You are already having 2 females as your kids and pronto your wife gives birth to another one. How would you react pls.

Does the sex of the baby matters

Does the sex of the baby matters?
NO, at all, it doesnt matter

then y do some men take off after such news is broken to them of their wives.

y must it be a baby boy

but, i think that was then, not now...... now some men dont complain anymore about wat sex a child must be.....

i think i would complain if i really wanted a son and get three kids.

I'll keep on trying with only doggy style (the best sexual position that can guarantee a male child) till I get my bouncing baby boy

more info here http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview?id=381462

The chromosone to make the baby a boy exists within the semen of the men. He keeps producing girls he should be happy. All that matters is that the baby is alright.

deep down our nigerian men no matter their generation still prefer boys to girls

Thank God!
what annoys me is guys who blame dia wives..
ignorant buffoons...

vexxy, I was about to give the males that lesson,lol! thanks.
@mamba, you'll end up like my friends mother,at the end, she got 10 girls, at last the boy was #11

this man should be happy to have children. There are many out there still begging God to have children. In addition, he should thank God and pray that he have enough money and good health to care for his family so they can care for him in his old age.

Renike:

Thank God!
what annoys me is guys who blame dia wives..
ignorant buffoons...

Buffoons indeed o!

The Bible itself encourages childbirth - Book of Genesis : '.....Go forth....., thou, and thy wife, and thy sons, and thy sons' wives
... And you, be ye fruitful, and multiply; bring forth abundantly......'

So you better accept your 'divine' responsibility and jump up and down your house when your wife finally falls pregnant of her 11th son.......making the footall team thus complete - AMEN!

D sex of d baby doesn't matter at all, n besides,it's not d lady's fault, it's d man's fault coz he's d 1 in d position 2 choose wot d sex of d next baby's gonna be.Man is XY while woman is XX.

dosent really matter

A child is a child, be it a boy or a girl. There are some people out there who can't even have any, and are praying to God to have one even it is a boy/girl, and there u have some men complaining about the sex of their baby...they ought to be happy for having a child at all. How ungreatful such men are!

hi asl pls my name is adeola may i know u better pls bye

it's the fault of the man, so he needs to take it like that. by the way what is the different. if he is not srong enough to produce a boy, he should keep pounding for more girls.

there is never a scientific claim that says woman can affect the sex of the baby. and about your acidic virginal fluid, there is nothing like that unless you can give me prefference, then i will believe you. comprende?

you can not provide proof because you are dumb. as for me i never ecounter such thing like that. so, i think you should shut up if you can not proof what you are saying.

For centuries before the advent of modern medical science, it was believed that the woman was responsible for the birth of a male or a female child and that the male had no say in choosing the sex of the unborn baby. Even today in many Indian villages and other rural areas around the world (where ignorance of medical knowledge still prevails)--it is the woman who is still incriminated and blamed for repeatedly giving birth to a female child. But now with the discovery of the x-chromosomes sperms and y-chromosomes sperms in the semen, the medical scientists proclaimed that it is the male who is responsible for choosing or selecting the sex of the baby. But the medical scientists have overlooked one very important factor : namely the patho-physiological conditions, status of the sperms and the ovum and other unseen factors leading to chemotaxis (attraction of the sperms towards the ovum)---which finally leads to conception and eve ntually decides the sex of the baby.

Now let us examine the patho-physiology and the ionic status of the 'x' and 'y' sperms, and the variable charge of the ovum, which ultimately decides which sperm (x or y) will fertilize the ovum.

By prior knowledge we now know that sperms containing the X chromosome are negatively charged while sperms containing the Y chromosome are positively charged. This fact was observed when the sperms were separated by electrophoresis. Numerous studies have revealed that when a weak electrical current was passed through a solution containing spermatozoa, those with the X chromosome were attracted by the anode (+) and those with the Y chromosome by the cathode (-). Some scientists have also identified the appearance of a brief luminous ring at the moment of contact between spermatozoon and ovule. This phenomenon has since been measured and is proof of an electrical involvement in fertilization. Also the charge on the ovum membrane was not fixed but alternated from positive to neutral and to a negative charge in a cycle. This was called the polarity cycle of the ovum membrane. This polarity was found to be predictable but totally sep arate from the menstrual cycle. The polarity cycle, which is unknown to most of us, was there in addition to the ovulation/menstrual cycle.

