OK been dating my BAE faithfully, side chicks free for 2years now...few months ago she started this weird behavior of suspecting me, cos she said her friends says I am way too faithful DAT guys are not saints....so she should watch me closely, OK BAE started this new system of not calling if she wants to visit me, she just shows up, when I call her I am not coming home during nights shifts she goes ahead and call my colleagues at work to confirm if tru or not...have warned here several times....but she continues.... OK fast track to Sunday, I was home..and a female friend from church came visiting....entertained her and she left after 4hours...BAE came in an hour later, saw the juice cups covered with lips stick....but prior to her coming I change to new bed sheets as I cleaned up the house....BAE fummed that I entertained and had sex with someone, noticing I changed the sheets.....I was so angry and till now I asked her to just leave my house...now am just confused is this the kind of lady I now want to marry? Cos I have gone to see her folks already for wedding plans. Should I just continue marriage plans and just wait a little while longer

Shit her down and talk with her...cause she has been brainwasher..explain to her that ur not that kind of man.

igwemoagbo:
OK been dating my BAE faithfully, side chicks free for 2years now...few months ago she started this weird behavior of suspecting me, cos she said her friends says I am way too faithful DAT guys are not saints....so she should watch me closely, OK BAE started this new system of not calling if she wants to visit me, she just shows up, when I call her I am not coming home during nights shifts she goes ahead and call my colleagues at work to confirm if tru or not...have warned here several times....but she continues.... OK fast track to Sunday, I was home..and a female friend from church came visiting....entertained her and she left after 4hours...BAE came in an hour later, saw the juice cups covered with lips stick....but prior to her coming I change to new bed sheets as I cleaned up the house....BAE fummed that I entertained and had sex with someone, noticing I changed the sheets.....I was so angry and till now I asked her to just leave my house...now am just confused is this the kind of lady I now want to marry? Cos I have gone to see her folks already for wedding plans. Should I just continue marriage plans and just wait a little while longer

Forget it dear, My elder bro is interested in her already. Look for someone else

igwemoagbo:
OK been dating my BAE faithfully, side chicks free for 2years now...few months ago she started this weird behavior of suspecting me, cos she said her friends says I am way too faithful DAT guys are not saints....so she should watch me closely, OK BAE started this new system of not calling if she wants to visit me, she just shows up, when I call her I am not coming home during nights shifts she goes ahead and call my colleagues at work to confirm if tru or not...have warned here several times....but she continues.... OK fast track to Sunday, I was home..and a female friend from church came visiting....entertained her and she left after 4hours...BAE came in an hour later, saw the juice cups covered with lips stick....but prior to her coming I change to new bed sheets as I cleaned up the house....BAE fummed that I entertained and had sex with someone, noticing I changed the sheets.....I was so angry and till now I asked her to just leave my house...now am just confused is this the kind of lady I now want to marry? Cos I have gone to see her folks already for wedding plans. Should I just continue marriage plans and just wait a little while longer

Oga dis ur matter eh wear pant oooo.

She doesn't trust you and in my opinion it isn't good to take that kinda situation into a marriage. The foundation of a marriage should be based on love and mutual trust. You need to clear this up before you marry.... otherwise her jealousy might even excalate when you guys are married.

If all else fails, as a last resort you should try getting in touch with her parents. Maybe if you talk to her in the presence of her mum, she would understand the harm that the opinion of those friends is having on your relationship.

Her friends are enemies of progress. talk to her.

Behira:
Forget it dear, My elder bro is interested in her already. Look for someone else

Lol funny you

My dear don't blame her cos if am in her shoes am gonna behave that way too.. U don't xpct her to see a lipstick in a cup and the bed sheet changed and then she keeps quiet. Just sit her down and explain things to her

One of d very reasons why I broke up with her...

igwemoagbo:
OK been dating my BAE faithfully, side chicks free for 2years now...few months ago she started this weird behavior of suspecting me, cos she said her friends says I am way too faithful DAT guys are not saints....so she should watch me closely, OK BAE started this new system of not calling if she wants to visit me, she just shows up, when I call her I am not coming home during nights shifts she goes ahead and call my colleagues at work to confirm if tru or not...have warned here several times....but she continues.... OK fast track to Sunday, I was home..and a female friend from church came visiting....entertained her and she left after 4hours...BAE came in an hour later, saw the juice cups covered with lips stick....but prior to her coming I change to new bed sheets as I cleaned up the house....BAE fummed that I entertained and had sex with someone, noticing I changed the sheets.....I was so angry and till now I asked her to just leave my house...now am just confused is this the kind of lady I now want to marry? Cos I have gone to see her folks already for wedding plans. Should I just continue marriage plans and just wait a little while longer

which advise do you want us to give particularly

Just talk some sense into her bruv
I pray she listens sha

Just talk some sense into her bruv
I pray she listens sha
But if she continues dnt worry I ll give u my gf

Say the truth and the shall set you free. What else do you want her to think? Her mind is already biased. Lipstick on the cup and the bed is strangely and specially "tushed up". Haba.

The onus is on you to convince her otherwise. As such, you messed up big time by asking her to leave your house.

You fokt up gan an an.

Cc: Truckpusher



This is your turf

akinsal:

Oga dis ur matter eh wear pant oooo.

Ma nigga dun sell him right ontop toto.

Dem no born that girl well to barge into my house uninvited with no information to enable me arrange myself - Na from the door you dey March go back to ya house .

For what nau? Na so dem dey take start to put control for men head o.
Say no to an obsessive girlfriend abeg.

chimkaire:
Cc: Truckpusher



This is your turf

Op dey learn work nau.

I will simply do until she'll catch me and its left for her to decide , Op na dolo because - I personally don't care , if you monitor me you'll definietly find something and thank God for your life ,you've won an award .

Truckpusher:
Op dey learn work nau.

I will simply do until she'll catch me and its left for her to decide , Op na dolo because - I personally don't care , if you monitor me you'll definietly find something and thank God for your life ,you've won an award .

I just knew it