Got this somewhere and just want to share here incase therez anybody here having same issue or something close..

I really feel stabbed at the back.
I've dated this lady from our very first
year in school, I really love her and as
such respect her wish of 'No sex before
marriage'. Last year she mate a guy on
Facebook, told me about it, I told her to end the relationship, she declined. To cut
the story short, the guy proposed to her,
went to see her parents, and she gave
out her virginity, slept with the guy.
Today, the guy is married to another lady.
Despite all these I still love her, but my headache now is that she still thinks of
the guy, she still love the guy and
sometimes brings him into our
discussions. Please, am I in the right
relationship, does she have any regards
or feelings for me at all, are we going to make it by thinking about our ex?
By the way, we're now graduates waiting
for NYSC to post us.

midexz:
Got this somewhere and just want to share here incase therez anybody here having same issue or something close..

I really feel stabbed at the back.
I've dated this lady from our very first
year in school, I really love her and as
such respect her wish of 'No sex before
marriage'. Last year she mate a guy on
Facebook, told me about it, I told her to end the relationship, she declined. To cut
the story short, the guy proposed to her,
went to see her parents, and she gave
out her virginity, slept with the guy.
Today, the guy is married to another lady.
Despite all these I still love her, but my headache now is that she still thinks of
the guy, she still love the guy and
sometimes brings him into our
discussions. Please, am I in the right
relationship, does she have any regards
or feelings for me at all, are we going to make it by thinking about our ex?
By the way, we're now graduates waiting
for NYSC to post us.

make i go buy pen i will comment later..next patient

op thus girl clearly doesn't love you, she will surely cheat after this, you Should let her go, there are lots of girls out there that will love you and if you get married to her you will always be insecure, wondering if She's thinking of him or not. Please move on for your peace of mind.

its funny how stvpid girls are, leaving a guy that cares for a player.

"No sex until after marriage" is one of the billshitt a lady can tell me

Men, pls dnt be fooled....

lordthree:
op thus girl clearly doesn't love you, she will surely cheat after this, you Should let her go, there are lots of girls out there that will love you and if you get married to her you will always be insecure, wondering if She's thinking of him or not. Please move on for your peace of mind.

its funny how stvpid girls are, leaving a guy that cares for a player.

I gat ur point bro even tho it aint realy bout me..

Have you finally 'tapped' the 'current'? That's my only concern in your case.

You can keep deceiving yourself sha o.

No sex no relationship that my rules. Pastors come nd preach to me.

young man all i can say is you just wasted 4 years of your life in the university dating the wrongest gurl
first worst part is that you never got anything in return, if you had done "konko below" on her, then that would be good, but unfortunately you did not, you fall guys hand.
second worst part is that you still plan on wasting more years of your life chasing and following her about.

Op,pls dont waste ya time, just tk a walk. some girls reason with dia Hole. just because a guy proposed to u, u just open ur treasure Island.

midexz:
Got this somewhere and just want to share here incase therez anybody here having same issue or something close..

I really feel stabbed at the back.
I've dated this lady from our very first
year in school, I really love her and as
such respect her wish of 'No sex before
marriage'. Last year she mate a guy on
Facebook, told me about it, I told her to end the relationship, she declined. To cut
the story short, the guy proposed to her,
went to see her parents, and she gave
out her virginity, slept with the guy.
Today, the guy is married to another lady.
Despite all these I still love her, but my headache now is that she still thinks of
the guy, she still love the guy and
sometimes brings him into our
discussions. Please, am I in the right
relationship, does she have any regards
or feelings for me at all, are we going to make it by thinking about our ex?
By the way, we're now graduates waiting
for NYSC to post us.

If I read correctly..you said she left you...for sm1 n did introductn..n even slept wit him..nw he ditched her..you hav aceptd her back..what exactly are the two of you doin togethr?isnt it obvious dt she is with u cos she dsnt av options for now?n wen she does..she ll dump ur ass again..ma dear.move on wt ur life...u shudnt b in a rltnshp where u are scared or wnderng wat ur partner's thot are cncernin u...

OP u really don't nid an advice.... a girl u r dating said no sex in ur relationship n she later gave it to a guy she met online n u r here asking rubbish question..... its OFFICIAL : Ur stupidity is exceptional, keep it up.....