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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by cococandy(f): 7:59pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: Yea. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by snakebeat: 8:09pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ifecx4real: 8:10pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Probably might just be that he really wants you to come, so used the wife as excuse. Could that be possible? 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 8:13pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
ifecx4real:Hmm,I'd be more comfortable if this is it. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
To the OP If I should reason like most typical Nigerian, I would go with this line of thought by favolly to rub it in your face that she won the 'prize' but on the long run, the lady in question may mean no harm just to see you.... maybe your ex told her that you were his first . . . . . .Girlfriend or lover My thought thou. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Yeah. I'd turn up looking sexy. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Favolly(f): 9:04pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
slimz10:I wouldn't insist that my husband's first attend our wedding. I'm sure most ladies won't either. I don't think that explains it 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by greatgod2012(f): 9:51pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
@freecocoa, I broke my silence because of you. Why does he or she wants you there? To rub it on your face Please, don't go. Send a congratulatory message to them on the morning of the D-day, and wish them well. It can't be very comfortable for neither you nor him. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 10:05pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
YourMain: Who sexy help 1 Like |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Favolly: OK That is why I said that it is my humble opinion. The only way for the OP to know the reason of the invite is to attend the wedding. Who knows, the lady in question may turn out to know OP 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Tashaamania(f): 10:45pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
YourMain:Like this? 5 Likes
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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by eyinjuege: 2:57am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Don't bother going. To serve what purpose there? Is it to set tongues of his relatives and your mutual friends wagging or what? You would just be a distraction and you can bet people that knew you guys together will start comparing you with the wife. Why not avoid the drama? It's not as though you guys remained close friends after the breakup. Just call and wish him well a day before the wedding jare. 21 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by tpiah01: 3:00am On Sep 06, 2015 |
If his wife is the one behind the invitation, don't go. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by iameugene(m): 4:14am On Sep 06, 2015 |
If the wife wants you there.. Girl she wants you jealous trust me 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by iameugene(m): 4:14am On Sep 06, 2015 |
If the wife wants you there.. Girl she wants you jealous trust me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by tpiah01: 4:17am On Sep 06, 2015 |
iameugene: indeed, that's all there is to it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by armyofone(m): 5:14am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Don't go...now is the time to cut off communication with him too. Madame is using a slick way to send a message. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by keenn: 8:14am On Sep 06, 2015 |
When we eat, courtesy demands we invite people to come joins us. Not all invite to come to the dinning table are intended. You know ur boyfriend well, since he felt cold inviting u, then its understandable to think it wasn't intended, just courtesy. You have no business to go because his would be wife said so, I believe she insisted in just making a point on who won. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by tpiah01: 8:19am On Sep 06, 2015 |
freecocoa: he didnt sound happy, obviously he doesnt want you to attend his wedding but the wife is insisting, you yourself are having doubts about going, why then must you go? I'm surprised you asked such a question. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 9:07am On Sep 06, 2015 |
tpiah01:I'm curious na Tpia and I wouldn't mind seeing some old friends too. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 9:51am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Tashaamania: Lol even hotter. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by veave(f): 9:59am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Don't go. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 10:34am On Sep 06, 2015 |
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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by HyDee001(m): 11:53am On Sep 06, 2015 |
There's no specific answer to questions like this given the fact that a lot of factors may be involved which may vary in different situations. You know him better than any of us on this thread. Do you think he is doing this to spite you? What kind of man was he during your period of dating him? Are you still emotionally attached to him or is he still in to you? Have you both been in contact (of any kind) since you both parted ways? These are the kinds of questions that should be asked. They should lead you to make the right decision. from your write up, you seem to have made up your mind, at least to 65%. You just need affirmation But if it were to be me, I'd go. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Justbeingreal(m): 2:15pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
The fiance just wanna give u some dianel Bryan Yes Yes Yes Yes I won 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by 5minsmadness: 2:19pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
So what about your ex, the one u were always talking about? What about her? Well aren't u going to invite her? Erm, I don't know, I was thinking I would, that's if you don't mind.... Lol, of course I don't mind! Let her come, it will be an opportunity to see this your first love av heard so much about. Not that she was so perfect else u would have married her abi? (uncomfortable) it's no biggie, she doesn't need to come... Nonsense. I INSIST. Make sure u send her an invite. Let her come, let it not be like it's me preventing you two from seeing each other one last time.... (more uncomfortable) em, I really don't think it's necessary to invite her.... Look, there's no problem. Make sure u send her an invite. Deliver it personally even. I insist! Caveat: The above short discussion is a work of fiction. Any semblance to real occurrences is purely coincidental. 25 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 3:01pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Funny. It's best to avoid the whole thing then. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by staymore: 3:20pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Women and their fish brain. Go there and half of the people will know the same woman that wanted to snatch her husband still have the guts to attend her wedding. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 3:35pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
staymore:Do you have to be insulting to make your point? How fish brain take enter the matter now? 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by staymore: 3:43pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
freecocoa: Ok sorry oh! Women brain sorry in advance if you are still not ok with it. 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Mintayo(m): 7:48pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
That awkward moment... I hope you won't experience such! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by TheNextAce: 11:05pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
I was not invited |
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