It's a Sunday I know but the intensity at which men pray and wish for "good" women today,is alarming..In time past,men and women alike have had their share of undeserved punishment from their partners,most common are the stories of women who have trusted so much in their lovers(mostly the ones who travel abroad to search greener pastures leaving promises of coming back to marry the lady) and ended up being disappointed,and men who have given so much for their relationship to work but the lady still walks away..

Stories of women who wait,who stay with their men through thick and thin,who sacrifice and are still sacrificing,still end up on sad notes

So lets talk,should women still continue to trust,love and wholeheartedly be good to men knowing that the end might not be the forever after kind?

I don't know what you want us to talk about.

Are Nigerian women really worth it? I doubt and don't ask me why

It's very simple. Even the Bible (and or the holy books) rightfully pointed this out; you cannot sow cocoyam and expect to reap yam. Nemo dat quod non habet - "No one gives what he does not have". And indeed, you cannot expect in return, what you can't (don't) give. This would be tantamount to the principle of fairness.

A 'good' man deserves an equally 'good' woman. And vise versa. And if you're not 'good', you don't deserve 'good'. It's not a one way thing, where you expect to be given without giving. It's more like a 'Give And Take'. Be good and do good so that you'll be done good to. Shikena!

#MyOwnTake
#MyHumbleOpinion

warrior01:
Are Nigerian women really worth it? I doubt and don't ask me why

What the hell are you saying? So Nigerian women ain't worth it? And Nigerian men are the ones that are worth it, huh? This is a very appalling and stale mentality that has eaten deep into the fabrics of our culture, and it's so so sickening. Like...very uncalled for and quite unbecoming of a 21st century civilized man. Tell me what the women of Nigeria do that the men do not do even more? #DoubleStandard

This very uncompromising generalization of our women is stale already. Let's talk about something else!

JoeCutie:
What the hell are guys saying? So Nigerian women ain't worth it? And Nigerian men are the ones that are worth it, huh? This is a very appalling and stale mentality that has eaten deep into the fabrics of our culture, and it's so so sickening. Like...very uncalled for and quite unbecoming of a 21st century civilized man. Tell me what the women of Nigeria do that the men do not do even more? #DoubleStandard

This very uncompromising generalization of our women is stale already. Let's talk about something else!

Are you done? It still doesn't stop the fact that thay ain't worth it. Maybe when you grow older you'll understand

JoeCutie:
What the hell are guys saying? So Nigerian women ain't worth it? And Nigerian men are the ones that are worth it, huh? This is a very appalling and stale mentality that has eaten deep into the fabrics of our culture, and it's so so sickening. Like...very uncalled for and quite unbecoming of a 21st century civilized man. Tell me what the women of Nigeria do that the men do not do even more? #DoubleStandard

This very uncompromising generalization of our women is stale already. Let's talk about something else!

Don't mind the hypocrite

#singing Celine dions song#


Dont you know that Love never ask why, it speaks from the heart


what a question. As you lay your bed so you will lie on it

kanwuliajara over to you


next

You are what you attract,if those women are true to themselves then they have nothing to worry about

Excuse me! Pls don't point fingers at the guys alone. wat abt girls who leave their guys for richer guys? even wen dey know the guy is a playboy.

warrior01:


Are you done? It still doesn't stop the fact that thay ain't worth it. Maybe when you grow older you'll understand

I would have spared a few minutes to say something to you, but having evaluated your brain capacity, you ain't worth those minutes.

Happy Sunday, bro.

JoeCutie:
I would have spared a few minutes to say something to you, but having evaluated your brain capacity, you ain't worth those minutes.

Happy Sunday, bro.

You're entitled to your opinion and so I am. Our experiences differ and I still maintain they ain't worth the stress

JoeCutie:
What the hell are you saying? So Nigerian women ain't worth it? And Nigerian men are the ones that are worth it, huh? This is a very appalling and stale mentality that has eaten deep into the fabrics of our culture, and it's so so sickening. Like...very uncalled for and quite unbecoming of a 21st century civilized man. Tell me what the women of Nigeria do that the men do not do even more? #DoubleStandard

This very uncompromising generalization of our women is stale already. Let's talk about something else!

From a sane, civilized, sensible, original, real, cute and 21st century humane gentleman. And who says all men are the same? You're one in a million.

I'm not really surprised. It's in you.

JoeCutie:
It's very simple. Even the Bible (and or the holy books) rightfully pointed this out; you cannot sow cocoyam and expect to reap yam. Nemo dat quod non habet - "No one gives what he does not have". And indeed, you cannot expect in return, what you can't (don't) give. This would be tantamount to the principle of fairness.

