Am dating a girl for like a year and 5months now,she was staying with her parents in her home town before I told her to come over to lagos,I registered her for an auxilary nursing later I lose my job, so I told her to pack in to my house,we have been living together for months now. Any time she offend me she always want me to beg her. Just yesterday her siblings came to the town and they where in her elder sisters house,that same yesterday I was supose to see my close friend who lost her mother,but she told me to wait for her till she return from her sisters house that she will be back latest 4 that she want to go with me. I waited and wait till it was 6:30pm then was late already, I could not see my friend again instead of her to tell am sorry she's carrying her face waiting for me to ask her what's going on. Please I need advice what kind of woman she,do you people think she's the right woman for me? Because I take her as a wife..

I can't comprehend this..


English please

It is because issues keep arising and that is what happens when people live together

aziegbei:
I have been dating my girl for a year plus now, who were not staying with me before, later she parked into my house after sometime issues keep coming up up to an extend even if she offend me she will never aggree she is faulty. The next thing she does is for her to start packing her belongs, that she have to leave,that its because she is staying with me,issues keep araising. Am so confuse is it that she is having another guy in her life or is she tired of the relationship? Pls I need advice people..

Please try and express yourself very well.

1)Neither ur not the understanding type that cant tolerate her shits like male crushes

Or your the lazy type not hardworking b.f that like stressing a lady

Or you simply broke can't take care of her needs
If she loves you she definitely gona let u know her house and visit her promptly, if she doesn't want u to know then she's up to a game plan with other men

its because of d cohabilitati:on

yeah o.p sack her now..... If she is like dis b4 marriage then imagine how she will treat u after marriage.

When two brains live together shit happens..... Were u expecting a smooth life? Its obvious there must be misunderstanding but how we handle it makes us adults..... As for me, I can't be blackmailed to live with a lady m Nat legally married to......

Sweetyie:
its because of d cohabilitati:on

co_habitation is bad,the only advantage is the steady pounding of the pusy

She is using fake psychology on you. Next time she threatens to park her load, help her carry it to the door. Since she cannot say simple Sorry abeg make she carry her wahala comot.

the poster above me is dead right. pls do not marry that girl if u want to live long... and earlier she's out of that house the better. do not impregnate her

Maybe ur grammar chased her out.

On a serious note, you guys should use common sense to decipher when you are being used or not. Moreover the way people rush in and out of relationships these days is alarming. Break up today, and next week you in a new one.

Relax, free this lady. Focus on other priorities, and tins will fall in place, even your love life