Dear Bunmi

My problem is my husband. Before we got married, he was very decent and a gentleman. Since we got married, however, he has turned into what can best be described as an animal.

He likes to have sexual intercourse in unusual and perverted ways. Although we have a very comfortable bed, he likes to take me on a hard floor.

He asks me to suck him. I want to please him in this, but the thing is so large, it always makes me gag! I never ask him to do anything abnormal, so why has he turned into something I now fear? It has got to a point where I hate making love with him. I have even thought of running away.
Uche, by e-mail.

Dear Uche,

Why don’t you tell your husband how you feel about his sexual demands. They are not as abnormal as you think, but you have to enjoy doing them together to make them fulfilling. Discuss the techniques you particularly fancy with him and try and meet his needs half-way too.
Now that you are married, don’t expect him to be as cautious as when you were courting. The love you share should see you through problems you think are abnormal.

Don’t run away from perceived problems only to be confronted by real sexual perverts. What goes on behind closed doors between consenting adults is mostly healthy.


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/09/help-my-husbands-sexual-demands-abnormal/

TOO MUCH OF PORN FILM.

THE MAN IN QUESTION NEED COMPREHENSIVE COUNSELING.

Alright

Op are we supposed to give the person in question advice, or give you advice to convey to the person in question

Had to read the post twice to find what's abnormal there.
His sexual demand is just abnormal from your stand point. Talk it over with your hubby darling.

shey you people said no sex before marriage.....if toh say you let the man sample you before marriage......you would have been fore-armed.....common gerara here

So who re we to define what is normal and abnormal in a marriage, I suggest u guys sit and talk about it and look for ways to make it a little pleasurable, who knows with tyme u might learn to like it

oya buy vigra pills,trust me,he will be begging you to stop....u will be the one running after him

there are no such thing as abnormal sexual practices in marriage, it all comes down to both of them being sexually INCOMPATIBLE.
there is nothing wrong in having sex in places different than where you usually have sex, in order to spice your lovemaking.

Men love exploiting their wild sexual fantasies, usually in the early stage of the marriage........its just a matter of time you'll be the one complaining of being sex-starved

But u are the one who who made him take you to cinema to watch 50 shades of gray. What did u expect dear

faith551:
Op are we supposed to give the person in question advice, or give you advice to convey to the person in question

Nah I think op decided to seek for advice for the person in question but later gave the person in question advice so we the rest shouldn't bother giving the person in question advice as it seems the person in question didn't ask op directly the question.... Hope have answered your question?

Give him the antidote nah.

My problem is my husband. Before we got married, he was very decent and a gentleman. Since we got married, however, he has turned into what can best be described as an animal.

Well, get abnormal too.
Love is when you've got mutual weirdness wd ur beta half

MRBrownJ:
there are no such thing as abnormal sexual practices in marriage, it all comes down to both of them being sexually INCOMPATIBLE.
there is nothing wrong in having sex in places different than where you usually have sex, in order to spice your lovemaking.

She was complaining about a hard floor. I doubt it is comfortable even for sexually compatible couples.

MrsChima:

She was complaining about a hard floor. I doubt it is comfortable even for sexually compatible couples.

SOLUTION: put a floor mat/clothe/mattress on the kitchen floor and the issue would be solved instantly!

MRBrownJ:


SOLUTION: put a floor mat/clothe/mattress on the kitchen floor and the issue would be solved instantly!

And that supposed to change someone's preference of NOT WANTING to be on the floor?

Tomfrench:
Men love exploiting their wild sexual fantasies, usually in the early stage of the marriage........its just a matter of time you'll be the one complaining of being sex-starved

The problem with dishonest people is that they are usually the ones bleeped at the end. If he was honest about what he expected from a wife BEFORE MARRIAGE he wouldn't be dealing with a whining wife who obviously doesn't share the same sex ideas.

Tomfrench:
Men love exploiting their wild sexual fantasies, usually in the early stage of the marriage........its just a matter of time you'll be the one complaining of being sex-starved

Talking from experience

God save women folk... Hmmmmmm

Omotayor123:

Talking from experience

MRBrownJ:
there are no such thing as abnormal sexual practices in marriage, it all comes down to both of them being sexually INCOMPATIBLE.
there is nothing wrong in having sex in places different than where you usually have sex, in order to spice your lovemaking.

case closed

Omotayor123:
Talking from experience

say all you want

MrsChima:


And that supposed to change someone's preference of NOT WANTING to be on the floor?

if their complain for not wanting to be on the floor is that it is a HARD FLOOR?! yes!

MRBrownJ:


if their complain for not wanting to be on the floor is that it is a HARD FLOOR?! yes!

You can do better than that.

MrsChima:


The problem with dishonest people is that they are usually the ones bleeped at the end. If he was honest about what he expected from a wife BEFORE MARRIAGE he wouldn't be dealing with a whining wife who obviously doesn't share the same sex ideas.

how does disloyalty come into the sentence?
the problem is with the time-honiured superannuated wife, & not the husband
in this 21st century, what kind of woman complains of giving BJs to her spouse.

Classsyalabolas:


how does disloyalty come into the sentence?
the problem is with the time-honiured superannuated wife, & not the husband
in this 21st century, what kind of woman complains of giving BJs to her spouse.

Sighs. When you do not communicate your TRUE expectations in a marriage while dating or before marriage, you are being dishonest.

Sighs.