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12 Common Guys’ Insecurities That Women Don’t Realize by smobnology(m): 1:19pm On Sep 15, 2015
Top 12 common men’s insecurities
Here are some of the insecurities that guys deal with
on a regular basis that girls often don’t even realize.
#1 Body image issues. Guys have struggles with
their body image the same way that girls do. A guy
might worry about being too scrawny or question if a
girl will be turned off by his beer belly. Why do you
think so many guys are at the gym, vigorously
working on their arms, pecs, and abs?
Guys can also be insecure about their height,
especially if they are shorter or drastically taller than
someone they are dating.
#2 Face and body hair. So many guys go through
similar hair removal efforts as women do in order to
minimize their body hair and feel more attractive.
Other guys are obsessed with their lack of ability to
grow full facial hair, and are therefore insecure that
they look young or less “manly.” Other guys shave
regularly to avoid looking scruffy or too hairy.
The hair on a man’s head is another cause for
insecurity, especially if he’s balding or thinning. He
might hide behind hats or even shave it off
completely in order to avoid being ridiculed by his
friends or the opposite sex.
#3 His hands and feet. Guys can be super insecure
if they have feminine-looking or small hands because
it can seem less macho and masculine to a girl. Some
even feel like they’ll be judged for having delicate
hands because it makes them look like they don’t
know how to work with their hands.
Having small feet is another sensitive subject for
guys because of the myth that small feet equate to
having a small package. Some men might go to
drastic measures, like wearing shoes that are too big
for them, just to avoid being judged by their boys or
by a girl they like.
#4 His teeth and smile. Believe it or not, guys can
be insecure about their smile and their teeth just as
much as women are. Whether they have super small
teeth, gaps, overbites, or crooked teeth, they all
worry that they look unattractive or come across as
having poor hygiene.
#5 Finances. Guys can be super insecure about their
finances and how much money they make, based on
the assumption that men are supposed to support a
family or “bring home the bacon.” Even though this is
an old-fashioned macho mentality, men still feel the
pressure to measure up to other men financially.
Some guys believe that girls will stick with someone
who is more financially secure, and thus worry about
losing their girlfriend to someone who makes more
money than they do.
#6 His living situation. Most guys know that women
generally prefer a man who has his own place. If he’s
a mama’s boy who still lives at home and has zero
responsibilities inside the house, chances are, he’s
dropped a few notches on the ideal date scale. A guy
will usually aspire to live on his own and will feel
incredibly insecure if his living situation ruins his
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Re: 12 Common Guys’ Insecurities That Women Don’t Realize by ladyF(f): 1:19pm On Sep 15, 2015
Really... shocked

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Re: 12 Common Guys’ Insecurities That Women Don’t Realize by bqlekan(m): 1:31pm On Sep 15, 2015
Hehe.. the voice nko? grin
Re: 12 Common Guys’ Insecurities That Women Don’t Realize by Nobody: 1:50pm On Sep 15, 2015
Wow...... So despite all the manliness they still have insecurities
Re: 12 Common Guys’ Insecurities That Women Don’t Realize by Jayjay0(m): 4:48pm On Sep 15, 2015
Not all
Re: 12 Common Guys’ Insecurities That Women Don’t Realize by Spikkylee: 5:21pm On Sep 15, 2015
klassiquette:
Wow...... So despite all the manliness they still have insecurities



Hey!!..Nt all do.

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