In these days of unemployment and difficulty in getting good jobs, would you leave your wife who is yet to conceive and move to another town 5 hours away for a good paying job? The job in question involves weekends too and your wife can not join you too as she is in a federal govt work. Let us discuss it constructively. For mature minds please.

No.

I will not leave her.

My dad used to work in lagos wen I was a kid, he came bak to ph every two week interval.... So, and they havnt divorced...



Understanding is key.

This requires a lot of thinking..
If its a young marriage_its nt advisable.
Do u want to start a family soon?its nt also advisable too

There r just too many things to put into consideration,nd considering the financies..i'll leave it to the experienced at this point.

Ur wife can always get transfer from her work place on basis of marriage, it will only take a little time say two yrs. If the job is worth it go let Ur wife join u

ckc:
In these days of unemployment and difficulty in getting good jobs, would you leave your wife who is yet to conceive and move to another town 5 hours away for a good paying job? The job in question involves weekends too and your wife can not join you too as she is in a federal govt work. Let us discuss it constructively. For mature minds please.

five hours journey isnt too much of a distance so yes its no big deal as long as its a mutual understanding between both parties, and either of then should visit eachother as often as possible. to each family its own.

It's difficult especially if it's a new union but not impossible.

Understanding + Trust is key in this kinda situation to avoid story that touches the heart.
What ever you do, be sure both parties are in agreement.
Goodluck.

Both can always work something out...

IF YOU'RE MARRIED TO A YURUBA WOMAN, MY ADVISE WILL BE , DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT BUT, IF YOU'RE MARRIED TO IBO, SHE'LL EVEN HELP YOU ON WHAT TO DO AND YOUR MARRIAGE WILL BE THERE FOR YOU, PERIOD DUE TO CULTURE. I'M EITHER OF THE TWO TRIBES BEFORE SOMEONE START CALLING FOR HEADS HERE

taryour:


five hours journey isnt too much of a distance so yes its no big deal as long as its a mutual understanding between both parties, and either of then should visit eachother as often as possible. to each family its own.

Like seriously? 5 hrs not far?

tiredface:
IF YOU'RE MARRIED TO A YURUBA WOMAN, MY ADVISE WILL BE , DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT BUT, IF YOU'RE MARRIED TO IBO, SHE'LL EVEN HELP YOU ON WHAT TO DO AND YOUR MARRIAGE WILL BE THERE FOR YOU, PERIOD DUE TO CULTURE. I'M EITHER OF THE TWO TRIBES BEFORE SOMEONE START CALLING FOR HEADS HERE

Lol. Why do u say that ?

ckc:
Like seriously? 5 hrs not far?

yes 5 hours isnt far, people spend more than 5 hours in lagos traffic on a daily basis. and its not like the man or woman in question will be travelling 5 hours daily.

It is not really a big deal when understanding is there between the couple.

The wife can always come on weekends. Likewise the husband. Which ever ways that is convenient for them.

tiredface:
IF YOU'RE MARRIED TO A YURUBA WOMAN, MY ADVISE WILL BE , DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT BUT, IF YOU'RE MARRIED TO IBO, SHE'LL EVEN HELP YOU ON WHAT TO DO AND YOUR MARRIAGE WILL BE THERE FOR YOU, PERIOD DUE TO CULTURE. I'M EITHER OF THE TWO TRIBES BEFORE SOMEONE START CALLING FOR HEADS HERE

adultery has nothing to do with tribes. Trust is the issue here however the people that will come and pick you up are on their way