Please I need your opinion, is it right to involve your friends in your relationship, as in seek their opinion or expose your spouse to them? Response needed urgently

Involve them because?

[1:08pm, 08/08/2015] Rose Friend Eling: Have delivered the message to her.
[1:08pm, 08/08/2015] .: Okay
[1:08pm, 08/08/2015] .: Thanks
[1:08pm, 08/08/2015] .: She is angry with me
[1:08pm, 08/08/2015] .: Did you talk to her
[1:09pm, 08/08/2015] Rose Friend Eling: Yes.
[1:12pm, 08/08/2015] Rose Friend Eling: I read a conversation,where you insulted me.
[1:19pm, 08/08/2015] .: Hey be cool
[1:20pm, 08/08/2015] .: I don't understand you guys
[1:29pm, 08/08/2015] .: You girls are just eating me up for nothing
[1:32pm, 08/08/2015] .: She say she read our convention you say you read our convention too I just think you guys are misunderstanding it all
[1:58pm, 08/08/2015] .: I am telling to understand you guys
[2:50pm, 08/08/2015] Rose Friend Eling: She said she has called you, but you didn't pick.
[4:19pm, 08/08/2015] .: Yes
[4:20pm, 08/08/2015] .: I am with my mummy at that time I can't talk because we don't want my mummy to know about it
[4:41pm, 08/08/2015] .: But if she what to talk to me she will call back
[5:58pm, 08/08/2015] Rose Friend Eling: She has call back?
[6:04pm, 08/08/2015] .: See I am afraid to talk to you
[6:05pm, 08/08/2015] .: Because I need to understand somethings here with my bab
[6:07pm, 08/08/2015] Rose Friend Eling: Explain what you mean,I don't understand?
[6:08pm, 08/08/2015] .: There are some miss understanding here
[6:08pm, 08/08/2015] Rose Friend Eling: Like what?

Friends play some important roles in some relationship,nobody is an ocean if knowledge,we sonetime needs oda pple's view on what to do

What do you do if your gf takes one of female friend more important than you, despite family interference

misspicy:
Friends play some important roles in some relationship,nobody is an ocean if knowledge,we sonetime needs oda pple's view on what to do

can you let a friend make you take your bf for years for granted??

Gr8amechi:
can you let a friend make you take your bf for years for granted??

Please explain this with example....i no understand

I so much hate third parties.

It's no right, imo & I try not to tell friends a lot about my relationships. I prefer to share that with family. Some people even take it as far as discussing bedroom matters with friends & then get shocked when the "friend" wants to sample the action themselves.

misspicy:

Please explain this with example....i no understand

one disclosing private issues and she telling the friend things you told her not to?

PunkyVeer:
It's no right, imo & I try not to tell friends a lot about my relationships. I prefer to share that with family. Some people even take it as far as discussing bedroom matters with friends & then get shocked when the "friend" wants to sample the action themselves.

well said.........this one thing I. Have always told her, she has been came about it and I have never regretted meeting her, but she just turned the habit of finding company more with her friend than spending time with me......why do girls like to copy other people ??

Gr8amechi:
well said.........this one thing I. Have always told her, she has been came about it and I have never regretted meeting her, but she just turned the habit of finding company more with her friend than spending time with me......why do girls like to copy other people ??

Hmmm dude, I really don't know what to say because I'm not a friends person so I don't know where she's coming from with her behaviour. All the best though

PunkyVeer:


Hmmm dude, I really don't know what to say because I'm not a friends person so I don't know where she's coming from with her behaviour. All the best though

tnx...nice response

Yes and No. It depends on a number of things such as: nature of the issue, the depth/trust of the 'friendship', as well as depth and trust within the two people in relationship.

There is time for everything. One needs to exercise careful judgment and prudence on how much to share/tell friends about your relationship and "how" more importantly.

Determining that fine line can be tricky. Rule of thump is that If it violates the relationship code of privacy, then you may be sharing too much or going to far.

MHO.

Gr8amechi:
Please I need your opinion, is it right to involve your friends in your relationship, as in seek their opinion or expose your spouse to them? Response needed urgently

it depends...


you should only involve dem if its a serious issue like a threat to your life or you smell foul play from your other half and you seek his/her advice