 2015
IDEA GURL,WOW MIDEHI IS ALREADY HERE[/hr]
Re: True Facts About Relationships by Youngpo413: 9:23am On Nov 12, 2021
Re: True Facts About Relationships by Bigpapi: 9:53am On Nov 12, 2021
deardamsel2:
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things arenot better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending. Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage… Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary not supplementary.

Dating is fun… Even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful. Dr. Phil says.

You should know that: You’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he’ll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he’s not the only one, They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.

Ladies take care of your own hearts!








Who do you this thing

Re: True Facts About Relationships by tosaino95(m): 10:02am On Nov 12, 2021
what about girls that doesn't want guys you don't have any words about them undecided is like your head head is paining you abi
Re: True Facts About Relationships by Nobody: 1:56pm On Nov 12, 2021
[quote author=deardamsel2 post=35864910]If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.


Isn't it suprising that women of these days tend to "know" men better than the men themselves cheesy cheesy grin??

A man can do this.... A man can't do this ... If a man does this, he's automatically this... Kikikikikiki grin grin...And the men be like, whatayou talking.... kikikikikiki grin

And yet despite all women "claim to know" about men, lots of them still get played and dumped...((I'm sure you will blame the men for this.... kikikikikiki grin grin))

Sweetheart...
Just because one man who didn't love you, acted a certain way, doesn't mean you should conclude that other men will act like that??

It's high time women stop putting all men into one bunch and start seeing men as separate individuals, with different likes and dislikes....who will act a different way when treated differently!!!!

Rather than assume that all men fall into the same bunch and experiment ((painfully)), in the course of the relationship, why not ask your MAN, what he wants and try to meet his demands

Until then...
Keep on yen yen yen yen yen... kikikikikiki grin

#awon-men-are-laka-dis-dat
Kikikikikiki cheesy grin

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