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How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Igwe9(m): 2:50pm On Apr 26, 2009
Hey guys!
How can we overcome loneliness when we have our life partner  living in another city or country? smiley
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by whitesturd(f): 4:16pm On Apr 26, 2009
simple.u ve 2 alternatives.1)start readin ur bible as u wud be led by the holy spirit not to do anything funny and keep ursef.
2)start phockin all da girls startin 4rm ur area.by d time ur gifrfriend is back,i promise u,ur name wd ve entered guiness book of records.the choice is urs.i pray u pick well
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by IFELEKE(m): 4:39pm On Apr 26, 2009
Occupy yourself/Time in meaningful activities, Lonliness is a function of Idleness and an Idle mind is the devil's workshop.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Igwe9(m): 5:23pm On Apr 26, 2009
whitesturd:

simple.u ve 2 alternatives.1)start readin ur bible as u wud be led by the holy spirit not to do anything funny and keep ursef.
2)start phockin all da girls startin 4rm ur area.by d time ur gifrfriend is back,i promise u,ur name wd ve entered guiness book of records.the choice is urs.i pray u pick well

Are you talking from experience?

@IFELEKE
I heard that ''all work without play makes jack a dull boy''. . . . . . . how do we strike a balance?
thank you smiley smiley smiley
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by whitesturd(f): 5:30pm On Apr 26, 2009
so which one are u picking?
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Igwe9(m): 5:36pm On Apr 26, 2009
As a christian or Muslim ?
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by IFELEKE(m): 5:43pm On Apr 26, 2009
Igwe.:


@IFELEKE
I heard that ''all work without play makes jack a dull boy''. . . . . . . how do we strike a balance?
thank you smiley smiley smiley
Sure all work no play makes jack a dull boy but there are many ways to play aside towing the way of infidelity and am sure you know that.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by ladybam(f): 5:46pm On Apr 26, 2009
Igwe.:

Hey guys!
How can we overcome loneliness when we have our life partner  living in another city or country? smiley

my bf is far far away. but i'm learning to deal wid it
i dont no now, but so so
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by whitesturd(f): 5:50pm On Apr 26, 2009
Igwe,As xtian,muslim,WHATEVER
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by MaiSuya(m): 5:51pm On Apr 26, 2009
kai! its not easy, gaskiya! As for me, I dey kano, my babe dey Lag. . . . sometimes temptation can be verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry strong. . . .  embarassed embarassed

Lord lead me not into temptation!
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by whitesturd(f): 5:53pm On Apr 26, 2009
lady bam.dnt worry.God wld help u in dealing with it.it is well
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by yme1(f): 5:54pm On Apr 26, 2009
amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Igwe9(m): 5:57pm On Apr 26, 2009
Is no easy ooooooo!  . I wish Chelsea and Man u  go dey get match every time. cry cry grin grin
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Czarskit(m): 6:52pm On Apr 26, 2009
~ Movies, Music, Books, Hanging Out with friends, Marijuana, Cocaine, Alcohol & a lot of Sleep ~
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Igwe9(m): 7:39pm On Apr 26, 2009
I'm back, men! e no easy oooooh. thank God tomorrow is monday smiley smiley smiley

Getting used to new life!!!!!!!!! grin grin
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by kiethatela: 8:51am On Jun 24, 2009
Divert your self to some other productive activities. Don't just sit down and relax, keep your mind busy and keep going. Loneliness will invisibly cease. Be positive. I also read some articles that helped me overcome my loneliness,  You can try this one out, maybe this might help you too. http://www.solutionbay.org/problems/loneliness , God Bless!
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by izeek(m): 8:55am On Jun 24, 2009
Czarskit:

~ Movies, Music, Books, Hanging Out with friends, Marijuana, Cocaine, Alcohol & a lot of Sleep ~

like they compare to the real deal.

