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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:44pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
I dunno why husband/wife relationship is always likened to a master-slave relationship on this section. While I don't do any of what was stated in the OP, if my hubby demands it, I'd prolly do it and not think much of it. Same way I will not hand him a spanner or get the jack/spare tire from the boot if we have a flat tire on the roadside and he won't think much of it either. 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 12:46pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou:No no. You asked what's wrong with a wife serving her husband like she would her father. So I'm asking if you would have a problem with your wife demanding you serve her like you would your mother 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SAMBARRY: 12:46pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
In an ideal sense is this a topic worthy of discussion on top of food matter byvan03: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 12:48pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
edwife:How is a man dishing out food for himself even a problem in the first place? No wonder women refer to men as babies. Upon all the work plus children she needs to attend to o. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 12:55pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Sorry o but I didn't realise husband/wife relationship is synonymous to master/servant relationship. Like seriously, you'd be happy if your wife called you Lord? Na wa o. Nigerian men sha 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:58pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: Just how would I serve my mother? She'll cook and expect me to serve her food? Women generally do the cooking and serving, do the not? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 12:59pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: it is your type that mislead young naive wives. no mature woman that knows her onion will play with her husbands appetite and belly. I think you are the immature one here. what's wrong with a wife making whatever gladdens her husband's appetite her priority? if it is "don't hit your wife NO MATTER her attack at you either physically or verbally", you will shout a loud militant amen to that (not that I support the act of hitting her anyway) if it were " spend your last dime on your wife even if she has more money than you", you will shout hallelujah. only a wise woman builds her home. you are a legendary fool. ladies should desist from people like you. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by edwife(f): 12:59pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: Nobody said it is a problem,it is a problem when a woman is trying to make a mountain out of a molehill. Who asked her not to attend to work or kids?A woman needs to have the capacity to manage her house(chores) in a way that they don't work her out or clash.You don't do laundry everyday,nor cook everyday.... What if i refer my husband as my baby? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:01pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: How is a woman properly serving her husband his meal a problem, to begin with? No wonder men call women fish brained. What is the woman's work if not to make and keep the home? You think that's an elective? *facepalm* 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 1:02pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: I know you are a spiritual illiterate. was Sarah ever a servant to Abraham? yet she called him lord, that is honour for you, if you truly love your husband, you will show him REVERENCE, that is, deep honour, just like Sarah did. mugu. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:05pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
bukatyne: Abeg. Don't run away. I'm eager for you to neutralise my points with biblical facts, of course. I patiently await. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by edwife(f): 1:06pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
naijababe: Don't mind them,the same people here when you ask them how many of them do the plumbing,electrical repairs or car servicing will raise their hands.But when it comes to cooking and house-chores it is equality. Have you watched soul food,the black american series?and most of Tyler perry movies? After all this is Nairaland..... 9 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 1:07pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
SonOfEl:Look here you retard, if you don't want to see red this afternoon you will refrain from abusing me. Sarah elected to call Abraham Lord. Is there any place where Abraham said to Sarah 'you must call me Lord'? Did Abraham ever portray the attitude of a tyrant or dictator in the bible? Go figure! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:07pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: I'm really tempted to call you an ediot. Maybe you should try and understand contexts before you go off ranting at my comments. I've made those comments to that person because she made reference to the bible. The same bible that I pulled those references from. Don't be clever by half. Stop disgracing Nigerian women. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 1:08pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
edwife:How many husband's do plumbing, electrical repairs or car servicing themselves? Your point is of no moment my dear 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:09pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: Sarah elected? Bukatyne, I know you're a bible student. Is this claim true or was it the custom at the time? I really want to learn. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 1:10pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
edwife: Hehehehehehehehehe! |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:11pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706:what does this mean? Let's assume, and this is an assumption, that husbands don't do these things, who gets them done or hires those who get them done? Joy, Joy, Joy, Joy. It is hot here abeg, don't add your own. Please, I beg you. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 1:12pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Run... now I am scared Put your fists into your laptop to drag me back 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:12pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
edwife: I love Soul food, watched some of Tyler's movies |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 1:13pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou:She served him his meal. Is he paralysed? Why does he feel too big to dish out his own food from the plate already before him? 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:14pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
bukatyne:I just duct-taped you to your desk. Try moving let me see |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 1:16pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou:She alluded to the fact that husband's actually do these themselves. It's one thing to do a thing. It's another to hire someone to do it. Which anybody can do by the way. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 1:16pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: You are shooting yourself in the foot Edwife is saying since husbands handle the electricals, plumbing and car repairs, they should not do house chores... Now you are saying a husband either pays or does it himself Can't a woman pay for someone to serve her husband? Afteral, she is paying 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by edwife(f): 1:17pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: Where i come from those are basic things men do. Like i said earlier,check yourself if you end up marrying a loser,you have yourself to blame and not take a simple and natural thing like serving one's husband as a sin. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 1:17pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Alright show me where Abraham compelled Sarah to call him Lord? |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:18pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: Where in the article did the wife say he felt too big to dish his own food? Anyone who can read saw she said he said, "the service was incomplete". Why bring to the table at all? Why not tell him to go dish direct from the pot himself? Is he paralysed that he can't go to the kitchen to take the food straight from the pot? Or he was paralysed before she brought the food to the dining table and he miraculously got function in his limbs again? Or is there an unseen barrier that stops him from going to the kitchen? You know like when vampires can't enter a building until their invited? I'm curious, Joy. Feed my curiosity. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 1:18pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: Abraham didn't have to, and Sarah chose to as a symbol of honour she had for her husband. today, nobody is asking you to call them lord, what husband want is to be treated with honour in his home, and serving his food is not a taboo, it is another way to show honour. get that into your brain. are your so busy or handicapped to serve your husband food? it is your type that demands for heaven and earth from their husband, that Is if they ever successfully settle down with a husband. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 1:19pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
edwife:Well the case at hand involves a nigerian wife and her husband. Here, the men are too lazy to get anything done in their homes 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706:Joy, just stop |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
edwife: Choi Edwife, sofry sofry o |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 1:21pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: At the risk of sounding insulting, I'd advise you to speak for your circle of influence, you know;n your friends, family and such. Thank you. 1 Like |
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