okay go cheat and when u are caught endure the shame alone. Wont it be best if u rather go see a marriage counsellor or a family member rather than dis shameful idea?

Captainswag225:
w

space bookers

If you reside in America, pls go aheaad and fvk away your sorrows, but if you are in Naija...

firstEVA:
space bookers

smh

Captainswag225:
smh

firstEVA:
If you reside in America, pls go aheaad and fvk away your sorrows, but if you are in Naija...

hmmm, feeling shocked

Captainswag225:
hmmm, feeling shocked

shocked about what sweerie? America is sodom and Ghomorah, anything goes, but a true African woman should not be pushed to cheat as "pay back", it never favours her.

firstEVA:
shocked about what sweerie? America is sodom and Ghomorah, anything goes, but a true African woman should not be pushed to cheat as "pay back", it never favours her.

not everybody in america cheats..... Shame

firstEVA:
shocked about what sweerie? America is sodom and Ghomorah, anything goes,

how do you know this?

cococandy:
how do you know this?

a land where it's legal for two men to "love" each other is definitely a place where any thing weird, creepy and insane is allowed.

Captainswag225:
not everybody in america cheats..... Shame

it can't be all definitely.

firstEVA:
a land where it's legal for two men to "love" each other is definitely a place where any thing weird, creepy and insane is allowed.

so adultery is also legal too.
Thanks for enlightening me.

One would say a land where old men can legally defile children in the name of marriage is a place where anything insane, creepy, weird and inhumane is allowed.

But it's my country so I guess it's ok.

cococandy:
so adultery is also legal too.
Thanks for enlightening me.

One would say a land where old men can legally defile children in the name of marriage is a place where anything insane, creepy, weird and inhumane is allowed.

But it's my country so I guess it's ok.

there is no law in Nigeria which legalizes paedophilia.

firstEVA:
there is no law in Nigeria which legalizes paedophilia.

But there's non that outlaws it.

MrAnonTAC:
Out of anger & the feeling of rejection from him I often think about sleeping with other men to make myself feel better. I've never in my life had a hard time getting sex. I've always had a better than great sex life but now it's non existent. I practically beg for sex & he denies me. When I ask why he gives some excuse about not being in the mood etc. But then I find that he's been watching porn & masterbating. I'm all for masterbation but it repulses me & makes me
so insecure to discover that my husband rather masterbate to porn than have sex with me. It bothers me further that he is also doing it at work. My gut is telling me that he is masterbating at work because someone there arouses him so instead of walking around with a boner he goes into the bathroom & masterbates. These thoughts infest my brain like tiny maggot bugs. I can't take it. Why doesn't he want me Why do I have to beg for sex?? It's been MONTHS! On top of that he won't allow me to have toys or please myself. He gets mad! Honestly I think it's insulting that I have to please myself... So I think about cheating now! ALL THE TIME! I want to hurt his feelings & make him feel rejected & unwanted like he is making me feel. I want to have amazing sex with someone else & have him find out so I can show him that somebody else wants me. I want him to feel my pain. I want him to be disgusted with himself for sexually starving me & neglecting me. I want him to feel this pain. If I could Bleep somebody in front of him I would. I would show him how one man's trash is another man's treasure. I want him to regret ever making me feel like this. A part of me resents him so much. The other day he broke his neck to stare down this rather attractive female in front of me. It hurt my feelings. Even the women in the porn look nothing like me.. It hurts So yea... I'm to a point where I just want to hurt him back & feel good at the same time. I want a huge cock that belongs to somebody else in me.

Source : TRUE ANONYMOUS CONFESSION BLOG

Most guys that abstain from se.x early stages måsterbate alot. Esp the brothers in the church, gays, the ones that girls irritates. They often please themselves and later in life get married due to societal pressure for kids.

My dear, it's either you join him måsterbate of you find your way out.

Cheating is not a way out.

cococandy:

But there's non that outlaws it.

of course there are, the The Child's Right Act, The Criminal Code and a host of others.

firstEVA:
of course there are, the The Child's Right Act, The Criminal Code and a host of others.

oh really?

I wish those of you who have good advice for the lady would go do so o the page. Nonetheless, I dont think theres any justification for the woman to cheat even if the man does.

firstEVA:
If you reside in America, pls go aheaad and fvk away your sorrows, but if you are in Naija...

And you think America is the best place to do shitt

oh dear, it's a pity you found yourself in such an unpleasant situation.i suspect you considered cheating out of frustration but do you think that is the best. infidelity has never solved any problem,rather it's capable of wrecking the home.
think about it if you do it to be caught, you wouldn't like the outcome.the whole world will blame you .adultary is very bad.it's not acceptable! it's home breaker.
have you tried dialogue.loh yes pour yourmind out to him.let him know how you feel, how badly he's hurting you..remind him of those days..if there is anyother thing that may put him off , address them.pray too.continous prayers.may God see you through( amen)

Please go ahead

Funny thread

@OP:

You want to cheat on him or you want to cheat back at him?

You clearly said your gut tells you He fancies a woman in his office hence the wanking. If He is cheating, do you think He needs to self-service?

You Also did not say how long this has been going on. I assume you have been married for a while. When did the wanking start? What made it start (If it is an addiction, why is it just cropping up?)

I have issues with his selfishness. If He will not sleep with you, why is He still shooking mouth in your wanking matter?

Since you are sex starved, watch porn and self-service If you want to. It would relieve you while you find solutions to the issues at hand.

Goodluck.

@ OP, I don't envy you at all.

Rosemary216:
Hehehehehehehhe... Dis z more serious dan i thought! I tink hvin a 'revenge sex' isnt really a good idea. I hv seen ppl who do it nd later feel disgusted @ wat dey did. I tink findin out y he does dat wud b a good start.

The question is How will she find out....seriously this is a tough one.

adesbreath:



The question is How will she find out....seriously this is a tough one.

its easy, dependin on her!!

donholy28:
so u don't know that sexual interest dey change

AND U DONT KNOW THAT MASTURBATION IS A SPIRIT? c'mon, they ar stil young couples if at all sexual interest's gonna change, not so soon. There is something wrong with d man, try to find out.