There are a few particular things that REALLY annoy single, attractive women.

One of the reasons that these things annoy women is because they’re DEAL KILLERS.

A woman can like everything about you, but if you do these things (or even ONE of these things), it can DESTROY your chances of success.

Here are three of the BIG things that single women hate:

1)Giving Up Your Status In Exchange For Her Attention And Approval

If I had to describe the one single thing that both annoys women and DESTROYS a guy’s chances, it would be this.

It has taken me a long time to see this particular pattern, but it’s EVERYWHERE.

Men, in effect, say “Hi, I want your approval and attention. I’m willing to let YOU be the one who’s in control… and let YOU call the shots… and do anything to please YOU… if you’ll give me your attention and approval”.

But the problem is that women DON’T WANT you to give up your status and “manliness”.

Women aren’t ATTRACTED to men who act weak and tentative.

Women secretly HATE IT when a guy does something to demonstrate that he’ll give away his power in return for approval.

THEY HATE IT!

I could literally write an entire book on this one single concept.

Take a few minutes to think this one over, and maybe write down the ways that you make this mistake with women.

More importantly, think about how you’re going to STOP DOING IT IMMEDIATELY.

Women secretly HATE IT when a guy does something to demonstrate that he’ll give away his power in return for approval.
Being Needy, Clingy, And Insecure

When one person “clings” to another person “psychologically”, the person who is being “clinged to” RESENTS and REJECTS the needy, clingy emotional parasite…

This is WUSS behavior at its worst.

If a guy is on the phone with a girl he just met, and she says “Hey, I have to go”, he might say “Aw, well… um …OK. Um, will you call me when you get home? ”

And an even worse example is a guy who is so emotionally insecure that he actually ASKS a woman to tell him that he’s nice, fun, interesting, etc.

“Do you think I’m interesting? ”

“Do you think we could ever have a relationship? ”

“Am I your type? ”

Women HATE this stuff. It makes them shiver with the heebie-jeebies. It makes them want to RUN AWAY.

2) Not Understanding Attraction

This is a BIGGIE.

Women can FEEL IT when they’re with a guy who “gets it”.

Women know very quickly if they’re talking to a guy who understands himself and women… and who enjoys creating and building sexual tension.

Women know if a guy speaks the SECRET LANGUAGE of “Sexual Communication”.

If he doesn’t, then she stops all communication on that level.

If he does, then it continues.

3) ATTRACTION Isn’t A Choice.

Attraction is an emotional and physical RESPONSE… and you can’t “convince” a woman to feel it with logic, gifts, and NICENESS.

Attraction is the result of a woman meeting a man who understands how attraction works… and who knows what to do in each specific situation to progress to the next level.

The PROBLEM with ATTRACTION, and with success with women in general is that the things you need to DO to be successful are NOT OBVIOUS.

They’re “counter intuitive”, in many cases.

In other words, they’re the OPPOSITE of what you’d THINK would make sense.

You have to do things like CREATE TENSION… stop doing something that she likes… give her time to miss you… etc.

Now that I’ve shared these three mistakes, you need the next piece of the puzzle. You need to get an education on how attraction works for women… and the RIGHT and IMPORTANT things to do up front to give her those emotional/physical feelings inside.

I'll read when it is successful.

@OP.. yea.. you are walking down my street..

Op do some men really do that no 1.

As in give up ur self esteem for a woman ?

At this age and time?

Your submission is more like a generalization hence the absence of phrase like "most or some ladies" and I suggest you review your observations with a view to identifying if the phrase "women in general" is more appropriate than "most women". While I agree with you that it could pertain to some people, there are still others who sees it from a different perspective. More so, when analysing issues that pertains to tribe, gender, etc, a wrong choice of word or its usage can easily lead you to commit fallacy of false generalisation. There must always be a mixture of extreme opposites in any group.
One this topic, let me remind you that before two people can work together, they need mutual consent. As a result, the approval of the other party is compulsory. Seeking approval from the other party on what you intend to do is a mark of regard for his/her opinion. The absence of it gives you away as the uncommanded commander and this authoritarian posture is a turn off in most cases.
Your topic on attraction is one area that is vast and vague because there is no particular strategy for stimulation. A lady's's attractions is largely dependent on her value system and preferences. Some ladies can be attracted to a garrulous comedian while others are attracted to you based on how focused and intelligent you sound when engaged in a conversation. So, being "interesting" to a lady depends on what "stimulates her interest".

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Achilies:
Op do some men really do that no 1.

As in give up ur self esteem for a woman ?

At this age and time?

Guy yes o.
It's called woman rappering

Really??

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Hold it, hold it, hold it there, young man! What exactly is your point, that women are superhuman or what? Now that's a DEAL KILLER: you just destroyed your chances of success with every nairaland lady by overtly worshipping them.

Truth

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RickRichards:
Hold it, hold it, hold it there, young man! What exactly is your point, that women are superhuman or what? Now that's a DEAL KILLER: you just destroyed your chances of success with every nairaland lady by overtly worshipping them.

Do u even understand my post ??

My point is women are not that special at least not to the point of a man playing mugu just to get her approval.

In other words stop acting so thirsty

it's true sha........OP thumbs up for you

Legionss:
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Do u even understand my post ??

My point is women are not that special at least not to the point of a man playing mugu just to get her approval.

You heard him, nairaland ladies. He doesn't think you're special: he thinks you're bland, unsophisticated, plain vanilla, etc. His thoughts; not mine. I just paraphrased for him because I'm a saint, so I'm nice.

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RickRichards:
Hold it, hold it, hold it there, young man! What exactly is your point, that women are superhuman or what? Now that's a DEAL KILLER: you just destroyed your chances of success with every nairaland lady by overtly worshipping them.

What the op is trying to say here is that those 3 things some men do just to get approval from women can spoil there chances with her.

But come to think of it if a woman say u no go see her pant.
Guy you no go see am no matter wetin u do.

Achilies:
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What the op is trying to say here is that those 3 things some men do just to get approval from women can spoil there chances with her.

But come to think of it if a woman say u no go see her pant.
Guy you no go see am no matter wetin u do.

So this was all about getting physical? Ladies, I hope you're watching this.

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RickRichards:

So this was all about getting physical? Ladies, I hope you're watching this.

Guy pls Stop woman wrappering it's not Good for u o.

Achilies:
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Guy pls Stop woman wrappering it's not Good for u o.

You think that's what I'm doing? Haha!