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Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by dominique(f): 12:43am On Oct 01, 2015 |
cococandy: Lol, I hardly engage in e-argument but this guy needs needs to get a thing or two about regards for women. 1 Like |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 1:16am On Oct 01, 2015 |
dominique: You believed this fabricated and exaggerated story... it doesn't add up... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by lastpage: 2:28am On Oct 01, 2015 |
dominique: Most women on this thread are making "convenient excuses" for the woman, due to gender solidarity. If they want to be fair, they should make the same excuses for the man ... ...like the mother is a drug addict and has disappeared, leaving the baby helpless ..like the man is rich enough to care for four children so one extra makes no difference ...like if the woman can take care of her own 'four biological' child, why then cant she take care of her husbands single child? ...Like that child could be her fifth child afterall, she is still planning to have one more! ... like the man had discussed it with her and people have pleaded with her yet she was still headstrong! .. like what other options are open to the man when everyone has pleaded with this witch of a woman yet she wont budge? You see, l am sure some of you women are boiling right now and feel like using frying pan to scatter my head! That is exactly how all those "convenient excuses" you'all are making for the woman, sounds like. Agreed, the man misbehaved by philandering Agreed, the woman who bore the child should also bear responsibility Agreed, its never good to beat your wife ... but can we because of all the above reason, condemn an innocent two year old child who has no single responsibility in all the above, to homelessness, at that age.... when the child still has a father who has a house, other children and a family? Let us conduct a TRUE TEST of INTENTIONS HERE. ... and let us be honest about it because we are just chatting here. QUESTION: 1.) Let us imagine the child can speak and fight for itself and make choices; Would that child agree to be thrown out by the man's wife? 2.) If you were that child, what would be YOUR OWN decision/position? That the wife is right to throw you out of your fathers house ... or that she should take a chill afterall, nobody knows tomorrow? If you give yourself a honest answer, God will be your Judge in future. Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by lastpage: 2:34am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: Add "SELFISH and SELF-CENTRED" to that description too! When it suits them, its OKAy but when it doesn't, it is NOT OKAY! Funnily, some of them where in the shoes of this child, when they were kids! Lastpage! |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by lastpage: 2:44am On Oct 01, 2015 |
timilinda: WHAT KIND OF FOOLISH STATEMENT IS THIS? When you throw a child out of his father's house ... you have rejected him. If she does not want to have anything to do with the child, fine. No bathing, No feeding, not even a good morning smile,...FINE. But you cant ask a father, who knows 100% that a child is his, to throw the child away. That will be very inhuman on the part of the father! He would just be adding a worse crime, to his list of crimes What would such father tell that child in future, if the child survives? Child: Dad, why did you throw me on the streets when l needed you most? Father: My wife told me to do so ... because l was too pussy-whipped? The last man that took such silly decision (Abraham) is making everyone of us pay for his folly, till today. You wonder why those nut-job Muslims hate Christians? Its that shyte-head called Abraham who could not act like a real man, when occasion demands. No sacrifice is too great to do, for my own child. That is my own policy in life and ANYONE who does not like it, can take a walk! I will NEVER walk-out on my own child. ....Never, not even at the point of death Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by timilinda(f): 5:20am On Oct 01, 2015 |
lastpage: Pls where in d story was it mentioned that 'she threw d child out of its father's house'? (Pls go back n read d 7th 9th paragraghs) She merely asked him to RETURN D CHILD TO ITS MOTHER. It was also wrong for him to have taken a two-year old from bits mum on d grounds that she 'wznt caring for him properly' (which wz his opinion anyway). How then did she care for it from birth till it wz two? Y did he (d father) nt marry d woman n bring her to his home to cater for d child? Do u knw that d mother of that child could also sue him for kidnapping her child? What if she wakes up tomorrow n tells him d child wz nt really his, n DNA tests prove its nt? Do u think d law will still grant him custody of that child? Note: I believe we can discuss n counter posts without resorting to insults. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by timilinda(f): 5:27am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: Lol! |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 6:54am On Oct 01, 2015 |
This is exactly the reason why some step mothers treat their step children with so much contempt much less when the child is so young and a love child and when the father is around she starts pretending to care for the child this your gra gra method is going to affect the child because it is the child that is at the middle and the receiving end of the wahala some women will transfer the unresolved resentment the father did to her on the child and the child will grow up to be a nuisance except for the intervention of God how can you give a child to someone who is not happy with you much less the mother and expect the person to bring up the child in love. You will just successfully expose the child to so many dehumanising treatment and in your presence she will pretend and the child self esteem will be so dead that she will be afraid to report. Shiooorrr you need to ask yourself why God put your dick facing down and your brain inside your head facing up.it means that you are meant to think with your brain not your dick iPopAlomo: 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 7:00am On Oct 01, 2015 |
I feel the woman didn't make a wise decision. She should have kept quiet and allowed the man do whatever he wants. Take care of the child. When he grows up to an age of knowing his left from his right. Let's say like 9 or ten frustrate him to the extent that he will run away from home. At least if he runs away nobody will say it is your fault. You go dey siddon look lastpage: |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 7:07am On Oct 01, 2015 |
If the biological mother cannot take care of the child is it another woman that will take care of the child. Anyway I don't blame the mistress. In her mind she has seen the man doesn't respect his wife so she can dump his child on him and the wife will be doing free nanny services while she shake body, repackage herself and look for another man that his 3rd leg is doing the work of his brain, get pregnant for that one and dump the child somewhere again and continues like that on and on lastpage: 1 Like |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 7:23am On Oct 01, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Some step mothers... not all... which indirectly mean you agree some women would actually care for the child... step mothers like Tonto Dike's... is she not a human being...?! isn't she a woman...?! then you decide to show your woman wrapper side... I pray you end up with a woman like cococandy... you're bleeped... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 7:25am On Oct 01, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: if you end up in hell... I know why... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 7:33am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:if you are referring to the cococandy I know she's a very pleasant lady and deserves the best of the best men who knows what having regards for women means so to the matter tonto was never a love child. Her biological mother died and the father remarried. What's the big deal about that. So it was a different scenario entirely. The father informed the woman of his situation and she was cool with it.tonto wasn't forced on her step mother the difference is clear. Next 2 Likes |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 7:38am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:as the gate man of hell fire kindly give me a list of those in hell fire nonsense. Apart from even love child matter. Let's remove that out of the equation. Can you give your child to someone who you know has unresolved beef with you and hates you and the mother of the child and you can sleep peacefully knowing your child is in safe hands in your absence? No you too reason am . talk more of an angry woman who feels cheated 2 Likes |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 7:40am On Oct 01, 2015 |
