naijababe:


In my books, you have no business visiting a man you are yet to be married to for a few days. Why would he not disrespect you, when you put out yourself as 'oshofree'

orogodoganyin:
actually, ther's a hint of neglect in not doing it. it's little things lyk that wch prolong marriage.


on the other hand, just b happy i'm not ur husband. if not, i'll tell u to kneel down, put the tray on ur head while i eat 4rm it.
mtchewwww

SonOfEl:


on the contrary, its like a mum watching her baby gobble the food she prepared for him with love and satisfaction.

so much for your type wanting a romantic and caring husband.....yimu

raayah:

you just compared a grown man to a baby.

bukatyne:


Suddenly everyone can understand?

Joy1706:

Better know the woman u try dat rubbish with. When I have never done that for my parents. You can tell me all u want. Lemme see u try and force me to kneel down. Rubbish

SonOfEl:


why do you think lovers use the pet word "baby" on each other?

yes a grown man can be a "baby" to his boo

Joy1706:

Suddenly o my dear. I wonder if they were not the same people strongly in support of the man

Joy1706:

Suddenly o my dear. I wonder if they were not the same people strongly in support of the man

raayah:


why cant the man treat the woman as a baby too. the woman does not want to do something. Pamper her and let her rest too. Cook breakfast for her and look into her eyes when she eats. I too want to treated like a baby.

bukatyne:
Thank you for the concern, it is not necessary

bukatyne:
At least I am not the person who says one thing to paint a picture and does something else.

orogodoganyin:



hahaha... buh ur husband isn't ur parent. anyway, r u planning on marrying me? 'cos i'll evn rest my feet on ur shoulder

raayah:


why cant the man treat the woman as a baby too. the woman does not want to do something. Pamper her and let her rest too. Cook breakfast for her and look into her eyes when she eats. I too want to treated like a baby.

TV01:

The concern is not for you - it's for those you would lead astray .


We command and we serve, I love & cherish my submssive wife. I cannot help if that pains you, or is at odds with Bukatynianity


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SonOfEl:


your comments were misleading, so correct yourself and save face abeg....

orogodoganyin:
it's pretty reasonable 'cos once in a yle i'll get to cook nd d kids must obviously prefer my cooking to hers. once in a yle, it's good to eat out too.

obviously, not with joy1706 thow .

edwife:


Some couples bond during dinner,it's when they get to share or talk about their day or things. If i know that my husband loves when i sit and serve him or likes eating together as an intelligent woman, I will manage my time correctly.

I will make sure i finish whatever i am doing or need to do whenever it is dinner time. You don't do chores around the clock,there is time for everything. Like I said earlier,unless it is something beyond my control,such man will not insist you do that.

I watched my mother do it all my life and she still does it,nothing changed in her-she is successful,happy and fulfilled.

Joy1706:

Exactly+ Husband does not equal parent. See this one. By d time I handle you, you no go even fit say pim to me. As in ur voice go dey shake when u wan talk to me.

Joy1706:
Must I notice you? Warrisit? Good u knw it can't fit be with me

Jamean:


Nne ehn... The matter wear skirt and blouse. I just heard of one that insists the woman turn his Eba with eating spoon and not turning stick

Flux of traditional men.

Btw... how are you doing. I miss you

bukatyne:


The command you don't do?

Or the non existent one

Kikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki

What should pain me bros? I couldn't identify it

edwife:


Don't mind them,the same people here when you ask them how many of them do the plumbing,electrical repairs or car servicing will raise their hands.But when it comes to cooking and house-chores it is equality.

Have you watched soul food,the black american series?and most of Tyler perry movies?

After all this is Nairaland.....

orogodoganyin:




u don turn urslf to village champion abi? u wey go carry tray 4 head, hold am with one hand. cum use the other hand hold ur lips.

Joy1706:

I believe u read the original post. No? Abi u just rushed to run ur mouth?

TV01:

Not "don't do", "don't have to do very much" Wifey is so attuned to my preferences she factors them in and adjusts accordingly, so I don't have to exercise myself with very much commanding. One-flesh innit . I remain head, leader and commander !


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TV01:

My views?

The wife is in serious dereliction of her duty. The expectation is;

1. She prepares all meals fresh in direct accord with his taste and preferences
2. She sets-up and serves him accordingly
3. She waits on him while he eats - being proactive in ensuring he has all he needs
4. She clears up at his prompting - although she should learn to take non-verbal cues here.
5. She presents warm soapy water for washing hands, followed by a scented towel for drying - he may prefer you to dry, verify this.
6. She should thank him for allowing her to be of service
7. She should make enquiry as to how she could have improved the service

I also think he's a bit slack for permitting this slovenly approach - give 'em an inch and they'll take a mile. As for "having other chores to attend to", what could take priority over serving your husband .

Arrant nonsense. A woman that loves and is committed to you will love to serve you. All these side-chicks masquerading as wives. Next she'll be asking for you to consider her needs during intimacy .


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