It's possible for these women to con men for years without the men suspecting a thing it's a game where the woman is the winner, and the man, the distributor of her winnings. For the most part, the scheme is so well planned that men are none the wiser, until they run out of money and the women move on.

1. She will want to feel that you like her too. It will be important to her that you genuinely like her.

The woman who just wants your money: will make sure you want her sexually and will keep you this way. Perhaps she will find a way to manipulate you into liking her in other ways, but either way she will ONLY find validation when you buy her things.

The woman who wants just you: She will only be satisfied when you give her real attention and love. Despite my boyfriend buying me outlandish things, I would still keep breaking up with him because I never felt he loved me.

2. Despite other options or things, she will stay with you.

3. She will make some or every attempt to make your relationship really work.

Often times, someone who does not really like you will simply be satisfied with you giving them something (sex, money, etc) and it will be irrelevant of whether you relationship is going anywhere. This is not to say a gold-digger will not try to marry you, but essentially they will try to make your relationship healthy and loving. They will not try to "force" anything (like you buying them a diamond ring) and will instead want your commitment.

4. You won't actually feel used.

When someone is using you, there are always red flags. You might ignore them, but you know and I know, there's always a gut feeling that they don't really like you every once in awhile. Perhaps the signs are easier to catch now than back then.

5. They will not pressure you for what you think they are using you for.

6. They will not leave you over you being unable to provide money.

I think this is pretty self-explanatory.

7. They will make you see the value in yourself.

If someone is using you, they will downplay how great you are, in essence, to bargain for you. Think about when you've bartered for something, you tried to make it seem worth less than it actually was, right? The other person had to counter by proving it's value.

8. You’re introduced as a boyfriend to any of her blood relation or friends

This is a no brainer here. But it’s something most guys in love almost always forgive and forget. Have you ever been introduced as just a friend? If she’s convinced that you’re the man in her life, she’d proudly display you like a primped up puppy in a dog show. But if she’s just using you, there’s a very good chance that you relationship status will remain as friends

BTW,
In other news:
https://www.nairaland.com/2497169/15-year-old-nigerian-kimberly-anyadike-becomes

misssclassy:
Op, your source please.

why not go look for it....and see if you will get any source...If you cant comment anything good you better just look and ignore the post

nice one

some ppl still dey find source and pix

lolx
funny !

nice one

some ppl still dey find source and pix

lolx
funny !

nonsense, women fake all these qualities nowadays

OP forget dat one o.
Women are too sharp. If she fake am welllllll you will never know.

terza:
nonsense, women fake all these qualities nowadays

for how long will they do that..ask yourself before commenting with a harsh words (Nonsense )

MrsPhyno:
OP forget dat one o.
Women are too sharp. If she fake am welllllll you will never know.

Ask yourself for how long and wont the centering still be on demanding s

The truth is that, when a guy is dating a girl and he becomes broke and lose his job, will she still be faking the relationship..Think

HelpeeDeck:

Ask yourself for how long and wont the centering still be on demanding s

Sex? Some women will give you that, no problem. They don't care. Doesn't mean that they love you.

I totally concour with every single point!!!! Kudos Op

Teekrayne:
I totally concour with every single point!!!! Kudos Op

Thanks Wise bro

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I have better things to do than ponder over a woman loving me or not

ilobasama:
I have better things to do than ponder over a woman loving me or not

you wouldnt have bothered commenting,rather just ignore the post and go do the important thing,shows you dont have any important thing doing

Ok

HelpeeDeck:


you wouldnt have bothered commenting,rather just ignore the post and go do the important thing,shows you dont have any important thing doing

101% on point

Women eehh dey will use pipeline 2 suck a guy dry n yet dy wnt still gv guys d tin. Stingy bi*ches

i see. i will try it on my girl. #Confused?

HelpeeDeck:
It's possible for these women to con men for years without the men suspecting a thing it's a game where the woman is the winner, and the man, the distributor of her winnings. For the most part, the scheme is so well planned that men are none the wiser, until they run out of money and the women move on.

1. She will want to feel that you like her too. It will be important to her that you genuinely like her.

The woman who just wants your money: will make sure you want her sexually and will keep you this way. Perhaps she will find a way to manipulate you into liking her in other ways, but either way she will ONLY find validation when you buy her things.

The woman who wants just you: She will only be satisfied when you give her real attention and love. Despite my boyfriend buying me outlandish things, I would still keep breaking up with him because I never felt he loved me.

2. Despite other options or things, she will stay with you.

3. She will make some or every attempt to make your relationship really work.

Often times, someone who does not really like you will simply be satisfied with you giving them something (sex, money, etc) and it will be irrelevant of whether you relationship is going anywhere. This is not to say a gold-digger will not try to marry you, but essentially they will try to make your relationship healthy and loving. They will not try to "force" anything (like you buying them a diamond ring) and will instead want your commitment.

4. You won't actually feel used.

When someone is using you, there are always red flags. You might ignore them, but you know and I know, there's always a gut feeling that they don't really like you every once in awhile. Perhaps the signs are easier to catch now than back then.

5. They will not pressure you for what you think they are using you for.

6. They will not leave you over you being unable to provide money.

I think this is pretty self-explanatory.

7. They will make you see the value in yourself.

If someone is using you, they will downplay how great you are, in essence, to bargain for you. Think about when you've bartered for something, you tried to make it seem worth less than it actually was, right? The other person had to counter by proving it's value.

8. You’re introduced as a boyfriend to any of her blood relation or friends

This is a no brainer here. But it’s something most guys in love almost always forgive and forget. Have you ever been introduced as just a friend? If she’s convinced that you’re the man in her life, she’d proudly display you like a primped up puppy in a dog show. But if she’s just using you, there’s a very good chance that you relationship status will remain as friends

my girlfriend doesn't do any of this ooo