We live in a age n day where moral decadence is on its rise and the world is getting too dangerous a place to live in and my heart goes out to the young ones who find themselves in this unpleasant situation... Wat is my business u may ask? I am a young man with a heart for young people especially teenagers who are the subject matter of this thread.. It Saddens my heart to see many teenagers mis led on different aspect of life.Sadly enough any bad foundation u get as a teenager will have a deep impact on the kind of adult u will become. The aim of this thread is to help as many persons as possible in this phase of their life.i would be dropping insights on five (5) Major aspect of a teenagers life n how to be a success in them. 1.Academic life
2.Social life
3.Relationship life
4.Sexual life
5.Spiritual life
Questions are allowed for proper understand... Wellcome young extra ordinary minds. God bless us

ACADEMIC LIFE
There is this popular saying that goes "a Success has many Fathers And a Failure is an orphan". No one in life love be associated with failures where as we always see cases of people trying to link themselves to someone who has become a success at all means n that's where you start hearing"He his my brothers uncle's sister n all sort just to show they know or are close to whoever they are talking about". No doubt Success is attractive and that is why you have to Strive to be one... I mean STRIVE.. "nothing good comes easy".Success is hard work. I do tell teenagers no body is born a total dullard,it may amaze you to know that the guy or girl coming first in your class or toping your department may not be as good as u if only you can discover yourself... In the Academic world one main thing teenagers need to excel is the power n wisdom to read... U have to read ur books. Many teenagers don't read and that's why they see the few that do read as genius... I have so much to say in this point but would summarise with my life Story... I was born into a military family,Dad is a Soldier who use to be a very hard person,we are not really poor just an average Family.. I grew up thinking I was nothing, I went to a Command Secondary school and played the average in class.. I remember those days I didn't use to read, when its exam time we would cram n form "votron" in the Exam hall n secondary finished like that.. I failed my first WAEC and my soldier papa nearly killed me with insults.. I laugh whenever I remember those days.. I had my academic revolution when I was reading "Gifted hands" by Ben Carson.i read it to an extent that I went to the toilet to cry cos of my dads insult then and I told myself I would show this man am not a dullard... N I started reading... I did waec again I passed no "votron" did jamb I passed no "votron" did post Utme Unilag I passed no "votron".my name was number 1 of unilag admission list for my department that year 2007... Graduated in 2011 and I work in a Federal Parastatal in Lagos. Wat I am today n things I can do many of my colleagues can't am not bragging its Grace and the power of reading. Many teenagers have greatness locked in them which need to be discovered.. When I was a younger teenager i never knew I was this brilliant till I discovered myself.. I read like 4,6 hrs daily at times and then had a reading record in school Biobaku Hall where I read 10 hrs 30mins at a stretch.. Am not saying you should be like me but am telling what the power of reading can do it may not be easy at first continue till it becomes an habit... Teenagers read to lead

SOCIAL LIFE
This is one aspect of life you have to get right if you want to be an extraordinary teenager in your generation.The wind of Social life has put some teenagers in trouble that till tomorrow they are still struggling to get over it. Many teenagers want to be accepted and loved which is not an abnormal thing to do but in trying to do this many have entered the wrong relationship n have found themselves in the wrong gathering.. Show me your friend and I would tell you who you are. U can never see a goat in the midst of Lions,not possible if it happens that Goat is a "Gunner". Teenagers beware of those you call your friends and you associate with,personally i can't count the amount of teenagers who have missed it in life by the kind of friends they keep... U can't desire to be Great n ure the one always walking with friends who are womanizers even at their Young age,friends who are gamblers,friends who have no desire but to commit atrocities hhhmn even God separates himself from the Devil... A word is enough for the wise. Teenagers everybody mustn't be your friend,Socialize wisely

RELATIONSHIP LIFE
It's alarming the way teenagers are entering into relationship this days n ow our world n generation have become so comfortable with this.Sad!!!! I Remember those days as a young boy or girl u will be so innocent but now some teenagers know and have done and are doing what even some Adults cannot imagine. Am not saying as a teenager u shouldn't be in a relationship but for what reason are u entering a relationship that will divide your attention n make you loose concentration when it's not yet time.. U may ask when is it time for me? Me too am asking you teen why relationship now? The fact you have a Crush on him or her does not mean it must translate to a relationship... Crush is a normal part of a teenagers life n its not a Sin when you have one but wat matters most is how to control it. Listen teenagers any relationship with a guy or girl ure in that is making you lose focus on your academics is a wrong one.Any relationship ure in as a teenager that is making you to allow one boy touch your body or one girl touching your body is a wrong one.. Remember this piece is for extraordinary Teenagers who want to be a light in there generation. See am a married man n all the anxiety and obsessions teenagers have about sex has done more harm than good.. Wrong relationships promotes sex which for now should not be your priority.. The fact that everybody is having a boyfriend does not mean you must or everyone has a girlfriend me too I must have my own... What is wrong with just being friends with people around.. Teenagers rushing to what they don't understand. I know many people won't like this post but its the truth. Save yourself Regrets

SEXUAL LIFE
The sexual drive is one of the most powerful drive in Man.. N that is why so many persons are addicted to Sex.This drive is not something to toy with as a teenager if ure not ready.The Urge for it will lead you longer than you plan to stay.. Do you know that teenagers have the highest numbers of sex addicts in the world today. Why We can't really say. As a teenager who want to be extraordinary in life sex should not be your priority.. I can't count the amount of teenagers who started having sex n lost academic stamina. The beauty of Sex is when its done at the right time and the right time is when ure married... I would never support pre marital Sex... Sex is deeper than we think it is.its not just a body to body contact.. Its a man exchanging his body,soul and Spirit with the person he his sleeping with whether he uses condom or not. Sex outside Marriage kills,u may not die physically but ure dying internally.. Sex at the wrong time has stopped many teenagers from being the best they can. Don't think ure safe if you watch porn ure as bad as those doing the actual act.. Porn is the number one enemy of teenagers this days.. So Sad.. Don't know what to say again... But please don't destroy yourself,sex before marriage does

SPIRITUAL LIFE
This is the real life.We must understand that man is a Spirit. A Spirit that has a soul and lives in a Body. The world is very Spiritual as physical as we see it n listen the Spiritual controls the physical but its sad many teenagers don't understand this facts early enough.. Jesus said in the book of John that "I am the way the truth and the life no man cometh to the Father except by me" n we all know the popular John 3:16.. Its the desire of God to give everyone a hope and a future n one gets that hope and future when he accepts Christ cause he his the Only way... There is no way I can mention my life Story without Christ.. N listen teenagers it may sound old fashion but real extraordinary success starts with believing in Jesus.. Jesus said he has come to give life and life abundantly.. Don't let anything or anyone denie you of this great opportunity to be great... As I bring this to an end. I can see the love of God calling teenagers who truly need him.Its Jesus and he would change you forever.the best decision as a teenager you can make is to accept Jesus n he would help you in all aspect of life... I can perceive someone crying already by this words.God loves u and wants you to rewrite your family History.. If u want Jesus... Say lord Jesus come into my heart and be my personal Lord and Saviour,make me your own and give me your HolySpirt. If u said that prayer am so happy for you.Jesus is real.. Find a christian gathering to strengthen your faith n I would be here to help..

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