What will you do if a Billionaire offers you 1 million dollars ($1m ) to sleep with your wife for just one night. That was the question asked last week by Buki and Sholz of Classic FM on their lunch time program. According to them, there was this movie about a couple who were dead broke, so much so, that they couldn’t even afford to buy themselves a meal on the anniversary of their wedding. They were at this restaurant where they had intended to have dinner to celebrate their anniversary, but, on going through the menu, they found out that they could barely afford anything on the menu.

However, seated in a quiet corner in the restaurant was this billionaire who was obviously attracted to the wife and has noticed their predicament. He asked them over to his table and told them they could have anything they wanted on his bill. They got talking and during the course of their conversation the billionaire asked the husband, what will he say if he offered him $1 million to have his wife for just one night.
Initially the couple had laughed over it and looked at it like a bad joke but on getting home they realized that the billionaire was dead serious and the reality of their situation hit them. The fact that they could not even afford to pay their rent and many other things made them sit down and have a heart to heart talk on what they should do.

Well your guess is as good as mine on what happened afterwards. However, I threw this question open the other day at our usual hang out spot and Ola a 45 year old stock broker said he will take the money. We were all surprised when he said this, but then everybody is entitled to his opinion. I asked him, if he was sure of what he was saying, and how is he going to continue living with his wife knowing that he had shared her with another man for money? It was then he told me that he will split the money halfway with his wife and then ask for a divorce, because he definitely won’t be able to sleep with her again after the act. Ehime a 42 year old businessman on his part, said he cannot do such a thing, as it is against their tradition in Esan land where he comes from. He told us that while that kind of act maybe acceptable in the western world it would be a big taboo over here in Africa, and in Nigeria in particular. He said in Esan land, once a couple is married traditionally it will be a big taboo for the wife to sleep with another man, and if she does this, it will have dire consequences on both the woman and her children, as she may end up losing her children one after the other and eventually she will lose her life if she refuses to confess. However, if the husband is privy to this and is still married to the woman, he will be the one to lose his life. So he said he will not want to lose his life and so cannot accept that kind of offer even if he is offered a $1 Billion dollars.

Although I did not get to hear the responses from listeners on the radio program to know how they responded but I know that majority of Nigerian men will not accept such an offer. Just like Ehime said, our culture and tradition forbids such a thing. In Urhobo land where I come from, our tradition is just like that of the Esan people. Once a couple is married traditionally the woman cannot afford to sleep with any other man because it will definitely work against her and her hubby if the man is aware. Ola was however of a different opinion about this. He said that there are a lot of married women who sleep around these days and nothing is happening to them or their family.

It may be true that some married women do get away with infidelity but this can only happen under the following circumstances
(i) If the couple were not married traditionally. ( There are some couples who just did Court Registry)
(ii) If they were merely cohabiting and have not done their traditional rites.
(iii) There are some part of Nigeria where this kind of taboo is not applicable
(iv) Some women go to the extent of looking for the antidote to forestall any eventuality that may arise as a result of their Misdemeanor

So you can see why it will be difficult for a lot of Nigerian men to accept such an offer. Even without the shenanigan of our culture and tradition. It will be quite difficult for any man to accept money and agree to share his wife. This is Africa and in Africa such things are not acceptable. Although I know that with the harsh reality of the Economy some men like Ola might want to accept it considering the amount of money involved. The question however is, will they be able to live with themselves after doing this. LOL
let me tell me what you think. I will love to know

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Hmmm

If my husband no collct d money...I go divorce am

kestolove95:
If my husband no collct d money...I go divorce am

kestolove95:
If my husband no collct d money...I go divorce am

You no well gaahn!



If I be your husband and you talk this kain thing, na 4 slaps every morning for 4 years.


**na joke oooo**

Mhen The Money First........ we talking money u talking nonsense

kestolove95:
If my husband no collct d money...I go divorce am

to fvck another dickk don dey do you before the offer

NEVER NEVER NEVER in between 1million dollar is in d range of 200million naira so its a chicken chenge. "its not even enough for a mansion at ABUJA.

kestolove95:
If my husband no collct d money...I go divorce am

Because you are too cheap.
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I just look at your DP and am wondering why a pretty lady like you should make this kind of comment.