A 'good' man deserves an equally 'good' woman. And vise versa. And if you're not 'good', you don't deserve 'good'. It's not a one way thing, where you expect to be given without giving. It's more like a 'Give And Take'. Be good and do good so that you'll be done good to. Shikena!

#MyOwnTake
#MyHumbleOpinion

Absolutely spot on.

lilmax:
You are what you attract,if those women are true to themselves then they have nothing to worry about

I completely agree.

My husband deserves a great woman as a reward to his faithfulness to God .... and he got me; a wonderful woman.

If women were really true to themselves, some of them deserve the "bad men" they get. But I agree some women are just plain unlucky that the good man they married changed after time.

The moment both sexes realize that in Nigeria today everybody is looking to maximize benefits from relationships, the better for them. It's wise to just accept the reality and try not to put yourself in a position where you'll be on the losing side.

Hmmmm
Its not such a complex ish,just that we forget
Doing to others what we expect to be done to us...

What goes around,comes around.

Juliesexy:
From a sane, civilized, sensible, original, real, cute and 21st century humane gentleman. And who says all men are the same? You're one in a million.

I'm not really surprised. It's in you.

Only me? My belle ooh, my head ooh.


Thanks, sexy. I really appreciate. You need to see how I'm smiling here like a fool.

warrior01:


You're entitled to your opinion and so I am. Our experiences differ and I still maintain they ain't worth the stress

It's true though, you have every right to exercise your freedom of speech/expression. You're entitled to your opinion.

JoeCutie:
What the hell are you saying? So Nigerian women ain't worth it? And Nigerian men are the ones that are worth it, huh? This is a very appalling and stale mentality that has eaten deep into the fabrics of our culture, and it's so so sickening. Like...very uncalled for and quite unbecoming of a 21st century civilized man. Tell me what the women of Nigeria do that the men do not do even more? #DoubleStandard

This very uncompromising generalization of our women is stale already. Let's talk about something else!

....Spot on!!...Dont mind the hypocrites,badly behaved men expecting 'good and virtous woman' only in their dreams ofcourse ...Allow them to keep deceiving themselves.

JoeCutie:
It's very simple. Even the Bible (and or the holy books) rightfully pointed this out; you cannot sow cocoyam and expect to reap yam. Nemo dat quod non habet - "No one gives what he does not have". And indeed, you cannot expect in return, what you can't (don't) give. This would be tantamount to the principle of fairness.

A 'good' man deserves an equally 'good' woman. And vise versa. And if you're not 'good', you don't deserve 'good'. It's not a one way thing, where you expect to be given without giving. It's more like a 'Give And Take'. Be good and do good so that you'll be done good to. Shikena!

#MyOwnTake
#MyHumbleOpinion

Gbam!!! oya shake me!

Yes! There are still some decent men and women out there .....

montezz:

Gbam!!! oya shake me!

niboleyin wa latiojoyii ?

Ngokafor:








....Spot on!!...Dont mind the hypocrites,badly behaved men expecting 'good and virtous woman' only in their dreams ofcourse ...Allow them to keep deceiving themselves.

The double standard has been growing with impunity for a very long time that it has even almost attained the status of culture and tradition, and it's very bad. We need to speak up against it, condemn it in it's entirety and of course, correct these abnormalities. Thanks, ma'am.

montezz:

Gbam!!! oya shake me!

Nah! I don't shake ladies. I hug 'em.

Thanks tho.

Tit for tat

An Eye for an Eye



Good Lady for Good Guy:



Bad lady for Bad Guy.



And if it went otherwise, I think Karma still exist the last time I check.

Aminat508:
niboleyin wa latiojoyii ?

lol....e e ni binu ni o. won ji phone mi lo ni o. se e wapa? e ku ojo 3

JoeCutie:
Nah! I don't shake ladies. I hug 'em.

Thanks tho.

awwwwww!

Are the women of today, worth the men of today? Yes, they are. The world has been denigrated to a point where abnormal things are seen as normal. An unmarried lady can leave her father's house and go to a man's house to spend days and nights, doing what? Really, the only reason men see women in a certain light, is because women have put themselves in that light. Nobody deserves a bad person, but the women are no angels themselves

montezz:

awwwwww!

*hugs*

daisyella:

Don't mind the hypocrite

It's annoying, you know...

The term "Good Women" is an overrated word folks throw around to qualify females with a little bit of innocence, till they get caught up in the matrix and start showing their true colours.

There are no "good women" out there these days (they probably used to exist during medieval times, who knows?), just good/semi-permanent pums, with a little bit of loyalty depending of what choices they've in real time. So to even start asking a question about if men are worthy of a non-existing classification is utter ridiculous and disrespectful to men.

The question should be: are women worthy of the respect they get from some men today?