y me:

just put the past behind you and help him, in other words do you know you are indirectly telling him you do not give a damn about him and you are far way too bigger than to be hurt by a guy who is not worth it and you are doing better without him and most of all because of God

benincitys:

i date a guy who hurt me  very badly in the past now he want me to help him
if you are in my shoe will you help him ?  i have the money to help him
but i want to pay him back for what he did to me in the past.
dont judge me as being a bitch because i am not

i_laugh:

Poster

Na you be bitch number one for this world. gbwam.

St☆rStruck:

If you don't want to help him, don't.

Tstark:

U need to put that money towards English lessons!!!

sistawoman:

@ webpro,

Just because he came to her to ask her money does not mean that he thinks she is important.

If they are not friends anymore why would he ask her for money, one of two reasons:

1. he intends to never pay it back and does not want to screw over his good friends
2. all of his friends told him no so now he is working on the ex's

OBVIOUS:

@ sistawoman : PREACH,

The ex assumes she still likes him so he wants to take advantage and use her,

@ poster: tell him u'll send it but NEVER do. When he comes or calls, say ooh, I just sent it you should recieve it tomorrow and have fun messing with his head, and later on, he'll get the message.

he came to u for help which means he still considers you an important person

biina:

Na wa o! so many prophets, dreamers. soothsayers, necromancers et al.
The amount of insight some people have, given the few sentences the girl posted is amazing.
There is insufficient information to start inferring that the guy is a saint, loser, gold digger and whatever (someone even went as far as saying the guy needed a visa!)

IMO
If you are in a position to help someone (and there is no evidence to suggest that the action would put the genuine interests of others at risks), it behooves you to do so.
If you do decide otherwise, that's your prerogative, given you have a right on how your resources are allocated.
If you would like to get revenge on an ex, am sorry to say, you are acting like a solid bitch.

benincitys:

i was severely beaten when i was 3months pregnant
he left me when he know i was pregnant with no documents to work
he had a child with another girl which he never told me about
3different girls were calling me i should leave their boyfriend, where i tought it's mine
one of the girls told me the baby will die in my womb which happend, the baby die in my womb,
when he left me i cried for days i couldnt focus on anything,
i was crazy in love .