It is true that women and money are like fire and smoke but another thing that women appreciate more than anything(money aside oooh) is where familiar eyes can't locate them easily......have you noticed that while in school a girl might not find it comfortable coming to your house but maybe after school and you stay in Abuja for instance and she stays in enugu, the only thing that will prevent her from visiting you is that you have not asked her to...knowing fully well that you stay on your own without so many friends or without people that knows her. Women sha.....una too much

It is a gift. That is why she can leave all the familiar people she ever knew to be with your own familiar others

So what's the purpose of this thread?

Right. Women don't like third parties involved in their relationships. They even try to keep their close friends away from their boyfriends.