He only communicates via text messages or
emails

We all know that guys hate talking on the
phone, but if you’re never hearing the sound
of his voice, that could spell trouble. “If I have
hung out with a girl a few times and I’m still
texting or emailing her, it’s just about sèx for
me,” says Jake, 28. Chalk it up to his lack of
interest in talking with you — and the ease of
technology, a boon for lazy would-be players.
He doesn’t need to engage in a real
conversation — a couple of words here, an
emoticon there, and he’s in touch with you
with a bare minimum of effort. Keeping his
communiqués to emails and texts also allows
him to steer the conversation towards s*x,
either subtly or overtly; he can be more
forward than he would be in person or over
the phone since he won’t have to deal with
rejection directly.

He warns you that he’s not relationship
material

Some guys inform girls about their disinterest
in a relationship early on with remarks like
“I’m not ready for a serious relationship yet.”
It can be easy to think he’s just being honest
and may eventually come around after he’s
gotten to know you. But don’t fall for it. “Some
guys always have excuses as to why they can’t
take the relationship to the next level,” says
Sherry Argov, author of Why Men Marry
Bitches: A Woman’s Guide to Winning Her
Man’s Heart. “But ‘not now’ means ‘not ever.'”
The upfront explanation makes it easier to
break it off later. “When I just want sèx from a
woman, I drop hints that I can’t be involved
with her in a long-term relationship because
my job is my number one priority,” says Matt,
31. “Then, when I decide to stop seeing her, I
reference the fact that I said it wouldn’t work
out early on.” Bottom line: If he says he’s not
boyfriend material, know that he means it.

You’ve been to the same restaurant with
him more than once in one month

Sure, he may say “It’s my favorite place,” “It’s
our place,” or that he’s been craving the
eggplant parmesan. As sweet as that may seem,
his motives are likely not so romantic. A
quality guy will put thought and effort into
each of your dates — but a guy who just wants
sèx will make the weekly Olive Garden dinner a
preamble to taking you back to his place
(which just happens to be around the corner).
Watch out if he keeps meeting you in the same
place and doesn’t vary from routine, Argov
warns. “He’s with you at the little Mexican
place, but with another girl at the Chinese
place the next night and another girl at the
sushi place the night after that.” He needn’t
pull out all the stops every date, but beware
night after night of the same thing. Says
Argov, “A player will go for what’s quick,
convenient and cheap — just like his
intentions.”

He makes too many promises

It would be easy to avoid these guys if they
said things like, “I want you to come over and
have sèx with me — and then disappear.”
Rather, guys try to woo you with what they
think you want to hear. “If all he wants is sèx,
he’ll promise you things you haven’t even
thought of yet,” says Argov. “Men know that by
talking about love, fabulous exotic vacations,
babies, houses with the white picket fences,
women will give up the goods. He’s fattening
you up for the kill.” So if there’s lots of talk of
big future plans very early in your dates,
beware.

He only makes last-minute, late-night plans
to see you

It seems obvious, but sometimes a guy can
conceal the real intentions behind a booty call
by making it sound innocent enough, citing
how he’s working late or has dinner plans with
friends — but that he really wants to see you.
Then comes the clincher: a line like, “Can we
meet for a quick drink, or maybe I could just
stop by your place on my way home?” Sure, a
little impatient enthusiasm is flattering, but if
he’s truly into you, he’ll make plans in
advance. Says Argov, “For the guy who’s
smitten, the anticipation of seeing the woman
he likes is as exciting to him as the date itself.”

He avoids getting-to-know-you talks

Everyone knows a relationship requires
communication, especially at the onset. It
should stand to reason, then, that a guy who
plans dates that don’t give you a chance to talk
to each other isn’t likely interested in a
relationship. Says Todd, 35, “With girls that I
only want to have sèx with, I go out to lots of
movies — that way, I don’t have to talk to
them. Afterwards I can justify going home with
them since we did hang out and had an official
date.” According to Mira Kirshenbaum, author
of Is He Mr. Right? Everything You Need To
Know Before You Commit, it should be
apparent when a guy’s interested in getting to
know you. “He may also be sèxually attracted
to you and want to have sèx with you,” says
Kirshenbaum, “but other things will have equal
weight, such as having conversations with you
about topics that you care about and interests
you share.”

He’s pushy about getting physical

Some guys will say just about anything to get a
woman to have sèx with him. Ever hear any of
these lines?
“We’ll just cuddle.”
“You’re just so sèxy that I can’t help myself.”
“My underwear is chafing me.”
For the record: We hate just cuddling, we can
help ourselves, and our underwear was fitting
us just fine this morning.

He doesn’t introduce you to his friends

If you’ve been dating a month or more, and
you still have seen neither hide nor hair of any
of his coworkers, acquaintances, siblings or
pals, he’s likely never going to bring you home
to meet the parents. “I’ll introduce girls I’m
genuinely interested in to my guy-friends
within two to three weeks of dating,” Jake
explains. “At that point I’m feeling comfortable
enough with her to see what my friends think.”
Don’t fret if you’ve passed the four-date mark
and you haven’t yet met his mom, though.
“Some men won’t introduce you to their
families, because they’re embarrassed by
them,” says Argov. Still, he should begin
integrating you into his life within the first few
months of dating. If not, it’s a sign that this
guy’s into getting physical… and not much else.
Consider yourself well warned!

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