When I hear people complain about the sex of their childred, I just wonder how unappreciative humans can be. There are millions out there praying to get 'any type of child' only for some one with three to complain. I have 2 lovely girls and I am very proud, happy and lucky to have them. I have friends who have been married for more than 8years and are still looking for the fruit of the womb. The reasons given by our fore fathers for preferring male kids then do not hold water these days. Are you taking the kids to farm or to wrestle in your village?

As for me, av got 2 and am satisfied. Don't even need anymore kids. My desire is to give them the best education that my dad couldn't give me.

Word!!
I feel great know'g there are few people like you out there
_{if that was sincere now}

If you focus on you why have the kids at all.

If she cant be "WIll smith" she can be "Oprah"

If he cant be "Doyin Abiola" He can be "Wole soyinka"

It in you hands so what the fuss

Solutions simple. Need to track when the woman ovulates. Normal menstrual cycle is 28 days, in some women it varies. Women ovulate 14th day in a 28 day cycle.

Earlier you have sex closer to the ovulation date more likely a male. Male Sperm with Y chromsome swims faster than X chromosome sperm. The later you have sex/intercourse from the ovulation date more likely a female. The X chromosome sperm slower but last longer.

So its up to both male and female the sex of a child. timing of the act/intercourse, ovulation period, ect.

Raise the girl as a boy. Problem solved.

the sex of the child doesn,t matter.cos the man determines the gender of the baby.so the man doesn,t have any right to question the woman.a man who does dat is not wise and he should try and kip his head lol.

two girls, and then another girl?

i'll just jump up and dance!, that she even deliverd d baby sef na joy, wu has time to start contemplatin wat sex d child be?

you know, God knows d intent of the heart
if you had d third girl and you feel you still need a baby boy, and you dont even appreciate the fact that you had those three girls - this is just wats gonna happen to you

no it does not matter at all.

its just a fulfilment of prophecy of the last days

Honestly i can't believe we are even discussing this who cares if as long as the child is healthy, anyway i am sure there's a man out there who would rather have a boy with down syndrome to a healthy girl

It does though, but its no longer news that you can select the SEX of your child be choosing the "right time" to have sex and cause pregnancy! i've know this was possible since i was a little kid, but i just don't know the process! but fact is, getting a male needs more timing than a female! you're most likely to get a female without even asking for it! and getting a male, you should have sex at a certain period/time, or something like that! Perhaps, you guys should do more research on that, but i know its not news though!

it does not matter whether male or female some people are out there looking for just a
child let us thank God for giving us one l will advice us to be Grateful

kheme:

It does though, but its no longer news that you can select the SEX of your child be choosing the "right time" to have sex and cause pregnancy! i've know this was possible since i was a little kid, but i just don't know the process! but fact is, getting a male needs more timing than a female! you're most likely to get a female without even asking for it! and getting a male, you should have sex at a certain period/time, or something like that! Perhaps, you guys should do more research on that, but i know its not news though!

You seriously don't believe a word you typed right? It seems to me that you don't know exactly how babies are conceived or how a baby's sex is determined genetically. I suppose this is not your fault. . .obviously, you did not go through any sex-education classes (or perhaps you haven't gotten to them yet).

If the studies in this thread

http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview?id=381462


Are to be believed, then 'scoring' a boy is more due to timing than anything else. Since boy sperm is weaker than girl sperm, if you bang your mama too long before she lays her eyin (hegg/egg/ovum/target) all ya boy sperm will be DEAD by the time she ovulates and the stronger girl sperm are still hanging around! OOOOh the humanity!!!!!  

So if you HIT IT at the right time ONLY, and remain CELIBATE for the rest of the period, you got a better chance of hitting a boy!

