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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by texanomaly(f): 12:14pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
First all, thank you op for raising this issue. seoxpert: A male friend told me his first sexual encounter was at 10 perpetrated by an older female neighbor. He said he enjoyed it and looked forward to it happening again. He also sought opportunities with other girls. When I said, "You were molested." He said, "You know I never thought of it that way because it felt good, but I guess you are right." He didn't realize till that moment how it had affected his way of thinking about sex. We've seen from many comments that molestation of the male child is not always a pleasant experience and can have far reaching consequences. Sabrwahaqqo is right on point here. Sabrwahaqqo: |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 12:23pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
butanep:oo pleases,will you just listen to yourself,telling someone to advise his attitude,yet you can't do same for yours,the reason why he quoted you is because you were derailing the thread by discussing personal matters which does not relate to the thread,it wrong,if your message is so important you could have at least pm her and you deliver your message in private...please ...let learn to think before taking an action... Mznaett:and same should go to you too,you started this whole stuffs...please let learn to stick by the subject of the thread 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 12:26pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Mehn,so many frustrated,ugly,low self esteem,lonely sex-staved beings all over these thread...dying to be noticed 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Rheene: 1:40pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
My boyfrnd lost his virginity wen he waz still in primary sch to a youth corper,she said she likes him cuz he z. Cute...u dnt nt 2 hear d details seriously! 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Vicky363(f): 9:11pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by OnlyemmyM(m): 11:13pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Mznaett:You ignore me throughout today |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 11:42pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:stop giving me a mention...I don't belong to your favourite thread meant for Dogs...go get a job asap |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Mznaett: 6:23am On Aug 20, 2015 |
OnlyemmyM: Am sorry.. A wonderful morning to you |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by buikem2: 8:41am On Aug 20, 2015 |
Maxwell279: Wow! These are eye openers. Thanks for sharing 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by adeg(m): 9:47am On Aug 20, 2015 |
I have only told 2 people about this: my wife in details and my friend in sketches. I was about 4 years then and my sister and I went to spend some days with grandma who's living with 2 mature female cousins. The elder ones which I guess would be about 18 then called me to join her upstairs to pack the spread clothes. The house was a 2-storey with the top also decked for relaxation so that's where the clothes were spread. So we were playing and packing the clothes then she asked me to be touching her body at the place she was touching mine which I playfully followed. Then when she got to touching my private and I hesitated, she held and guided my hand to hers that I should go on, which I did. She later guided my erect member to ours to complete the molestation. I became a terrible pervert from then on and launched to practising what we did with my willing mates. I continued with any willing female of around that age 4 till any age I was including my nieces and cousins. I was caught thrice before age 10 with very serious punishments but each only made me more careful. Lack of proof of penetration saved me from detention when a girl of about 8 I molested reported me to her parents after my degree education. I tried several times to stop on my own but the willing power was terribly weak. I read several articles and even stumbled on many websites encouraging that children has their own sexuality as well. Then it got to a point I was trying to justify it as my sexual "orientation" since I really never forced any girl/lady in the real sense of it but only engaged with willing partners. Lastly some years back I rededicated my life to Jesus and finally decided to deal with the monster. so I told my wife everything and we engaged in deliverance sessions with counselling. I contacted the nearby victims and asked for forgiveness. Earlier after the counselling I was still a bit afraid I would relapse and foolishly tested myself few times but was able to stand. Now I naturally sense any boy/girl that had similar exposure or sexuality experience and even caught some in the act so as to advise their parents. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by OnlyemmyM(m): 3:04am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Mznaett:okay Madam thank you |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Franky826: 3:11pm On Mar 10, 2016 |
adeg: You seeking forgiveness from nearby victims is the 'GOLD' about all these molestation/sexual abuse. Yes God forgives but what about the aftermath on the victims? Peoples lives are wrecked for years if not God's grace. May God bless your heart sir. For people who have been through this(I included) whether male or female, forgiveness is the key to healing . Seek out victims and apologize, also forgive those who have victimized you on your own and even when they come to apologize or not (both males and female) Peace |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by rosy1992(f): 12:24pm On May 23, 2016 |
Child molestation is bad it is a grievious offence.To those who have been molested may God. help you to overcome such trauma. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by jonnynwa(m): 6:26pm On Sep 20, 2021 |
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