Yes… yes, yes. It a very well-known fact that there are a lot of gold, diamond, silver, even bronze diggers out there, in here, everywhere; girls nowadays would ridiculously dig anything ‘dig-able’ and you really don’t want to imagine the kind of tools they dig with. Miners have got nothing on them.

Gone were the days when they dug with digger and shovel. Nope!... technology has made the tools mechanized so they can literally dig you from far, middle or close range.
A bro once updated his BBM personal message and I quote:

“Whenever she uses that sad smiley as pm, brothers better not ask what’s wrong cos next thing, you fit dey open GTB app for your phone.” Can we call that ‘smiley-digging’?

Now to the main koko of the post, please regardless of your experience(s) with the female folk, they are not all gold diggers (abi your mum gold dug your popsy?). That girl you’re casting one kind side eye on may not even be a gold digger.
These points doesn’t qualify your spouse as a GD. Understood?

> She asks how much your salary is: Believe me, not every lady asks this with a mischievous intention. Some only ask in a bid to help you become a better financial manager. Depending on how long you’ve been together, she probably have seen how you manage your cash and knows she can either help you handle it better or give you good management ideas. It’s a sign she sees a future with you.

> She asks you to buy this or that: That’s the way most ladies see their men, especially ladies who haven’t been independent since a young age. These ones tend to see a daddy figure in their men. Yes, she might have a million naira in her account and she’s still asking for 30k for shopping or something. She only wants it to be a “He-bought-it-for-me” item. Not necessarily GD.

> She asks you to settle her bills: Most times, it’s her internet sub. It might be something bigger like her rent or so. She only wants to enjoy your financial strength and capabilities. Not necessarily gold digging you but if she asks you consecutively, errr… I don’t know about that one sha. But settling your spouse’s bills ‘at times’ isn’t necessarily a GD antic. If you’ve got the capability for it; why not?

> She asks for a material possession: “Borrow me your laptop” “Can I borrow your iPad?” They never use the word “Give”. Once they start ‘borrowing’ it, they want to have it. It’s not necessarily GD if she gets some things for herself and you too – once in a while and not overly dependent or borrowing but if she has never gotten you anything and all she hasn’t borrowed are the keys to your car and apartment, my brother, keep those well.

> She asks for your bank details: This one is very technical. I would strongly disagree with sharing bank details (banking app passwords, ATM pins, Security questions, etc) with someone you’re courting/dating – my own view. You see, when you get married, even if she wants the finger print, it’s all hers. But believe me, situations may occur and she asks, doesn’t mean she’s a GD. You must be very meticulous and know the kind of person you’re dealing with. Is she somebody you can disclose info like that to, or you’ll just find an excuse till you can probably handle the situation from your end. Your relationship; Your decision.


Let’s stop at that five for now and a word for the brothers is: Don’t let past experiences put you in a corner where your spouse will keep feeling offended any time financial issues rise between you two.


Disclaimer: Those five points are sincerely relative and the author has not said they should be ignored as gold digging red flags. Instead, a high level of meticulousness, ability to study who you claim to be in a relationship with and accurately sharp use of your common sense is required in following the content or points above.

Thank you.




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ALL women (who are not rich) are gold diggers. Some are just more direct than others is all.

ok

Once I dated a guy who exactly done all of these & I have to cut off my ties with him before he'll Chop my cheese...

KashyBaby:
Once I dated a guy who exactly done all of these & I have to cut off my ties with him before he'll Chop my cheese...

'cheese balls'

Hian

IamAtribalist:


ALL women (who are not rich) are gold diggers. Some are just more direct than others is all.

Your post makes no sense.

all I see are gold digging attributes








respect to the thread which put on more light on point 1 posted yday

lekjons:
'cheese balls'

Is tat the other term for paper too ?
Real talk tho...thank God I dodged d bullet...

KashyBaby:
Once I dated a guy who exactly done all of these & I have to cut off my ties with him before he'll Chop my cheese...

I thought it was only me o....guys do more of the Gold digging self,especially those broke niggaz hustling backwards....

Alaye parkwell, Shoroniyen

misspicy:

I thought it was only me o....guys do more of the Gold digging self,especially those broke niggaz hustling backwards....

Exactly and the worst thing, tat guy always talk about nothing but problem abt money...

KashyBaby:

Exactly and the worst thing, tat guy always talk about nothing but problem abt money...

For those working among them,u will see them driving flashy cars buh its their gf that is fueling it,paying their rent,paying for meals on date,some will buy foodstuffs n cook with her own money.

For the students,its gf that will cook with her money,buy his handouts..etc...
I even had a bf in school then who I always pay for his haircut,i nvr owed him a dime.
Yet this ingrates will still come on NL and Start bashing their generations....

misspicy:

For those working among them,u will see them driving flashy cars buh its their gf that is fueling it,paying their rent,paying for meals on date,some will buy foodstuffs n cook with her own money.

For the students,its gf that will cook with her money,buy his handouts..etc...
I even had a bf in school then who I always pay for his haircut,i nvr owed him a dime.
Yet this ingrates will still come on NL and Start bashing their generations....

Yes indeed...and even wearing some branded clothes & accessories, only to find out all those stuffs are all fake... a nigga wearing thick chains with Medusa, Hermes belt, Gucci wallet, LV shoes, Armani shirt,lol but can't buy egusi soup..smh!

Now the ladies want Beef...
Lmfao ee no sweat ..make una add small Maggi&salt

Peeps are on PARA mode in here. Someone call PARAmedic.

Op sorry to break this to you but if she does them regularly, SHE IS A GOLD DIGGER

You have #1m in your account but am always buying you things, paying the bills, still giving you cash, despite you working ? Oh please!!


Gold digger is a derogatory name for a person who cultivates a personal relationship in order to attain money. The accusation of being a gold digger is usually aimed at a woman that is only with a man because she wants his money

So whether she's rich or earns 2m a month, so far she's solely out for my money, she digs

just take misspicy for example....

Miss spicy is surely a gold digger if nt y is she pained..guess she is annoyed cos d op wan blow her cover

Gals are born naturally to be gold diggers...dey av gold digging genes no Mata how dey appear to be good.. Its jst few of d reasonable ones dat actually plant their Gold themselves

#peace