sara j:

My husband is killing me slowly. I just don't know what to do anymore. A jamican woman called our phone today and wondered if he came back safely. She left a message on our voicemail and said baby at the end. I don't know what his up to. I don't know where to go from here. My life is over!

tope2000:

Do u need me to slap u back to planet earth or what??
What have u done since u heard the vmail?? have u asked ur husband abt it yet?

sara j:

No, because if I dare confront him he threatens that he will report me to his mother. She is living thousands of miles away, she does not see whats going on. He pretends that he is an angel to his family but I cannot take it anymore. My heart is broken. I love him so much but why is he sleeping with various women outside. What did I do to deserve this??

sara j:

@tope

I respect his family and at the end of the day that his her son. He has more power over me. If I confront him about his phliandering, he calls his mother and tells them I am mad or something. It has happened before.

tpia:

why cant you report him to his mother?

Was she the only wife- that may affect how she sees the problem.

sara j:

I've done that before. Does it work? NO.

I called my mum in law this night to tell her how sorry I am that her mother is sick,
her sister was there also. They were laughing in the background and they hung up
on me.
I have NEVER felt so HURT in my life.

Treetop20:

so does this mean they don't like you?

sara j:

We have a 4 yr old child. Now tell me how to move on??
I want my husband. I have been married almost 5 yrs.
I am 25 yrs old. How can i divorce at 25??

No, because if I dare confront him he threatens that he will report me to his mother.

sara j:

My husband is 31. I wish he would treat me better.

davidylan:

eeyah pele. Next time look before you leap.

Ziggy_mama:

                     when is her next time gon b? . . .  

davidylan:

when she moves unto husband no 2 or 3 or 4 depending on how many times she divorces.