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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Truckpusher(m): 2:23am On Aug 25, 2015
Ilekeh:


Go pack your shit?

Na you own the house? Ngga, that house will be sold and the money split 50-50. Kapish!

Ladies BEWARE! SIGN YOUR NAME ON THAT HOUSE DOCUMENT!

I hope you contributed to the acquisition of the house? Because you can't get what you can't afford.....it's simple .
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by MRBrownJ: 2:28am On Aug 25, 2015
freecocoa:
Story, will only work if you married a woman scared of you.

Like you wouldn't get angry or say anything, if you were innocent the moment she gave it to you, oh!please.

angry? what would that achieve to be mad at a woman who tries to protect you from her own kind?! she probably knows better than me the workings of desperate women out there... fair enough! the fact that she doesnt trust my judgment or emotional strength in such matter would be the hard part here, but nothing to make a scene out of. if a man knows who he is then why be mad at the low self esteem issues of his partner?! just because she believes that i cheat, doesnt mean that i do. its when she decides to cheat because she foolishly believe that I do too that it becomes a REAL upsetting issue.

Ilekeh:

Go pack your shit?

Na you own the house? Ngga, that house will be sold and the money split 50-50. Kapish!

Ladies BEWARE! SIGN YOUR NAME ON THAT HOUSE DOCUMENT!

get your mind out of the gutter, instead of foolishly focussing on nonsense. if this lady desires to cheat then she might as well go and move in with her lover, whether we own our house, rent it or live in a shack in the wood... the outcome will be the same: SHE WILL BE GONE!
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by MistaHumble(m): 2:40am On Aug 25, 2015
LadyBoss1:


Be honest smiley






https://mobile.twitter.com/Ayourb/status/635374228473282560/photo/1

This senerio was acted in a naija movie like that. The couple understood themselves really well...

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by eagleeye2: 3:10am On Aug 25, 2015
redgem:
He definitely can't do anything
That's what a neighbors wife said before she woke up in the emergency ward of a teaching hospital.
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Ilekeh(f): 3:47am On Aug 25, 2015
MRBrownJ:


angry? what would that achieve to be mad at a woman who tries to protect you from her own kind?! she probably knows better than me the workings of desperate women out there... fair enough! the fact that she doesnt trust my judgment or emotional strength in such matter would be the hard part here, but nothing to make a scene out of. if a man knows who he is then why be mad at the low self esteem issues of his partner?! just because she believes that i cheat, doesnt mean that i do. its when she decides to cheat because she foolishly believe that I do too that it becomes a REAL upsetting issue.



get your mind out of the gutter, instead of foolishly focussing on nonsense. if this lady desires to cheat then she might as well go and move in with her lover, whether we own our house, rent it or live in a shack in the wood... the outcome will be the same: SHE WILL BE GONE!

How would she "be gone" if you both own the house? She's only reacting to your reaction, she's beingv vindictive.

Please be honest with yourself. You's likelyb e the one to pack your bags.

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Ilekeh(f): 3:48am On Aug 25, 2015
Truckpusher:
I hope you contributed to the acquisition of the house? Because you can't get what you can't afford.....it's simple .

Stop hanging out with jobless women.

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Ilekeh(f): 3:50am On Aug 25, 2015
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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Toslayem(f): 4:08am On Aug 25, 2015
this same question came up few weeks ago at a seminar on HIV counseling and testing, and the conclusion was just that the woman may not really have it in mind to cheat on the husband but want him to feel the same pain of always taking the condom whenever he is travelling. Despite the fact that wives are encouraged to help their husband with the so condom to prevent the spread of the virus and other related STI, it takes the grace of God for each wife to be able to withstand such and do as if everything is normal. God will help us all.

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Olufemiolaolu(m): 4:43am On Aug 25, 2015
redgem:
He definitely can't do anything
Hmmmm u go like payback tin wella grin
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by MRBrownJ: 5:02am On Aug 25, 2015
Ilekeh:


How would she "be gone" if you both own the house?

stop assuming nonsense and instead STICK TO THE ISSUE at hand. as i said and repeat, that woman will pack her shiit and get herself out of my life. i'll even drive her to that fool's house, lol!

She's only reacting to your reaction, she's beingv vindictive.

but of course, men should be happy that their women are cheating, right?! BWAAAAAAAH women and their double standards!
its funny how you are focussing on BS instead of focussing on what is important here: the "obviously" cheating wife who is being vindictive while she is the one who is cheating?! arrant nonsense!

this cheating woman should be gone to be happy with her lover, instead of wasting her time with me, duh! whether she gets half of the house or not is irrelevant here. again, stop focussing on nonsense.

Please be honest with yourself. You's likely be the one to pack your bags.

as i said, she would be gone from my LIFE, that same instant
stop being bias here... the guilty/unhappy party is the one who should take a hike and be merry with whomever she newly desire.

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Danabu(m): 5:13am On Aug 25, 2015
MRBrownJ:
i'll flip the script on her and tell her:"you insulted/disrespected me once by handing over these BS condoms, and i kept my cool about your nonsense... and now you have the audacity to insult/disrespect me a 2nd time by asking/telling me that you need some of these condoms for your conniving cheating self?! who the fukc are you and why dont you instead go pack your shiit and get the hell out of my life?"

The very truth. Need say no more.

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by creepsyme(f): 5:14am On Aug 25, 2015
emorse:

I'd accept them, return them intact and score massive points in the fidelity test.
are u returning them back immediately or later, because later may mean u used bought another and replaced it. lols!