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Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 7:45am On Oct 01, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: The same wife I married... Or another woman... unresolved beef and she's still living with me... guy get sense nah... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 7:49am On Oct 01, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: funny this came out from you... the same step mothers you bashed in previous post... if she wanted to act a b!tch... won't she...?! if she took your bleeped up suggestion... maltreated tonto till the point she ran away from home... who would stop her... some women reason better than you... and it's obvious all this sentiment is to get the attention of cococandy... Fucking woman wrapper... she's married... allegedly though... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 7:54am On Oct 01, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: see who I'm arguing with... when you get married... 30 years in... come back and edit this post... if nairaland still exist... nah your type God dey throw ashawo give... You love her... you married her... you found out she's my regular LovePeddler... let's see what you resulted too... fucking idiot... living behind the fantasy of a quote... do not quote me ever again... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by Aude(f): 8:03am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: I hope when your wife brings to your matrimonial home a child fathered by another man you will be understanding enough to take care of the child. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by Aude(f): 8:07am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: This is not an adopted child. This is a child borne out of the man's lack of self-control. See how useless your life is, promoting baby mamas over legitimate wives. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by treasuress: 8:13am On Oct 01, 2015 |
whirlwind7:I hate it when people try to get talk down on African traditions even under the customary law... If a man beats his wife... The family has the right to section the man..... Read things fall apart by China achiebe when they dragged the wife beater to the local court and also I study customary law don't paint our traditions evil 1 Like |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by Aude(f): 8:30am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: Your true colours are showing. I pity the woman who will make the mistake of getting married to you. Actually I pray you remain single because I wouldn't wish you to get married to my worse enemy. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 9:39am On Oct 01, 2015 |
I am done arguing with an air head. Happy independence day iPopAlomo: |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 9:46am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Mr man in getting wisdom get understanding tontos father was previously married to tontos mother before she died and then he remarried. Tonto was never a love child. She was not a product of a sexcapade or an unplanned quickie that resulted in pregnancy. She was born by 2parents in a home unfortunately the mother died and he remarried someone who was ready to accept and love his daughter BASED ON AGREEMENT.tonto wasn't dumped on her unexpectedly after several years of marriage THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE DO YOU UNDERSTAND ABI DOES YOUR BRAIN HAVE HOLES THAT IT IS UNABLE TO RETAIN INFORMATION NI? iPopAlomo: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 9:46am On Oct 01, 2015 |
Aude: you are confused... really confused... my house... my child... I can always bring my child in... there's no scenario change... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 9:52am On Oct 01, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: There's no way you can justify this statement... if you were Tonto Dike's step mom... I know what you would have done... quite quoting me... I don't roll with animals in human skin... even cococandy won't subscribe to this bullpoo you just wrote down without thinking... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 9:55am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:my dear ipop alomo.please pop CIMMON SENSE NA.it is free of charge. GOD gave us free. He didn't collect a dime from us that a woman is obviously saying she's not going to accept custody of the child and you beat her up to the level you don turn am to dense person do you think there's no LIKELIHOOD THAT SHE WILL NOT TRANSFER HER BEEF WITH YOU ON THE CHILD there are wicked step mothers and there are sweet step mothers but any wicked step mother you see is wicked because she is transferring the beef she has against either the mother of the child or the father as for trying to get cococandys attention I only have a soft spot for her brain and ways of reasoning nothing more. I know she doesn't have sexual attraction for me the same way I don't have for her 1 Like |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 9:57am On Oct 01, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: were you there when they signed an agreement... guy shut up... your brain is on reboot... common sense dictates she cares for her... another woman wouldn't... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 10:01am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:yes . The motive of frustrating him is that I have done enough free nanny service its time to leave home and go and look for your mother who is probably somewhere having a good time. ABI how will someone have sex, get pregnant, birth the child and is not ready to take care of the child. If you know that you still want to chop life unhindered then you use preventive measures not to get pregnant abi ewoni aye monkey dey work baboon dey chop. Shiorrr 1 Like |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by iPopAlomo(m): 10:11am On Oct 01, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Leave the husband... divorce no be option again... you is a b!tch ass nigga... dude lemme... I'm not gay abeg... |
Re: Man Batters Wife, Throws Her Out For Rejecting Custody Of Love Child (Pictured) by SAMBARRY: 10:13am On Oct 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:I don't have to be there before my common sense tels me tontos step mother knew he was once married with a child before she agreed to marry him and his child which is different from two individuals who married as spinster and bachelor with no child from anybody anywhere and all of a sudden in the middle of marriage they forcefully dump a child on you to take care of without any regards for her feelings like she's an emotionless and unfeeling log of wood 1 Like |
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