1) Mr Creepy (Approaching incorrectly)
This guy can’t stop a girl. He touches her from behind, walks with her, tries to grab her, or jumps too close in front of her. The girl doesn’t know what he wants and panics.
She’s thinking: Call the Police!
2) Mr Stalker (Too serious, lack of vibe)
This guy can stop a girl, compliment her and begin a conversation but it’s all way too serious. He forgets to smile, body language is stiff, and there’s no teasing or playfulness to the pick-up.
She’s thinking: Get me out of here!
3) Mr Clown (too gamey, too entertaining, too funny)
This guy has read every Pick-Up book out there. He loves his lines, his routines, his jokes and his peacocking. The girl is laughing so he thinks he’s winning.
She’s thinking: Is this guy a children’s entertainer?
4) Mr Speedy Gonzalez (Talks too quickly, gives off nervous energy)
Everything’s 100 miles an hour! This guy doesn’t believe that people will listen to what he’s got to say, so he says it quickly. His nervous energy is often then matched by the girl, and the interaction spins out of control.
She’s thinking: Why do I feel so agitated?
5) Mr Hairdresser (Asks too many mundane questions)
The most common mistake. This guy makes polite conversation by asking her questions: What are you up to today? Where are you from? Doing anything nice later? He’s asking her to do all the work and not displaying any of his personality.
She’s thinking: I feel like I’m being ...............
http://whatshappeningmag.net/the-top-10-mistakes-guys-make-when-they-approach-meet-and-talk-to-women/

Where do i even belong ?

Men honestly, I miss the days of "I love you talk your own". All this do wrong and do right when wooing a girl is overrated!.

number 5.