Married for six years husband is hiv positive while the wife negative and no children yet the husband did not want the wife to go begging her to get someone to impregnate her to save the marriage pls advice the wife she is confused.

She should continue to stay in the marriage. What does not kill a man can only make him stronger.

Besides, there a ways to go when carriers of the disease want to have children without actually infecting the child and the mother. Why haven't you seen your doctor or gone for counselling, op?

If reverse was the case, the men here will advise that the husband should send her packing at once. Nigerians and double standards.

What is the woman still doing thereshe should better start packing,if things were to be turned round the man wouldnt have think twice before handing her an eviction notice.

BALLOSKI:
She should continue to stay in the marriage. What does not kill a man can only make him stronger.

Besides, there a ways to go when carriers of the disease want to have children without actually infecting the child and the mother. Why haven't you seen your doctor or gone for counselling, op?

if assuming na the woman carry am u for never divorce her with lame accusations of cheat

Dennygirl:
if assuming na the woman carry am u for never divorce her with lame accusations of cheat

the op said they have been married for 6 years and it seems the wife is aware of his health status. If she has been enduring, what stops her from doing that now?

dominique:

If reverse was the case, the men here will advise that the husband should send her packing at once. Nigerians and double standards.

are you surprised . In fact the whole family and neighbours will know

what I'm surprised about is why bible quoters have not come to quote bible in 1st corinthians that love is patient and kind and endures through every circumstance

The was not aware of the sickness until when the was seriously sick and they went to hospital and the husband got to know and still he did not inform the wife.it was after like three months after the wife saw the letter given to from the hospital referring him to him to teaching hospital about his retroviral status that makes him to confess And start begging her not to leave him when the wife went for her own test and she is negative,maybe he was thinking both of them are positive only god knows what was on his mind.and him already has a grown up daughter.

She should avoid unprotected sex, wet kiss and they should not share materials such as razor, shaving stick, tooth brush, comb and other sharp objects. When the man starts developing sore in the mouth, they must stop using same cup, spoon and even plate. But how come she in negative, Thank GOD for her.

ayab66:
The was not aware of the sickness until when the was seriously sick and they went to hospital and the husband got to know and still he did not inform the wife.it was after like three months after the wife saw the letter given to from the hospital referring him to him to teaching hospital about his retroviral status that makes him to confess And start begging her not to leave him when the wife went for her own test and she is negative,maybe he was thinking both of them are positive only god knows what was on his mind.and him already has a grown up daughter.

The wife shld leave ASAP

ayab66:
The was not aware of the sickness until when the was seriously sick and they went to hospital and the husband got to know and still he did not inform the wife.it was after like three months after the wife saw the letter given to from the hospital referring him to him to teaching hospital about his retroviral status that makes him to confess And start begging her not to leave him when the wife went for her own test and she is negative,maybe he was thinking both of them are positive only god knows what was on his mind.and him already has a grown up daughter.

So the man was even aware of his status and hid it from his wife risking her life in the process. What if she had gotten infected, only him would have been receiving treatment while the infection slowly kills the wife. He's nothing but an evil, lying, unfaithful jackass and deserves to be left all alone.

SAMBARRY:
are you surprised . In fact the whole family and neighbours will know

what I'm surprised about is why bible quoters have not come to quote bible in 1st corinthians that love is patient and kind and endures through every circumstance

Rofl Such verses apply only to women o. An African man should be patient and kind and enduring ke? The world go soon come to an end be that o.

what more advice does she need?
she Berra pack out,why risk her life for a childless union?

would the man wait if the table is turned?

dominique:


Rofl Such verses apply only to women o. An African man should be patient and kind and enduring ke? The world go soon come to an end be that o.

ayab66:
The was not aware of the sickness until when the was seriously sick and they went to hospital and the husband got to know and still he did not inform the wife.it was after like three months after the wife saw the letter given to from the hospital referring him to him to teaching hospital about his retroviral status that makes him to confess And start begging her not to leave him when the wife went for her own test and she is negative,maybe he was thinking both of them are positive only god knows what was on his mind.and him already has a grown up daughter.

I would've advised that the should contact a heart to heart centre for counselling but the above post reeks of the man's crass wickedness. He's probably waiting for the woman to contact it so he can heap the blames on her.

The lady should leave him hale and hearty .

he didn't tell the wife when he found out? urgh. that's something u're supposed to tell ur spouse! even if it's just ur gf or bf, u must tell them! pple go to prison for that sort of thing. a guy did that for yrs in the u.s and the pple he had sex with contracted the disease. turns out he was actually spreading it on purpose!!! long story short he's now spending life behind bars! though he's also receiving treatment there, that's the u.s for u.

if i were his wife, him not telling me alone would make me say bye bye!!!! anyone who witholds that info from u does not love u! she found out bc she saw the document but what if she didn't? he would've continued keeping it a secret and then she would get it too during intercourse, but thankfully she saw it.

if the tables were turned and she's the one with HIV+, it's either he would've gotten someone else pregnant by now so he can hv a child of his own or even left her to marry another woman!!!

soooo, the woman should do what's best for her

HIV WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT??

