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Burning Bridges by hertz9te(m): 4:35pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
I just want to hear your opinions.... ..how do you cut ties with someone you really don't like being around, but can't tell them,cos you are afraid you will hurt them with your words? girl or boy |
Re: Burning Bridges by Nobody: 4:49pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Same here...but I am juz trying to ignore their calls n text...I hate doing this but I have too coz I hate getting things complicated. |
Re: Burning Bridges by hertz9te(m): 4:57pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
KashyBaby:I've tried that.....just didn't work out for me...if its working for you r lucky |
Re: Burning Bridges by Nobody: 5:02pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
hertz9te: It aint easy but I believe tat one day they will juz get tired of calling my attention...I have my own life to deal with anyway... 1 Like |
Re: Burning Bridges by MRBrownJ: 5:02pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
there are no 2 ways about it, you must take your heart and tell them exactly that, in a non threatening manner! |
Re: Burning Bridges by hertz9te(m): 5:06pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
MRBrownJ: very very HArd |
Re: Burning Bridges by MRBrownJ: 5:08pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
hertz9te: who told you that LIFE was going to be easy?! 1 Like |
Re: Burning Bridges by hertz9te(m): 5:15pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
MRBrownJ:I wish I had your heart bro |
Re: Burning Bridges by Youngpo413: 5:17pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
What are you afraid of? |
Re: Burning Bridges by hertz9te(m): 5:22pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Youngpo413:telling them off |
Re: Burning Bridges by Nobody: 5:33pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
Well, I've done this several times because people can get on your nerves sometimes. What I do is I send them a text, telling them exactly what I think of them. There's no other way to go about it imo. You have to be honest & get the message across loud & clear. The only time it gets uncomfortable is when someone decides to confront you face to face after they've received such text. Oh boy! You wish the earth would swallow you. I had one such uncomfortable encounter & things escalated into a heated argument very fast. By the end of it, however, I was still sure I never wanted to speak or see that person ever again & I didn't. It's been a couple of years & I don't regret it one bit. |
Re: Burning Bridges by hertz9te(m): 6:34pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:the way you say it. how I wish I could just do it......God need strength for this shit |
Re: Burning Bridges by MrCork: 6:37pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
hertz9te: ....ok..so u sayn u owe them moiney but wanto cut ties coz u don't wanna pay?..... You homebase people mennn!! (no ofeinse) 2 Likes |
Re: Burning Bridges by Pidggin(f): 6:52pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
MrCork: *Alert* Mr Corkroach is crazy and jobless, he may beg u for money too. |
Re: Burning Bridges by MRBrownJ: 9:46pm On Aug 30, 2015 |
hertz9te: well, you can live a life where you are at peace with yourself, or live a fake life where everyone in your life is at peace but you. |
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