I'll tell him to make it $3m and if he agrees, then we can talk business. 1m isn't just enough

I'll tell him to make it $3m and if he agrees, then we can talk business. 1m isn't just enough and if he doesn't want, we walk away

in reality d money looks tempting tho its morally wrong, bt on a second thought if d lady no b virgin wen u marry am I think d situation amount to d same thing, just backdate ur memory as d event takes place dats all....na joke I dey o

$1mil is equivalent to N215,000,000 as in Two hundred and fifteen million naira.....hmmm, she better tender the thing to the man.

emmyw:
Because you are too cheap.
*modified.
I just look at your DP and am wondering why a pretty lady like you should make this kind of comment.

Bros, na joke na! It sounded funny to me.

kestolove95:
If my husband no collct d money...I go divorce am

U shud marry me


I swear u too correct

kestolove95:
If my husband no collct d money...I go divorce am

Dis babe, u go like diccckke pass ur man

Op the movie is indecent proposal.

The money is too small for me to consider. May be $1 billion.....

But for most guys, that will be the end of the marriage. So the questions should be, can you end your marriage for $1 million or for any other amount?

Once the guys collects the money, he will start hating his wife and definitely start philandering with other girls. So we all know the money will effectively end the marriage.

uote author=jashar post=37991846]It's appalling to know that money is much important than human life

You no know Wetin the man carry and you go let am sleep with ya wife!!!

After una 2 don collect the money finish, you'll start hearing stories that touch, especially from the man.

The tired old song of these hoes ain't loyal blah de blah.

Can you with good conscience sleep with that woman again? Next thing you know, divorce papers come calling.[/quote]
Exactly my point. A lot of people will want to take the money out of greed but would not be able to live with their concience afterwards. The truth is that any man that takes this kind of money in the first place does not really love his wife in the first place.

cc: Sabrwahaqqo

MrsPhyno:
cc: Sabrwahaqqo

I know you're trying to implicate me , but you should know I won't run or melt . I'll tell you what you want to hear


Even if I reject that money, wife could divorce and go ahead to become the rich man's fifth wife or if not so could go back for the doe behind my back .

Since I can't afford to lose on both ends,the logic here's simple, we'll cheat on one another for that night (only). As soon as she agrees to go in with the rich man ( 'll beg him to use condom) , I'll find my own hooker to cool nerves with too and we four will go in for a foursome . Should be that simple

Sabrwahaqqo:


I know you're trying to implicate me , but you should know I won't run or melt . I'll tell you what you want to hear


Even if I reject that money, wife could divorce and go ahead to become the rich man's fifth wife or if not so could go back for the doe behind my back .

Since I can't afford to lose on both ends,the logic here's simple, we'll cheat on one another for that night (only). As soon as she agrees to go in with the rich man ( 'll beg him to use condom) , I'll find my own hooker to cool nerves with too and we four will go in for a foursome . Should be that simple

I'm not trying to do anything

Interesting. Idek what I would do..... I love money alooooot beht.... iono

Interesting

MrsPhyno:

I'm not trying to do anything

Interesting. Idek what I would do..... I love money alooooot beht.... iono

I've it in mind to be stinkingly rich before marriage anyway . So I don't see money related complication(s) coming God willing

Sabrwahaqqo:


I've it in mind to be stinkingly rich before marriage anyway . So I don't see money related complication(s) coming God willing

Well ur a guy so u have the luxury of time. People like me that wanna get married before 25.... you see the problem
I don't think I could do it sha. Sleep with a guy thats not my husby for a million bucks.

The money. It's too small

emmyw:
Because you are too cheap.
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I just look at your DP and am wondering why a pretty lady like you should make this kind of comment.

you sure say no be another person pisure dey there

for real life this girl kestolove95 worwor ooo

free2ryhme:

you sure say no be another person pisure dey there
for real life this girl kestolove95 worwor ooo

Lol, I thought as much.

If it's protected sex, my wife would be mad at me if I refuse to collect the money

Never, never n NEVER

Why should I offer that kind of money when I can go through his back and get her with just 50k

It doesn't make economic sense!