men i look forward to weekends like hell.
sometimes self this work dey vexperson.lol
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Igwe9(m): 10:59am On Jun 24, 2009
I'm missing you dearly, my sweetest of them sweeties cry cry
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by xynerio(m): 11:46am On Jun 24, 2009
If u are workin u cannot do anything stupid at work abi u dey jobless. When u reach house watch some cartoons then do some exercise before u know it night don reach read ur bible u go from there dose off. Note: dont watch romantic movies cos u will end up sexin u neighbour.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by whitelexi(m): 11:54am On Jun 24, 2009
A woman's place is by her husband side, what r u doing languishing in loneliness?
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by izeek(m): 11:59am On Jun 24, 2009
xynerio:

If u are workin u cannot do anything stupid at work abi u dey jobless. When u reach house watch some cartoons then do some exercise before u know it night don reach read ur bible u go from there dose off. Note: dont watch romantic movies cos u will end up sexin u neighbour.

seriously where did u grow up, cos i know how enviroment can affect a man's upbringing.
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by luxoire(f): 12:03pm On Jun 24, 2009
NL
friends
games
books
music

these kept me occupied when he was away on business for a while - lol - yes the madness on NL kept me laughing and typing eveyr evening after work till me bed time
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by tmontana(m): 3:11pm On Jun 24, 2009
Get yourself a PES3 and stop whining,
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jun 24, 2009
u can overcome loneliness in a lotta ways,remove yo mind from anything sexual,make ur mind blank and blind to sex and lust,theres a feeling u can derives from keeping ur body to yo partner a special kind of joy, untill she walks into ur life again from wherever she been to, instead focus ur mind on pure friendship and meditates on ur future and obligation as a living beign, asalemaleku,
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Igwe9(m): 7:47pm On Jun 29, 2009
wow!  . . . . .Atimes when in a midst of dem beautiful chicks, it feels like grabbing one of them by the waist or kinda hugging and kissing thing,  undecided

You know what I mean? stepping down the car all alone, sad
Feeling like talking to somebody at night. sad

Now what do say about this?  Waking up in the morning without her by your side. sad

You wanna know more?
OOOOOOOOh! Seeing dem couples hugging and holding themselves in your presence, now holding the next sisi by your side won't be a bad idea, but  Nope! the more you think of it , the more her memories hunt you and you began to feel guilty of the crime you 've not yet committed. cheesy

hmm! Funny how love can be!  : cry smiley
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by coolfaced8(f): 10:00pm On Jun 29, 2009
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Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by 190: 11:04pm On Jun 29, 2009
cry cry see what lonelines has done 2 igwe
hes goin haywire!
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Enockia(m): 12:27am On Jun 30, 2009
give urself work to do
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by mamagee3(f): 1:18am On Jun 30, 2009
Getting a job. grin
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Igwe9(m): 8:22am On Jun 30, 2009
Enockia:

give urself work to do
Ain't saying idle mehn!

mama-gee:

Getting a job. grin

How many hours do you work in a day?
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Taken(m): 8:27am On Jun 30, 2009
@ Igwe

1. Do whatever it takes to join your partner.
2. If you can not join your partner as quickly as possible, connect with him over the phone and be creative while at it such as phone intimacy and stuff.
3. Find things to do.
4. If all fails, may God helps you then!
Re: How Do We Overcome Loneliness? by Igwe9(m): 10:40am On Jun 30, 2009
Taken:

@ Igwe

1. Do whatever it takes to join your partner.
2. If you can not join your partner as quickly as possible, connect with him over the phone and be creative while at it such as phone intimacy and stuff.
3. Find things to do.
4. If all fails, may God helps you then!

Hey!
The bolded portion kept me wondering, cheesy whilst it is not possible to join her in school cool everything is not sex, moreover, it could be risky when one got stuck in the middle of it, out of network failure. cheesy

Yeah! God will surely help moi!

coolfaced8:

I just can't stop laughing about your comment on "feeling guilty of the crime you've not yet committed" grin grin grin grin grin grin

Thank God there is no earthly Jury that can convict one of this type of crime. If there's a court here on earth for this crime, how many will stand?

The truth is, it's not easy at all! It seems when one is single and prolly not looking, you cope well. But for some reason when there's someone you care for, you begin to see all the things couples do. And being far away from each other is simply killing!

Perhabs, you should start planning right now to see all possible ways you can eliminate the distance, so you will not be found guilty of the crime that you may eventually commit! wink
Lol @coolfaced8, she will soon be through with the course she's gone for.

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