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Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by michaelwilli(m): 8:55pm On Jul 22, 2015
I believe a guy should be older than the lady. Adam was created before eve, Abraham was older dan sarah. Well dats not enough reason but what do you think?
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by madgoat(m): 8:57pm On Jul 22, 2015
The guy ofcourse
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:57pm On Jul 22, 2015
K
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by sseunth(m): 8:59pm On Jul 22, 2015
Anybody....all you need is maturity, understand and. Trust

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Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Jul 22, 2015
The guy should be older.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Gurgle(f): 10:59pm On Jul 22, 2015
The guy

Guys take longer to mature, then when they turn into real men they can face anything

Women mature steadily throughout their lives

So the guy should be older by far

But obviously there are exceptions
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Tashaamania(f): 11:02pm On Jul 22, 2015
Gurgle:
The guy

Guys take longer to mature, then when they turn into real men they can face anything

Women mature steadily throughout their lives

So the guy should be older by far

But obviously there are exceptions
I know you. cheesy
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Gurgle(f): 11:04pm On Jul 22, 2015
Tashaamania:

I know you. cheesy

grin ? have we met before
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Tashaamania(f): 11:06pm On Jul 22, 2015
Gurgle:


grin ? have we met before
No, but I know you grin
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Gurgle(f): 11:07pm On Jul 22, 2015
Tashaamania:
No, but I know you grin

Lol what do you mean, im so curious
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Tashaamania(f): 11:08pm On Jul 22, 2015
Gurgle:


Lol what do you mean, im so curious
Awww grin tongue
Okay, I mean I know your former moniker.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Gurgle(f): 11:09pm On Jul 22, 2015
Tashaamania:
Awww grin tongue
Okay, I mean I know your former moniker.

Lol you think so? I have quite a few. But how did you know?
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Sunexy(m): 11:12pm On Jul 22, 2015
Women shud be older


COUGAR tins grin grin grin grin
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Tashaamania(f): 11:13pm On Jul 22, 2015
Gurgle:


Lol you think so? I have quite a few. But how did you know?
I observe to a fault. Enjoy the rest of your evening, hun.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Gurgle(f): 11:22pm On Jul 22, 2015
Tashaamania:

I observe to a fault. Enjoy the rest of your evening, hun.

what

aren't you going to tell me who I am
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Tashaamania(f): 11:23pm On Jul 22, 2015
Gurgle:


what

aren't you going to tell me who I am
For what na? E má worry.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Gurgle(f): 11:25pm On Jul 22, 2015
Tashaamania:
For what na? E má worry .

?? to the bolded

ok if I PM you will you stop torturing me grin
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jul 22, 2015
The guy, but age isn't supposed to be a barrier.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Tashaamania(f): 11:28pm On Jul 22, 2015
Gurgle:


?? to the bolded

ok if I PM you will you stop torturing me grin

Means don't worry.

Haba, are you uncomfortable that I know your other moniker?
I'm not doing anything with it. I'm not telling anyone, either.
I was just saying.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by LEvuls(m): 11:33pm On Jul 22, 2015
Tashaamania:
Means don't worry.
Haba, are you uncomfortable that I know your other moniker? I'm not doing anything with it. I'm not telling anyone, either. I was just saying.
(sneaked in) tell me something
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:46am On Jul 23, 2015
Who cares? Love is love. Why limit yourself based on a matter of months and years?
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by harffie(m): 6:05am On Jul 23, 2015
Rainess:
Who cares? Love is love. Why limit yourself based on a matter of months and years?
. Love isn't always love... #i like older women tho..#iono why but I find them interesting....
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Dirkcoyt: 9:23am On Nov 16, 2015
harffie:
. Love isn't always love... #i like older women tho..#iono why but I find them interesting....

Sincerely I don't know! Older women turns me on,I've been with few and let them know I'm not in this for money or whatever just to please my nature, well maybe I'm a dominor sha.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by charlemon: 9:42am On Nov 16, 2015
Any can be older. I don't know why humans like to say what God never said. When did God ever say the man must be older? When he created eve did HE say henceforth the woman must be the younger companion?

Also, this nonsense about ageing and a woman being wiser is one of the most widespread human stupidity that has now been considered as a fact. No gender is wiser than the other, it is a personal factor. Anybody can be wiser than another depending on how u choose to develop yourself. Also, a person ages based on several factors and not like one gender was created by God to grow older faster than the other.

These same men are the ones that are always quick to categorise what aspect of life a woman is wiser or foolish to fit their chauvinistic attitudes.

A woman or man can be older but what matters firstly is Love and understanding. If you are marrying someone older in a society where it is considered funny or inappropriate, you should be able to ignore everyone and their opinion if u really love the person you are with. After all, the end result of life is death.

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Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by valdes00(m): 10:04am On Nov 16, 2015
abeg mak una no discourage me oo.... my gf is older n am nt complaining buh dis una comment don dey mak me gt rethink..... if I breakup up wit am, na NLders cause am..... #fact
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by grad2012(f): 10:12am On Nov 16, 2015
Any of dem can be older,age is not maturity der some older guys dat act so immature.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Dubemkelly(m): 11:30am On Nov 16, 2015
The man in most cases but then if the people involved are mature and have a good level of understanding, then there cant be much cause for alarm
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by cornoil(m): 11:32am On Nov 16, 2015
A woman could be older, but the age gap not too much.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by cornoil(m): 11:34am On Nov 16, 2015
Nice thought, a woman could be older but the age gap not more than 3 to 4 years.
grad2012:
Any of dem can be older,age is not maturity der some older guys dat act so immature.

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Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by harffie(m): 7:15pm On Nov 16, 2015
Dirkcoyt:


Sincerely I don't know! Older women turns me on,I've been with few and let them know I'm not in this for money or whatever just to please my nature, well maybe I'm a dominor sha.
What's a Dominor? #Cover face
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Dirkcoyt: 7:39pm On Nov 16, 2015
harffie:
What's a Dominor? #Cover face
a man who likes to dominates people or opposite sex, domina a lady who dominates people or opposite sex.
Re: Who Should Be Older In A Relationship? by Bamz555: 12:50am On Nov 17, 2015
Don't mistake Age or Love for respect. Respect is all dat matters. Nd don't 4get, it is reciprocal.

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