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Reasons Not To Have An Abortion by seunwen2(m): 4:41am On Aug 18, 2015
By Olowofela Oluwaseun

1) It compounds tragedy.
Sometimes the circumstances surrounding a pregnancy are heartbreaking
Perhaps the woman was raped or accepted willingly. Maybe the baby
has been diagnosed with a defect. Or the woman’s health might be at
risk. However, one tragedy is not answered with another tragedy as this
popular saying implies an eye for an eye makes the world go blind. We do
not erase a rape by killing a child. We do not cure a baby by taking his
life. And we do not avoid all health issues by avoiding the reality of
another human being.
Women who have been raped must be compassionately cared for. But
compassionate care does not include executing a woman’s child. Parents
facing a difficult prenatal diagnosis must be given real facts and
directed to others with helpful experiences. They must not be forced
into a quick choice for abortion or urged to take the life of their child
instead of giving her a chance to defy the odds. Women with high-risk
pregnancies must be treated by real medical professionals. But treatment
does not include intentionally taking of a child life. (If a child dies during
the course of treating the woman – i.e., during chemotherapy for
cancer, removal of an ectopic pregnancy, etc. – this is not an abortion.)

2) It takes innocent lives.
Science has made it clear to us that unborn human beings are living,
separate, and unique. From the moment of fertilization – better known
as conception – a new human life is in existence. Ending this life is not
ending “potential.” It is ending a life. We would do well to understand
the modern science that reveals the humanity of the unborn.

3) It violates civil rights.
Civil rights are violated when people are deprived of their basic rights in
a discriminatory situation. Unborn children are deprived of life – the
most basic right of all – simply based on their location (their mother’s
womb) and their developmental status. This is discriminatory , inhuman,
and cruel .

4) It punishes innocent child.
A child does not deserve to die for the crimes of his father. A five year
old cannot be killed because his father is a rapist. A five month old
unborn child should not be allowed to be killed for the same reason. A
child does not deserve to die because her mother and/or her father
were irresponsible. A child is completely innocent. An unborn child did not
decide that his parents would have sex or that they would use
ineffective contraception. An unborn child is always innocent and should
never be punished.

5) It can create emitional instability for the woman
Real-life stories demonstrate again and again that abortion harms women.
Harm comes in a variety of forms – mental, emotional, relational, and
physical – and in some cases, women’s lives are lost through abortion.
They can also experience the loss of their fertility or an increase in
miscarriages after an abortion.

6. It is damaging to relationships.
Any time a family member dies, the rest of the family is affected. And
this is true of abortion. A real,
living, irreplaceable child has been killed, and the parents and siblings
are damaged. Fathers attempting to stop abortions should read this
article. Siblings who need a place to express their pain should also read
this article. Many women who abort just to convince their guy to stay
with them find that they are left alone anyway, shortly after the
abortion. Abortion is never the answer to a successful and loving
relationship..

7) It never goes away.
No matter how hard we try, we can never erase what abortion does in
relationship Abortion kills an innocent unborn child. Time does not erase
murder or ease the reality of what it is. Abortion is a cruel tragedy, but
it is also a choice that should never be made. Such a choice stays with
us forever.
For anyone who has already participated in abortion, while there is no
way to change your past, there is a way to heal from it if you believed
that “Jesus died so murder could be forgiven.” Recovery, hope, and
healing are always available..

cool It creates new problems.
Some people believe that having an abortion and ending a child’s life will
solve their problems. And in the immediate present, it may appear that
the problems have been erased. Perhaps college becomes an easier option,
maybe parents never find out that their daughter was pregnant, or
possibly an affair remains undiscovered. But in reality, abortion only hides
problems – it doesn’t solve them. Many women finish college while still
giving life to their babies. Many parents are far more accepting and
loving than their daughters believed possible. And the truth is better
than a lie, when a lie would cost an innocent person’s life. In the end,
that’s what this is really about: our problems are not solved through
killing an innocent person. Just because it’s legal doesn’t make it right.
And just because it’s often a hidden choice doesn’t mean it won’t stay
with you forever.

9) It avoids responsibility.
Abortion is sometimes used as an easy cover-up for a one-night stand,
rape or a solution to a relationship gone bad. However, when two adults
make thechoice to participate in an activity known to create babies,
these adults must accept responsibility.
Contraception can fail. The best planning can fall apart. But
responsibility should not be avoided at the cost of an innocent child’s life.
Responsible people have to make hard choices sometimes. Timing may
seem bad, and circumstances might be difficult.
But this does not justify killing an innocent person. Choosing to raise a
child is responsible. Choosing adoption for a child is a better case
compared to abortion. But choosing abortion and denying life to a child
who already exists is irresponsibly – and irreparably – wrong.

10) It’s not empowering or liberating for women.
It is not my “right” to kill my child. I should not be the only person who
has the power to order my child’s execution at the hand of an abortion
doctor. Letting my child suffer a death in which her spine is sucked into
a tube or her limbs are torn apart or her heart is stopped through
poison is not empowering or liberating. These choices ought not to be
choices at all. They are cruel tragedies for all involved, and they should
not be permitted in a civilized nation. Women do not receive freedom
through the blood of their children.

Stop abortion today.

Olowofela Oluwaseun
2015

http://crunchevents..com/2015/08/reasons-not-to-have-abortion.html?m=1

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Re: Reasons Not To Have An Abortion by Tukor32: 4:44am On Aug 18, 2015
tell them..only if they will hear..any wish me well on my birthday ..FTC things

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Re: Reasons Not To Have An Abortion by hola106(m): 4:46am On Aug 18, 2015
Na wo shey u no dey sleep ...hmmm abortion God wil help dem
Re: Reasons Not To Have An Abortion by boboLIL(m): 4:59am On Aug 18, 2015
Tell dem oh.... Buh. The sweetness of DICKson no de gree dem
Re: Reasons Not To Have An Abortion by Cutehector(m): 5:08am On Aug 18, 2015
And the soul of d aborted babies will appear as an evidence for d mother on judgement day as to why she must go to hell....



I keep sayn this, evven if konji catch u, at least perform smth else other dan penetrative sex wit her if u two aint yet married... Only if u dnt like using condom


Wisdom is key
Re: Reasons Not To Have An Abortion by Mrbigman1(m): 5:36am On Aug 18, 2015
If Solomon was aborted, his blood line would not have made the world proud
Re: Reasons Not To Have An Abortion by VickyRotex(f): 5:48am On Aug 18, 2015
cry cry

Re: Reasons Not To Have An Abortion by eyeon(m): 5:59am On Aug 18, 2015
Don't abort this thread... We must watch it grow... Ndeewo nu.
Re: Reasons Not To Have An Abortion by Nobody: 8:15am On Aug 18, 2015
Abortion have lead to the death of many young girls. It's a very dangerous and risky venture. Many people were barren for life cause of this. The rate at which quack fake doctors surface is not even helping matters.
Decist from abortion.
Stay safe.

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