I thought I know everything about my wife-to-be but the latest event that unfolded proved me wrong. We've been in a relationship for six years. We've been dating since our third year in the university and we've scheduled our introduction for November this year with the wedding to follow early next year. She got a call from her mother in June that her "nephew" was seriously sick and is on admission in the hospital. She became so worried to the extent that I had to ask about the whereabout of the boy's parents but she couldn't give me a concrete reply. I decided to go with her and we went straight to the hospital and we met her mum and her mum's friend there. Not that I was eavesdropping but from the conversation between her and her mum, I got to know that her so-called "nephew" is actually her son! After his discharge from the hospital, I confronted her with the issue, she tried to deny it and I told her everything I heard from her conversation with her mum. It was then she opened up that she got pregnant after her secondary school and decided to keep it secret because she doesn't want to lose me. I told her that with what she did she has lost me already. She has been begging me since then and her mum has also pleaded on her behalf but they both lied to me. I find it very difficult to trust her again.


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Trust very important in any relationship.

for Six years, she kept that away from you.


Men, human heart is very shallow.

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M0ve 0n bruh......six yrs n0bi six seconds....she tricked u

I think u shud try put urself in her shoes, wat she did was wrong tho,she shud ve told u at d onset of d rlatnship, she had a child wen she was in sec sch, jst imagine wat she went tru, n d stigma attached to it, probably she had decided to kip it a secret long b4 she met u.

I think shes jst scared of loosin u, cos most men dont want a baby mama. For u to call her ur wife to b, it shows she exhibits qualities u desire, so if u still love her, u can cont wid d rlatnship, d child can continue to remain with her mother.

Awwwww

dulux07:
I think u shud try put urself in her shoes, wat she did was wrong tho,she shud ve told u at d onset of d rlatnship, she had a child wen she was in sec sch, jst imagine wat she went tru, n d stigma attached to it, probably she had decided to kip it a secret long b4 she met u.
I think shes jst scared of loosin u, cos most men dont want a baby mama. For u to call her ur wife to b, it shows she exhibits qualities u desire, so if u still love her, u can cont wid d rlatnship, d child can continue to remain with her mother.

op this is the best answer.

Sorry bro, I think you should be happy the truth came out whilst you are still dating her.

Actually, I've a friend who recently discovered his Wife has a son of 9 years for another man. She hid it(Truth) from him while they were dating. Meanwhile, My friend has been the one paying his school fees due to the fact that the "Wife" told him the young boy is her cousin - and he belived and trusted her right from day one.

Now, she's pregnant with their second child and my friend is so disappointed. He's not eaten her food for days.

Not everyone is to be trusted. That's just my opinion!!!

She was wrong by hiding that fact from you.

But let's face it. Assuming she had an abortion, would you have been this angry or even knew what happened?

Or

Assuming she told you at the very beginning would you have even given her a second glance?

She did wrong i repeat for not telling you but think about what you guys has passed through. Because i believe 6years is not 6days or 6weeks.

Besides assuming you discovered that she got a mansion instead of the child, would you have been this angry?

It will be very difficult for the guy to ever love the girl.I don't know why many ladies always want to hide their children from their engaged spouses.

Op u dey ma.d o so a single mum is nt a humanbeing? Make thun.der fire ur scrotvms

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Dump her ass asap wtf investigate further she may b a divorcee or have more kids elsewhere. She did it bc she doesn't wanna lose u is totally unacceptable n dnt buy dt sick tot

She is still keeping a lots of things from you.

OP believe me,if that lady can hide her "nephew" from you for six years,she can kill you and hide your corpse for hundred years.Pls just forget everything about her and move on with your life.