In this ever changing world, sometimes as a lady you may think that you are your man's better half or only woman when you are in fact the 'other woman' to him. To make things worse you may get to find out this too late ahead when you have completely fallen for him and get really hurt as a result. So today I will reveal a couple of signs that should tell you that you my dear, are just his 'side chick'.


PARTIAL ATTENTION- You are only important to him when he 'needs' you, so he probably won't give you any attention when you guys aren't together. He will always claim to be too busy. Very few phone calls, if any at all.

KEEPING YOU PRIVATE- You two only meet in private. There will always be a good reason from him each time why you two can't go on a normal date in public.Most men are proud to introduce their women to their friends and family. But you won't be getting any of that.

HIS HOUSE IS OUT OF BOUNDS- This mostly applies to married men.You two may have been dating for some months, but you've never gone to his place. He never invites you there. This is probably because he shares it with another woman and doesn't want to get caught.

PROTECTIVE OF HIS PHONE- A man who is playing you will be very protective of his phone. When it rings, he either ignores the call or goes to answer it in another room. His phone always has a password,and he may even keep changing the password.

MONOTONY- Nothing random ever happens between you two. Random lunches or meetings are out of the question. He has to plan everything. This will give him time to make up good lies to tell his real woman.

YOU ARE SIDELINED FOR IMPORTANT OCCASIONS- Events such as Valentines Day, his birthday and generally any holiday that comes by will never have you two doing anything together. After all he spends such days with his main woman.

NEVER GETS WORKED UP- Most guys get angry or disappointed when you for example cancel something last minute. But this guy will not. After all if he isn't hooking up with you he has no chances of being caught. So you just made his life easier.

KEEPS CANCELLING- You may have planned for a date 2 weeks ago and then he suddenly cancels. This will keep happening. His main woman comes 1st so if she happens to need him you are out of the picture in that moment.

HARDLY EVER SPENDS THE ENTIRE NIGHT WITH YOU- This guy will rarely spend the night with you and if he does he will leave very early because his main woman is probably expecting him home.

NEVER TALKS ABOUT THE FUTURE- Asking him anything to do with the future of you of two is a complete no-go area. Simply put,this guy doesn't want to think about the future with you because he isn't planning one.

YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS ALMOST PURELY PHYSICAL- He will not want to connect with you at an emotional level. When you do get to spend time with him it is usually in between the sheets.


So ladies, if you see these signs in your relationship, I advise you to run Usain Bolt style. There's a guy out there that truly deserves you. Never let any man take you for granted, know your worth!

if you starve him of sex just consider yourself...you know na

All those combined still dont add up.

The moment he lays his hands on you for a beating spree (im not talking af mere slap oh, some ugly situation attracts that y'know) ...Just dust your shoes and run .

HE WON'T WANT YOU TO GET PREGNANT

Hmmmmm....

Jarizod:
ello bae. .. do u take all that wif him

Is there anything wrong in being the other woman? There is love in sharing

Enegod:
Is there anything wrong in being the other woman?
There is love in sharing

It's just good to know your true position, to avoid stories that touch. Remember the phrase 'living in fool's paradise'?

lagmostkuit:
If u take tramadol, codeine, Roche and smoke weed with him..
You're a what?

hes padi

missmary:


hes padi

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