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Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 1:03am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Aitee1:Thanks Milady. We are here to inspire and strengthen each other. 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 1:07am On Sep 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:APC has no excuses not to deliver on their promised change regardless of how not ready Nigerians are for change. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by KanwuliaJara: 1:10am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chubhie: Give BUHARI 16 years abeg! |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 1:22am On Sep 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:I like PMB on a personal level cos of his disciplined mindset. We all encouraged a mess of a system Nigeria currently finds herself in one way or another and not even a collectively agreed saint Buhari is sufficient enough to deliver change. We all have a collective role to play. What role are you playing towards being the change you wish to see in Nigeria? |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by KanwuliaJara: 1:30am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chubhie: Me sef wan to stop sending money to NIGGAS and NIGGRESSES in Nigeria. If Nigeria beta, I go retire hially ejooooor!!!! Tooooooo MANY AGBAYA BEGGARS!!! Chai!!!!' |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 1:44am On Sep 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:LOL. Me sef is planing on “cutting out” and won't be coming back anytime soon. For real. Nigeria specialises on killing her prophets. I don't pray to get used to the Nigerian system. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by KanwuliaJara: 2:04am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chubhie: Disappointing inninit? |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 2:24am On Sep 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:More like going to a safer and saner environment to start a family and be closer to loved ones I would gladly rot in hell to make sure they are safe. I have few months to be emotionally detached from all that entails Nigeria. Now, I remember giving PMB some Eke market days to fix things up or I walk. I thought it was all a joke till few weeks back. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by KanwuliaJara: 2:29am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chubhie: But you know fixing Nigeria will take LONGER than the time invested in ruining it! Let's be realistic Abeg! |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 2:43am On Sep 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:To be realistic, Nigeria can't be fixed. It can only be patched and managed. The problem is structural, systemic and a disease of the mind. With the way PDP n APC are going about it, the cycle of no movement keeps repeating every four years. You are safely locked away in obodo ndi Ocha so won't understand what it feels like to be a Nigeria. I always sense some crazy anger in the land when I take some walk to tap into others thoughts. It is always a hostile negative vibe that even a wrong. False prank alarm of Ole will get you lynched in an instant. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by KanwuliaJara: 2:55am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chubhie: I don't envy you at all sha. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by bare1(m): 4:45am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chubhie: That's some experience. I find that because of where we've been coming from Nigerians are full of fear, which has held back so many from what they should do or say. The state of the nation is as a result of that fear as some look to manipulation to get their way. Never has there been a greater need for change as now because it won't get any better without deliberate efforts to change and help others do so as well. Gladly, more people are beginning to see the need. Many only still do have problems with getting along which is pretty normal. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by bare1(m): 5:24am On Sep 22, 2015 |
hahn: Your responsibility to the nation is for yourself first. Like the lady said, the traits mentioned in the OP is to assess yourself with and it's disastrous measuring others with. Any issues you have with others are issues with yourself and not them. We all need to start to be responsible for ourselves and stop the complaining and blaming. 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by bare1(m): 6:16am On Sep 22, 2015 |
This story of change in Nigeria has largely been misrepresented and so misunderstood. They've been talking about change and I have been saying, 'how can a person or group of people give you what they don't have?' Considering the state of the nation I've not stopped asking the same question. But I'm not going to talk about politics because my life hasn't got anything to do with it. However I will briefly talk about the need to change oneself and what it entails. In life we've come quite a long way growing up and during this time there are quite a number of things that we were thought that wasn't entirely correct. Things that played a part in depriving many people of the know-how to live. We were thought these things not because our parents and teachers disliked - I'm sure they did - but because it's what they had been thought as well and worked better for them than it is doing in this century of an ever-changing world. Some questions to ask ourselves with an open mind and all the honesty we can muster are, 'why are things not exactly working for me as I'd want?' 'Why can't I live the life I truly desire rather than get mauled by circumstances?' 'Why do I have to settle for less than I can get?' 'Why are some people living in luxury even as they weren't born with silver spoons?' 'Why are the rich getting richer and the poor getting poorer?' The last two questions I will answer but the previous ones, you have to answer yourself. It's becoming less of a secret that we as individuals possess great powers vested in us from our source. A fact that even though has existed from the beginning of mankind is still unknown to many. Now you look around the world and understand what power lies in the inventors and creators of the things of the world to enable them achieve such feats. This power lies in the mind of every individual and people aware of it have succeeded in exploiting it to amass great wealth for themselves through great accomplishments expected of anyone that shares a likeness to the Creator, infinite greatness. Because it's knowledge sought and applied to get results, there's a need for a transition from the ordinary to the extraordinary, from your comfort zone to your success zone, and this need is personal development and self growth. This only means that you can become a better person mentally, spiritually, physically, emotionally and financially. When you find yourself, only then can you realise the essence of the connection we all share as humans and why you should be good to others. And so as others succeed we all succeed, but when a few suffer the rest of us do so as well. 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by hahn(m): 7:40am On Sep 22, 2015 |
bare1: You again and your tendency to jump into conclusion. Who's blaming? Tell me one thing that I mentioned there that isn't a fact. I really don't need a lecture on responsibility because last time I checked no one helped me to where I am. Yes, I do agree that development starts with self but then what happens after that? What is the essence of becoming rich when you will still have to buy fuel or diesel for your generator at the end of the day. After you develop yourself, it is important to spread your ideas to other people. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by bare1(m): 8:00am On Sep 22, 2015 |
hahn: If you take time to really look inwards, you would understand no one is your competition but yourself. The issue isn't about me or jumping into conclusions. I only tried to help you see that it's not about who doesn't do what, but what you do and don't do. There's more during the journey of self development as there is a need to change the world but that's only when we succeed in changing ourselves. A problem is solved when you target the root cause. The root cause of a national issue depends on the individuals of the nation but if you don't see it from that POV, well then the journey continues. You're still gonna have to be responsible for what you understand though. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by hahn(m): 9:03am On Sep 22, 2015 |
bare1: We are definitely not on the same page. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Aitee1: 10:27am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chubhie: Please take me along, 9ja don tire me too |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 10:49am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Aitee1:A gentleman don't refuse an offer. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Aitee1: 10:56am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 11:02am On Sep 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:I hope you can now understand some folks in politics section who could best be termed as mentally deranged. It takes a lot of self consciousness not to catch the Nigerian disease of the mind. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 11:05am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Aitee1:Hurry on Milady.....we are e-traveling |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Aitee1: 11:13am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Chubhie: 11:21am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Aitee1:You are safe Milady. Close your two eyes,open your mind's eyes you will see me. |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by Aitee1: 11:23am On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chubhie: 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by bare1(m): 11:28am On Sep 22, 2015 |
hahn: We don't have to be, it's a learning thread. I've come across a number of various people in my career to be worried but I'm grateful for those that are being transformed. 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by hahn(m): 11:59am On Sep 22, 2015 |
bare1: Ok, Optimus Prime |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by KanwuliaJara: 12:21pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chubhie: Yes, I can understand. They are also present in ALL areas on NL. If I were stuck in Nigeria too, I would be suicidal, not just deranged! 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by kaboninc(m): 12:37pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: Pot calling kettle black 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by bare1(m): 2:14pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
hahn: |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by bare1(m): 4:08pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
hahn: Realised why you said you again. Maybe it's a sign from the universe... |
Re: Here Are 20 Things Authentic People Do Differently by hahn(m): 4:52pm On Sep 23, 2015 |
bare1: You mean a sign that you should desist from jumping into conclusion? |
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