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Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by uchkochi(m): 6:28am On Aug 07, 2015
WHY DO WOMEN TAKE QUIET MEN FOR GRANTED.. SHOULD HE PRAY OR JUST CHANGE?

I will try to be objective as much as possible. I have heard different men lament especially the quiet ones. So I will just list out what most honest, well meaning men are going through.

1. A wife earns above 200,000 naira while the man earns about 100,000 naira. The wife starts getting pompous. The husband provides for his home and even settles the lady's debt. Yet the woman denies the man sex and only allows him when she is in the mood.

2. The woman demands for details of how the man spends his money but she does not tell the man how she spends hers and when the man asks she gets angry and start unnecessary quarrel.

3. Everybody envies the marriage from outside they see it as perfect because the wife acts her best and shows more love when people are watching.

4. Is it a crime to be quiet? She decides what he wears but the man has no right to decide what she wears.

5. The man's manhood no longer stands when with her, he cannot explain why?

6. She has stopped washing the man's clothes or even cooking because she claims too busy. Even the man now washes her own clothes.

7. This man meets his responsibilities very well.

8. The pride of the wife multiplies when she discovered she is pregnant.

From this it's like most ladies prefers domineering men and the ego of a man is what makes him a man and not the responsibility.

Are all quiet men going through this? A concerned husband is asking. Should he pray or change.
Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by Cutehector(m): 6:30am On Aug 07, 2015
He should change....
Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by HungerBAD: 6:30am On Aug 07, 2015
So this man suddenly changed to a woman when he got married?

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Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by Nobody: 6:37am On Aug 07, 2015
Be a lion grin

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Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by Ginaz(f): 7:05am On Aug 07, 2015
ureach:
Be a lion grin

a prayer lion grin

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Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by okirewaju(f): 7:43am On Aug 07, 2015
The foundation is already shaking.Why would he allow the wife ride him like that?

I love quiet and understanding men but this one is too quiet for my liking undecided

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Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by Nobody: 8:17am On Aug 07, 2015

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Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by natasha: 8:24am On Aug 07, 2015
grin
Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by TheUmmah: 8:48am On Aug 07, 2015
: This type na him we dey call olodo, wawa or anuofia 4 naija or dunce in english
Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by freecocoa(f): 8:59am On Aug 07, 2015
The man is f00lish not quiet, know the difference.
Re: Why Do Women Take Quiet Men For Granted.. Should He Pray Or Just Change? by jeffizy(m): 9:06am On Aug 07, 2015
Quietness in your own home is a foundation for being trampled upon.

As the pride leader, you should not have quietness as a characteristic. Maybe Gentility.

The man has. failed to lead and he's now been led and that's His fault.

The modern naija man equates love with softness. So wrong!

ADVICE :
He should man up. Open up on issues in the house and make your point boldly without fear of being authoritative. That's your portfolio.

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