butterflyy:
I know the write up is going t̶̲̥̅̊ø̲̣̣̥ be a good one A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ educating too, but I didn't read all. Too long

amosyanyan:
When it comes to dating, things always seem more complicated
than they actually are. Guys are always trying to impress girls and
girls are always trying to impress guys. When it comes down to it,
hardly ever do we go into the dating world being our true, natural
selves. Instead, we put on a mask of artificiality trying to make
ourselves seem that much more appealing to the opposite $ex.
Take a look at what it’s like to date in this century: we’re always
trying to take the perfect pictures with the right filter so people
will be attracted to us, we try to make ourselves sound more
appealing abouteverything (I’m not working as a waitress, I’m in
the hospitality industry), and we’re still trying to impress our
1,000 followers on social media in the process. It’s complicated.
One of the first questions guys get asked on a date is-“What do
you do?” It’s not because all women out there are gold-diggers
looking for doctors, lawyers and CEO’s, it’s because we’re trying
to get to knowyou better.
Guys often think that the way to a women’s heart is through her
closet or jewelry box, trying to impress her with the lush and the
lavish. Not all girls need to be taken out for steak and lobster with
champagne on the first date-besides if that’s only the first date,
what’s going to happen on the fifth, a yacht? Not all girls want to
see your Benjamin Franklins before they see your Johnson.
There are far more things that a girl wants in a guy that has
absolutely nothing to do with money.
10. Loyalty
All women want to date a man that is loyal. Loyalty is important in
almost any relationship in a girls life-family, friends, and especially
love. When a guy shows he’s loyal, a girl never has to worry
about what he’s doing and who he’s doing it with. It takes time to
build this kind of trust, but she’ll look for the breadcrumbs along
the pathway. Girls look to a guys friendships to see if he’s a loyal
guy-how long have you been friends with the guys you keep
company with? A lot of times, if a guy has had lifelong
friendships, it’s a sign of loyalty and trust, and girls love that.
She’ll also look to see what kind of guys you’re hanging out with-
you are who you a$$ociate with.
But, loyal doesn’t only mean that you’re not going to go out and
cheat on your girl. Loyalty also means that you’re going to be
true to her. You’re not going to make her feel insecure about your
relationship, even if you’re having a rough day at work and just
want to be left alone. You’re going to be able to talk to her about
anything and everything, leaving all secrets aside and keep
everything out in the open. You don’t have to share
absolutely everything, but you should share the stuff that really
matters with the one you love.
9. Respect
Respect should be given, not earned. If you think that a girl needs
to earn your respect, it’s time to reevaluate your outlook on
women. When you’re dating a girl, no matter what you’ve heard
about her or how she may come off, you owe her respect until
you get to actually know her. It’s unfair when people judge you
before they actually know you-no one judges a book by its cover
anymore. Girls want the same respect that you think they owe
you, given to them.
On a date, they’ll look for the cues- do you hold the door open for
them, how you interact with the waitress, do you walk her to her
car or her door-it’s as if our minds have mental notepads to see if
you’re there for just the moment or for more.
8. Sense of Humor
We all love to laugh and in the end, aren’t we all looking for
someone to sit at home and watch Amy Schumer with? A guy
with a sense of humor always beats our a guy who is tall, dark
and handsome. When a guy makes a girl laugh, he’s showing her
the bright side of life, that anything can be fun and funny, no
matter what’s going on.
We want someone who equally wants to stand in the corner at a
party and make fun of people with. We want someone who will go
to see the new Will Farrell movie with us at midnight on a
Tuesday and get the extra large popcorn and soda. We want
someone who doesn’t care how hideous their laughing face is or
if we snort when we laugh because life is too short to not laugh
until you cry.
7. Intelligence
Smart guys are $exy. No matter what girls told you in high
school, we’d rather have the nerd than the jock when it comes to
settling down. Smart guys are great because they are aware of
the world around them. Sure, it’s nice to be the center of
somebody’s entire world but it’s unrealistic. Smart guys know that
there’s a fair balance between work and play-they know how to
create a life you both deserve. They’ll be able to hold a discussion
with you, your friends and especially your parents about
everything and with depth.
You don’t want to be the guy who doesn’t know one candidate
running in the 2016 election or the guy who can’t manage his own
bank account. Your girlfriend is suppose to be your partner, not
your parent-you should know how to manage yourself and hold
your own while still supporting her along the way. Also, black
frame gla$$es look good on just about any guy.
6. Confidence
There’s a fine line between being cocky and being confident, and
you should learn it when it comes to dating. No,we don’t want the
guy who walks into the club thinking he can go home with any
girl in the room. We want the man who is confident in himself and
in his relationship. That means, he won’t get insecure and jealous
when we want to spend some time with our friends, or even some
time alone. We want the man who feels good about himself, and
makes us feel good about ourselves.
If you’re ever in a relationship and you think to go through your
girlfriends phone, you should stop and realize that the problem
isn’t with her, the problem is with you. There should never be a
moment that you feel the need to violate her privacy and personal
space because you don’t feel confident in your relationship and
your girl.
5. A Good Relationship with His Family
When we’re dating and looking to settle down with someone
serious, we want someone who we can see our futures with. An
important step in dating and in evaluating our futures is family.
It’s important to girls that they see their man has a great
relationship with his parents and family. This means that he’ll
strive to have a great relationship with his girlfriend’s family, too.
A man who makes time out of his work week between his friends,
his girl and relaxing to see his family and spend time with them is
the definition of hubby material.
4. Stamina
Don’t believe the people who tell you $ex doesn’t matter-it does.
It’s not everything in terms of a relationship, but having a guy
who knows what his girl wants and isn’t afraid to go the distance
to satisfy her is important. Nobody wants a selfish man who is
only concerned with his satisfaction.
Physical attraction may draw us in, but it’s the long-term haul that
keeps us around. Women want a man who isn’t afraid to take
control and be a$$ertive, who won’t hesitate to try something new
and wild and who will always put her as a priority in the
bedroom. Nice guys don’t finish first, they finish last.
3. Patience
They say that patience is a virtue, and it’s probably the most
accurate saying your grandmother will tell you. Patience is
important in all aspects of life-career, culture, lifestyle and
especially dating. Like anything else in life, relationships have to
evolve overtime, they aren’t perfect from the get-go and there will
often times be potholes on the road to happiness.
Life gets messy and so do we, so a woman wants a guy who is
understanding and has patience with her. We don’t want a guy
who is looking to rush us along only to sleep with us, or a guy
who is uninterested in our life goals and dreams. A man who
listens and adjusts is the kind of guy we think long term with.
2. Spontaneity
When you’re in a long-term relationship, things can get repetitive
and even boring if you don’t keep that spark alive. Women love a
man who is spontaneous and full of surprises. When a guy is up
for anything and ready for an adventure at a whim, it makes
life exciting. Who doesn’t want to spend their life with someone
who gets their adrenaline flowing?
Whether it’s a camping trip for a weekend getaway or a really cool
new restaurant that he thinks you would love, a guy who is full of
surprises is a guy who is making it a priority to keep you happy
and keep things interesting.
1. Genuine Emotion
It’s almost a known fact that guys don’t like to get emotional.
Think about it, when’s the last time you saw your man shed a
tear? Girls look for that genuine bone in a guys body, and I’m not
just talking about the one in his pants. When a guy is genuine
with you about your relationship and his emotions especially, it
means he cares and he takes you seriously.
When a guy opens up to his girl, it shows that the relationship is
built on trust. Girls are always looking for men to be upfront
about their feelings and not having to pull those three little words
out of him like they’re pulling teeth at the dentist.



