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Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by leeman009: 11:40am On Jul 21, 2015 |
nairalife2013: |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by akudinaobi(m): 11:40am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Prayer and steadfastness in your doing @38 still squrting That's your home and its yours to secure But how guarantee are you that ,your husband will change even if he leaves the house Its just prayer and being smart ,that's all |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Youngzedd(m): 11:40am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Mancity26: Which one is Calabar style |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by leeman009: 11:40am On Jul 21, 2015 |
nairalife2013:well said. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nobody: 11:41am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Is your husband not an adult to decipher between good and bad? He merely needed a catalyst to drive and execute his cravings. Remove your BIL and he finds another catalyst....this time it will be very hard to know what going on. Sniffing on him or stalking him puts you in a weak position.....except you can do something drastic about that by reading the riot act. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Ewizard(m): 11:42am On Jul 21, 2015 |
lagmostkuit: deduce... most appropriate! |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by sotum2: 11:47am On Jul 21, 2015 |
MixedMan: Watch this footage and call the man of God, he will pray with you via phone and ur story will change: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YPbRqAlHzkI&app=desktop&persist_app=1&gl=NG&hl=en&client=mv-google. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by starkids: 11:50am On Jul 21, 2015 |
it has been in your husband mind to go out with other women,his brother only came to support it. 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by damoni: 11:53am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Madam u really have to pray and may be find some of your husband's'good friends and talk to them or his good relatives that u know may be they could talk some sence into him, also report ur husband's'brother to his mun and dad if they are still alive |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nobody: 11:56am On Jul 21, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:wat happend to U |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by marwanafrica: 11:59am On Jul 21, 2015 |
6ty6ix: bae u are having my frnd in ur dp, wat a coincedence, |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Lexusgs430: 12:01pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Once a lion taste human blood, it seeks delight in killing humans. Your husband has tasted been promiscuous, and there is no stopping him, until you lay difficult cards on your husbands lap or in his head!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
milychocs: 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by obichiekweibe59: 12:09pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Madam,first and foremost are you faithful to your husband? If you are and you think he trusts you HERE is what you will do. You must set your brother inlaw up.There is no brotherhood when a man sees his brother trying to sleep with his wife. Do a good work of getting your husband to know that the idiot has been chasing after you. First encourage your BL with body language,lead him on till he begins to believe.Then inform your husband and get him to observe what you are saying.In one swift decision the guy is out of your house and you then begin to rebuild your marriage. Mind you the guy has already dragged your hubby into rubbish, so you need to work on him gradually to bring him back to you. If you fail to do so,the marriage will become history with such fool around. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by vague: 12:12pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
TwentySeven:Nigerians arw funny people, so you are still encouraging sexual intercourse with such a man when we all know right from primary school that condoms are not 100%, you can still get STIs even when you use condoms. 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by cinedu(m): 12:20pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
MixedMan:Men are polygamous in nature, deal with that. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
this is serious. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Adedaniel211(m): 12:23pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
0luwatope:#BADDEST 1 Like |
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Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Roland17(m): 12:26pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
@milychocs Nne, I sincerely appreciate your school of thought which Infact is an acceptable norm in our society as Africans, I did mention somewhere in my post where I alluded to her magnanimity and kindness being taken for granted especially if she was consulted before the baby elephant intruded, which I doubt she was.. Now let me ask, should the survival and happiness of a young marriage be sacrificed on the altar of brotherhood? One that is an obvious negative influence on your partner? Would you as a woman accept such especially if her story is genuine? Again I subscribe to your idea but the difference is in established marriages, not early marriages....I would use myself as an example, when I was pursuing my bachelors during my stay in Nigeria, I often visited my uncle who resided in a boundary state during short vacation periods rather than traveling back to Lagos, whenever I was there I ensured I contributed my quota in home chores, babysitting my cousins who were younger at that time, ensuring I respected my aunt who is a very kind hearted wife and above all I made sure my stay was a very short stay. Based off her story the maturity of her husband is quite questionable, where his priority lies reels shame to the hearts of genuine men out there (single or married), there must have been a recessive atom of waywardness within her husband as his actions transcends mere fantasies. Many wives in our culture have being silently enslaved in their marriages owing to negative influences from bloodlines, it is not acceptable especially if it is not welcomed. 8 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by An2elect2(f): 12:29pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
GodnGold: pls talk less. 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by matingo(f): 12:32pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Don't go about stalking him. You will kill yourself with hypertension and your husband will be free to date dm very well. Also ur BIL is not ur prob, it's ur husby, nobody can force him to do what he does not want to do. Talk to him when he's in a good mood, he might tell you what the issue is and if not go to God in prayers. Cheers! |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by An2elect2(f): 12:33pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
cinedu:And you have brains 3 Likes |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:41pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Swissheart: Generally, people don't give two shits about PAST favours. Only present and future benefits. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by preetyb(f): 12:45pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
[quote author=OREMUSSANCTUS post=36058069]Rat poison full everwhere[/quote Who will she give it to, the husband or the brother? 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by MrDoGood(m): 12:49pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Op dress and act like a chic in other words girlfriend. Go back and start doing the things that attracted him to you. Don't just relax as a house wife!!!! Dress smart for your husband and always look smart. Go to the club with him............ |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by laudable: 12:54pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
My advise is prayer, please pray harder and fast fervently, you will see the changes in him. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nicepoker(m): 12:54pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:after killing him what. Next |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nicepoker(m): 12:58pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Hmmmm I don't interfere in people's matrimonial affairs. |
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Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Ewizard:Thanks |
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