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Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Pinkiedearie(f): 11:59pm On Aug 11, 2015
Greenlife Herbal Network wrote:

Emotional!
WORDS FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGHTER ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses s ex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers -lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and closest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition, It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the defacto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is but when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions.... You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know But looks enhances love and marriage There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend, A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband's
girlfriend in word and in deed?

LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND INFORM HIM AND HE WILL SORT YOU OUT.

For registration and/or Greenlife Herbal products purchase, contact us www.greenlifeonefamily.com, greenlifefamilyng@yahoo.com, 08083377504,
Whatsapp 08066695999

Cc:lalasticala
Ishilove

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Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Princeparix(m): 1:40am On Aug 12, 2015
Nice words and advice but putting them to practice Na palaver
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by funnyme(f): 5:04am On Aug 12, 2015
This is perfect,especially no9
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Angeltoyo(f): 5:17am On Aug 12, 2015
Am married and I must say that these advice are very important.
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Pinkiedearie(f): 7:29am On Aug 12, 2015
funnyme:
This is perfect,especially no9
yes yes cool
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Pinkiedearie(f): 7:30am On Aug 12, 2015
Princeparix:
Nice words and advice but putting them to practice Na palaver
aaaaahahaahaah.. grin
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Princeparix(m): 9:34am On Aug 12, 2015
undecided I talk
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Nobody: 11:07am On Aug 12, 2015
Pinkiedearie:
Greenlife Herbal Network wrote:

Emotional!
WORDS FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGHTER ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses s ex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers -lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and closest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition, It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the defacto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is but when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions.... You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know But looks enhances love and marriage There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend, A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband's
girlfriend in word and in deed?

LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND INFORM HIM AND HE WILL SORT YOU OUT.

For registration and/or Greenlife Herbal products purchase, contact us www.greenlifeonefamily.com, greenlifefamilyng@yahoo.com, 08083377504,
Whatsapp 08066695999

Cc:lalasticala
Ishilove

NICE QUOTES.. Keep it Up
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Pinkiedearie(f): 1:06pm On Aug 12, 2015
Leader04:

NICE QUOTES.. Keep it Up
thanks
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Nobody: 2:36pm On Aug 12, 2015
Pinkiedearie:
thanks
Itz my Pleasure!
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by Pinkiedearie(f): 6:40pm On Aug 14, 2015
Princeparix:
undecided I talk
you talk
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by coolhumble(m): 4:11pm On Sep 18, 2015
Number 2 and 5 though
Re: Words From A Mother To Her Daughter About Marriage by ToyinDipo(m): 11:24pm On Sep 27, 2015
@op, is it from the heart or from the web or both smiley

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