Source:- http://www.therichest.com/expensive-lifestyle/lifestyle/10-things-a-girl-would-rather-you-have-than-money/

butterflyy:
I know the write up is going t̶̲̥̅̊ø̲̣̣̥ be a good one A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ educating too, but I didn't read all. Too long

be like say them just buy BB for this one

donholy28:
Agreed but d Bible says d love of money is d root of all evil..yet d same Bible says money answereth all things

vizkiz:


be like say them just buy BB for this one

PunkyVeer:
YES, even though I don't care much for #5 because I know not everyone is from the Brady Bunch type family. The rest though almost gave me a brain orgasm because they're on point

PunkyVeer:
YES, even though I don't care much for #5 because I know not everyone is from the Brady Bunch type family. The rest though almost gave me a brain orgasm because they're on point

Sabrwahaqqo:


Oh my! Brain orgasm?

You must be a pooorn star hahahaha!

PunkyVeer:


I swear I had to hold on to SOMETHING because my brain was clenching like mad That's a perfect guy right there in black & white.

Sabrwahaqqo:


The way you're talking,

My agama lizard is kicking

Wanting to nod

Mind you there is no honey pot available

Or will you come over and calm him for me

No?

Pls no no. He's matured , infact so vengeful you'll enjoy

BTW, don't understand what the perfect guy in b/w means... Help me!

PunkyVeer:

PunkyVeer:


I swear I had to hold on to SOMETHING because my brain was clenching like mad That's a perfect guy right there in black & white.

Richardonald:
ar u sayin u galz dnt want moni but only luv..but majority of u hv destroy womanhood so let it get 2 ur brain

PunkyVeer:


Go deal with the "majority" that "destroyed womanhood" & let me appreciate what's written on this thread in peace. Y'all have some real issues. Thank baby Jesus I'm not the shrink that'll have to deal with all that fuckery.

respect80:
True talk