THE WOMAN NO NO HOW TO RUN 440!!!!!!!she should clear the house and leave him in an empty house to die HONOURABLY!!!!
IF NA ME HE WILL COME HOME TO MEET AN EMPTY HOUSE!!!I WILL CALL WITH AN INTERNATIONAL NUMBER MONTHS LATER.GOD PUNISH DEVIL!

BALLOSKI:
She should continue to stay in the marriage. What does not kill a man can only make him stronger.

Besides, there a ways to go when carriers of the disease want to have children without actually infecting the child and the mother. Why haven't you seen your doctor or gone for counselling, op?

.NA SHE GIVE AM HIV?

ayab66:
Married for six years husband is hiv positive while the wife negative and no children yet the husband did not want the wife to go begging her to get someone to impregnate her to save the marriage pls advice the wife she is confused.

ayab66:
The was not aware of the sickness until when the was seriously sick and they went to hospital and the husband got to know and still he did not inform the wife.it was after like three months after the wife saw the letter given to from the hospital referring him to him to teaching hospital about his retroviral status that makes him to confess And start begging her not to leave him when the wife went for her own test and she is negative,maybe he was thinking both of them are positive only god knows what was on his mind.and him already has a grown up daughter.

Typical example of a desperado hanging on to a sham of a "marriage" by fire by force. Anyway, she's not out of the woods yet. Let her go for another test in 3 months time.

Abeg Kanwuliajare, your input is needed here.

Oh shes lucky shes negative even though hes positive.
she can file for divorce if she wants, or she loves him she may stay and remain chuldless.

EggovinMma:


.NA SHE GIVE AM HIV?

no vex , Na devil win d man.

dominique:


So the man was even aware of his status and hid it from his wife risking her life in the process. What if she had gotten infected, only him would have been receiving treatment while the infection slowly kills the wife. He's nothing but an evil, lying, unfaithful jackass and deserves to be left all alone.

I've seen their types before during my nysc days volunteering in a health center.
Some ladies will come there pregnant and only find out then that they are carrying the virus.
Meanwhile the hubbies have been on drugs for long without informing the wives.
Maybe their hope is that the wives will die first so that people will think she's the one who infected him.
There were many such cases especially with those oil workers that hardly stay in one place.

How can you one hide such a thing and knowingly make love to someone else?

cococandy:

I've seen their types before during my nysc days volunteering in a health center.
Some ladies will come there pregnant and only find out then that they are carrying the virus.
Meanwhile the hubbies have been in drugs for long without informing the wives.
Maybe their hope is that the wives will die first so that people will think she's the one who infected him.
There were many such cases especially with those oil workers that hardly stay in one place.

How can you one hide such a thing and knowingly make love to someone else?

Pure, unadulterated wickedness. How do they sleep comfortably at night??

dominique:


Rofl Such verses apply only to women o. An African man should be patient and kind and enduring ke? The world go soon come to an end be that o.

You want emasculate him by saying he should be kind and patient and enduring?.
Those aren't masculine traits.

According to NL

EfemenaXY:


Pure, unadulterated wickedness. How do they sleep comfortably at night??

wish I knew

cococandy:

I've seen their types before during my nysc days volunteering in a health center.
Some ladies will come there pregnant and only find out then that they are carrying the virus.
Meanwhile the hubbies have been in drugs for long without informing the wives.
Maybe their hope is that the wives will die first so that people will think she's the one who infected him.
There were many such cases especially with those oil workers that hardly stay in one place.

How can you one hide such a thing and knowingly make love to someone else?

. That's so horrible and evil!

cococandy:

I've seen their types before during my nysc days volunteering in a health center.
Some ladies will come there pregnant and only find out then that they are carrying the virus.
Meanwhile the hubbies have been on drugs for long without informing the wives.
Maybe their hope is that the wives will die first so that people will think she's the one who infected him.
There were many such cases especially with those oil workers that hardly stay in one place.

How can you one hide such a thing and knowingly make love to someone else?

Why are people so wicked?

That is serious o

He doesn't want her to go
?!!!!??!!!!!?!?!!?

What does he want her to do, stay and catch the AIDS?

Time to unfollow this very wicked thread.

If she wants to be HIV+ she should continue to stay, if she wants to remain negative she should leave, simple. That said, this man is mean o, was it his plan to infect her with the virus? Haba.