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by juliusjulius: 5:34am On Aug 25, 2015
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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by bucho(m): 5:34am On Aug 25, 2015
Why would she buy the condom in the first place?. Is she now Society for Family Health?. It shows total lack of trust which breeds suspicion on my part instantly.How do I know she has not been buying and using some before then?. Or that the quantity she gave was all she bought/acquired?. That relationship is already doomed and the earlier either party signs out, the better for them.

*Notmyportionanyway* Much love all!.
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Good4bad: 5:40am On Aug 25, 2015
Just give her all the condom and say this. (thanks for d insults till I comes back) drive off

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by lozanni(m): 5:44am On Aug 25, 2015
ATMC:
Whatever be his reaction won't matter...the woman is justified to buy should he refuse to give her.

You don dey support bad thing, abi ?
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Ilekeh(f): 5:48am On Aug 25, 2015
MRBrownJ:


stop assuming nonsense and instead STICK TO THE ISSUE at hand. as i said and repeat, that woman will pack her shiit and get herself out of my life. i'll even drive her to that fool's house, lol!



but of course, men should be happy that their women are cheating, right?! BWAAAAAAAH women and their double standards!
its funny how you are focussing on BS instead of focussing on what is important here: the "obviously" cheating wife who is being vindictive while she is the one who is cheating?! arrant nonsense!

this cheating woman should be gone to be happy with her lover, instead of wasting her time with me, duh! whether she gets half of the house or not is irrelevant here. again, stop focussing on nonsense.



as i said, she would be gone from my LIFE, that same instant
stop being bias here... the guilty/unhappy party is the one who should take a hike and be merry with whomever she newly desire.

This can only happen in a third world.

If she's smart enough to dot her name on those docs, then she's not going anywhere.

You're just yarning dust.
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Ilekeh(f): 5:50am On Aug 25, 2015
Imagine the audacity self mtchewwww. drive who to where?

na me go call police and call it a "kidnapping attempt".
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by princembah(m): 6:09am On Aug 25, 2015
Incase of kongi lol

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Godset1: 6:14am On Aug 25, 2015
If I tell u na, Oga @ d top will say another thing.
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by millionaireman: 6:30am On Aug 25, 2015
emorse:
I'll give her some na. Then I'll send her an SMS a few minutes later. it'll read "Hi honey, hope you're not in the house yet? Please don't pass through any of the entrances cos I've laced them all with double strenght MAGUN. You can pass through any of the toilet windows though. They contain only single strength potions. Their effects should be minimal if u use triple condoms. Missing u already. Luv ya!"

MAGUN is mythical. It doesn't work in the real world. It can only work in the world of ritualistic people.

All I would do is simply: terminate the marriage relationship.
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Nobody: 6:43am On Aug 25, 2015
My wify won't do that because there is trust b/w us and she know i don't cheat.
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by Phunmibi: 6:45am On Aug 25, 2015
RickRichards:
Burn box of unmentionables, cancel trip, talk it out; or slug it out!

You da bomb sire.
Best answer for me

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by skyhadi16(m): 6:48am On Aug 25, 2015
emorse:

I'd accept them, return them intact and score massive points in the fidelity test.

Naaaa, to me no. How will you convince her you are returning the same condom she gave you? So no cheating, no need for condom
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by j4sure(m): 7:00am On Aug 25, 2015
very funny
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by redgem(f): 7:01am On Aug 25, 2015
eagleeye2:

That's what a neighbors wife said before she woke up in the emergency ward of a teaching hospital.


That's your neighbour not me....
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by redgem(f): 7:04am On Aug 25, 2015
Olufemiolaolu:
Hmmmm u go like payback tin wella grin




Not payback.... Respect is reciprocal

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by MemphisDepay(m): 7:16am On Aug 25, 2015
nijanigga:

memphis is already failing in BPL.
But why take condoms from your wife? I will buy my own condoms and hid them somewhere or when I get to my destination first thing is to go buy some condoms.
haba bros.. After 3 games, you've started judging me? That's unfair o. I only need to improve on my end product and decision making. Mind you, m just 21. *off to training bro* (in belgium).
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by kingchuks500(m): 7:21am On Aug 25, 2015
Gmorning all. I dear not complain because I happily collected mine. In the first place I have Shawn im not faithful.
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by airex(m): 7:23am On Aug 25, 2015
emorse:

I'd accept them, return them intact and score massive points in the fidelity test.
Return them intact my foot. Were the condoms marked by her? How are we supposed to know that it's the exact condoms she gave to u when u can use them and easily replace them? Accepting it initially is the first step to failure.
Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by airex(m): 7:29am On Aug 25, 2015
emusmith:
Hmm...

I suppose it's a Male condom.
So, will she now distribute CD to her bfs? Shouldn't they come with theirs?

WOMEN HARDLY CHEAT JOOR ! I'll give a smile and say, OK.

She did that out of her "confused" state of mind ATM. She is suspecting him, scared of telling him not to cheat and also wishing he wouldn't.
They are the best cheats ever. Don't lie to ursef.

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Re: Men, What Would You Do In This Situation? (snapshot) by airex(m): 7:31am On Aug 25, 2015
pharmow:
The man shouldnt have taken it in the 1st place. Having taken it, he should know that he's dealing with a woman probably more intelligent than him. Aggressiveness and turning it to fight will only make him look dumber. This is a mind game and it requires a man calmness and intelligence to deal with it amicably

If I were him, I will give everything back to her stating that I took it initially not because of temptation, but to give some of my single friends. If she did take everything which I strongly doubt, I will jokingly tell her that she should take it easy with her temptation with a wink and leave.
so ur single friends are too broke to buy condom abi?

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