If you BANG BANG BANG , AH JUS DEY GOOOOOOOO!!!! 24-7-365 then you are gonna get a GIRL!!!!

secondary factors are:

1) female orgasm: orgasm lowers the pH of the vagina, favoring the weaker male sperm
2) deep penetration: reduces the length of the journey to the ovum, favouring the weaker (but faster) male sperm

We have an  idea that the dude who 'pounds harder' with more 'strength and vigour' will get  a boy. This has (if the above is to be believed) both thruth and fiction:

a) a hard pounding mad muscle man is more likely to deposit the spunk higher up, favouring boys
b) a mighty warrior is more likely to get an orgasm from his wife, which favours boys.


However, some women dont orgasm when you batter them like ballistic missiles- they come when you are nice and gentle. Such a woman will probably get more booys from the guy that doesnt POUND IT LIKE IYAN

Also, a dude with a BIG KPACK will likely deposit higher up without the need for pounding. So more props to the LONG MEN out there

A BIG KPACK WARRIOR is also more likely to get an orgasm without the need to mix it up with VIGOUR!

so we can conclude:
Is not just BROKE HER HARDER LONGER AND MORE FREQUENTLY!!!AAAAAAGH! to get a boy! you gotta time it, then u gotta make her come, AND you gotta PLUG HER DEEP!


(sad story: after all this u can still end up with a girl! Well too bad! )


Personal opinion: I would rather have a girl because they are less stress! Take this from a guy who has had to do babysitter duty for EXTENDED periods of time and has interacted with lil kids enough to know say BOY NO BE YAM, if my wife has boys she is on her own ooooooooo  make she carry am go show mummy and daddy for village, me i dont give a ******

it does not matter at all. girl or boy, all are human!
besides God knows why and they all can be raised
to be great personalities in future.

There are a lot of great women in the world
and a lot of useless and aimless men around too

Last time I checked Ngozi Iweala-Okonjo was a woman,

Oprah winfrey is a woman and a hose of others.

My wife is expectant of our first baby and to tell you the truth

I don't care whether it will male or female. Am I God?

I know a couple that have had 8 girls because they are trying for a male child.Its silly.Does it matter nowadays?

@ I-man,

You name sounds like mine , except it is a male version



@Topic,

Sometimes we need to just accept whatever child(ren) we get. The african obsession with a male heir child is is sometimes overboard.

Like someone said, we have too many aimless men around, no wonder there are lots of area boys.

are we still on this discussion? what exactly can a male child do that a female one cant? these days women seem to hustle more. and i wasnt joking about that.

spoilt:

are we still on this discussion? what exactly can a male child do that a female one can't? these days women seem to hustle more. and i wasnt joking about that.

y'right

lol

Imani:

@ I-man,

You name sounds like mine , except it is a male version

.  .  . and you are using.  .   .  . screensaver 

I prefer to have a female child to a male child.Maybe my wife will give birth to 8 sons

I-man:

.  .  . and you are using.  .   .  . screensaver 

Hmmm

pray to God. he knows about it all b4 you even think of doing it so take heart. i feel your pain cause you are an african man. do worry just keep on praying your prayer will be answered.

@I-man,


I think i know who you are now.

Be thankful for having a healthy baby, boy or girl does not matter what matters is how well you raised them

true talk

Just be sure to know when to stop.
Its pointless having kid after kid just because you want a boy.
If your limit is 3 then after this stop regardless of the sex.

@ topic, since ure so bothered about the sex of ur child y dont u create a 'boy' for urself. So some people still reason like this poster in this day and age?

Hi, I could understand the situation you are in. Dont loose hope in life. There are lots without babies but you have been blessed with three children. No one is neither you nor your spouse is responsible or to be blamed if the sex of the baby is not as expected. This is what, you have been given. Girl children are only very affectionate. You shouldnt think yourself very unlucky or upset. This is the perfect example of "Man proposes and god disposes". Whatsoever be the situation the life should move on. Dont just stop and keep thinking of it. If you think deeply about life then you will understand that there is only very little in our hands. Give your children very good education. You will be blessed with a son in law who will be very affectionate to you after 20 yrs.

life is 2 short 2 worry about such things(NEGATIVE).i simply love women,i don't care.so bring it on.

@ poster it ok, my mom had 4 girls before the boys so its fine,