The argument behind this finding is that gender (sex) of the baby is influenced by what scientists call "ionic factors" which generate the charge on the ovum membrane and on the sperms.

So in man-woman relationship, man is always the proposer and woman is always the chooser never vice versa.

From the above observation we can say that the proposing rights are a male prerogative and the choosing rights lie exclusively with the female. Just as a woman cannot be impregnated against her wishes, similarly at the microlevel both sperms (x and y having different charge) are attracted to the ovum having a variable charge---but only the sperm, which has the opposite charge from that of the ovum will be able to fertilize the ovum and the other sperm will be rejected.

So when the ovum membrane is positively charged, it will attract the sperm carrying X chromosome (which is negatively charged) and a baby girl is produced. When the ovum membrane is negatively charged, it will attract the sperm carrying the Y chromosome (which is positively charged), and a baby boy is produced. In short, we can say that the 'mating rights' are exclusively with the ovum only; once the ovum is fertilized then only the x or y sperm determines the sex of the baby (xx means a female and xy means a male). So would it not be most appropriate to say that it is the female that chooses the sex of the baby (by virtue of selecting which sperm to mate with) and the male only determines the sex of the baby after conception.

U CAN ALL PICK UR ANSWER 4RM D ABOVE. NO FIGHTIN IN D FORUM ROOM

sbucareer:


I disagree with you AK-47. It is not the fault of the man. It is no ones fault. Some women have very acidic virginal fluids that kill the sperms. Some women are very difficult to come wet, if you understand me. That fluid help to neutralise the walls of the virgina before the sperm can come in. If this is not done on a timely fashion it affects the rational probability of sex.

Because men can produce the chromosome of both male and female whilst women can only produce the chromosomes of female do not exempt them from the problem domain of sex issues. But the truth is that every party is to be blamed particularly men.

I see no reason for having unwanted children for the sake of a male child. We ought to have grown out of this nonesense male child thing. A woman can do whatever a man can do, even better. Let a woman rule Nigeria you will see difference.

According to this, it is the man's fault if he doesn't have male children.

Dude, the topic is about when you actually HAVE the kids, not the problem of INFERTILITY. Those are two different things. Here, we are discussing constantly producing female children. Your post is discussing producing NO children.

You seem to be confused.

any child, no matter the sex, is a blessing from God, why do people continually go on and on about this boy child thing? especially in these times when a woman can be anything she wants to be. my mum told me that after i was born she was actually disappointed because she wanted a boy but my dad completely turned around and told her he was delighted with having a baby girl. turns out we would be 3 girls anyway, i have cousins who are all boys and 1 girl and i cant say that my parenst would rather have them for children compared to us based on what we have achieved in our lives.

da lady isn't da 1 2 determine da sex of da baby

THIRD GIRL?? Take it as a blessing. There are some couples who cannot have children AT ALL and dream and hope of this happening to them.

the woman is not god
god gaves kids,

i dont see anything wrong with dat my dad is a proud father of 4 beautiful girls_{including moi} and he loves us to bits

Why worry when beauty peagent is now becoming more popular and profitable biz ?
Any how
i dont want a dozen of girls niether would i av a keep'g giving birth in search of a boy
Boy or girl (omo lo mo je --Pickin na pickin -- a child is a child)
The important thing is to have a child who would make you proud

Why worry when beauty peagent is now becoming more popular and profitable biz ?
Any how
i dont want a dozen of girls niether would i av a keep'g giving birth in search of a boy
Boy or girl (omo lo mo je --Pickin na pickin -- a child is a child)
The important thing is to have a child who would make you proud