Finding The Love Of Your Life:

Why do some individuals choose their "lifelong" partners so poorly? Because they have received almost no instruction about how to do it well. And how in the world are you supposed to make such a brilliant choice whien you have been "coached" so little?

So much of the coaching that does exist is outrageously superficial and ultimately destructive. For instance, a book I read examines the techniques of manipulation. You will learn how to manipulate others, and how to prevent others from manipulating you. It tells Women "the 20 places to look for a Man", how "criticisms can make him fall in love with you", and how to develop their own "sales pitch". This book claims to "guide you to the altar - regardless of your looks, your past, your age!"

Our society - specifically, television and the movie industry - teaches people to rely almost exclusively on their "natural instincts" when choosing a mate. But romantic feelings, those seemingly trustworthy emotions, offer almost nothing of substance when it comes to making a wise choice about a potential marriage partner. In fact, they frequently get in the way.

But here's the good news: Choosing a marriage partner successfully is a skill you can develop!

You can make a wise decision about the person you marry. Great marriages are possible if you select a great mate, and this selection is never the consequence of luck or laziness. It is the reward given to those who follow carefully formulated principles. If you know these principles up front and learn to practice them conscientiously, you can significantly increase the probability of having a great marriage. But if you count on luck and chance - or passion and romance - there is better than 50% probability that your marriage will be disappointing, if not excruciatingly painful,

In Nairaland forum on this topic, we will discuss 10 principles for choosing the right marriage partner and evaluate them one after the other. I sincerely encourage you to participate fully in this discussion so that together we will help each other build successful homes, to the admiration of the world at large.

See you soon guys,

Yes, the skill involved is to make sure you prepare, financially, physically, emotionally and spiritually. More importantly, you should b disciplined enough to know the kind of person you desire.

Advisably, you jot down the qualities you desie in your suposed love, and go all out to find he/she who possese such qualities.

To me, the easiest way to do so is to seek THE ONE who made your better half!

Yes, I think I agree with the notion that mate selection requires skill. You have to know what to look for!

yes - depends how long the man's prick is during elaborate coitus action.

Jay_Baby:

yes - depends how long the man's prick is during elaborate coitus action.

now that's really gross.

Can you make a list of the skills involved.

@ kaycee.k. - wetin u de smoke? since October u've posted this thing and u haven't been bk since! I beg hurry up and start with the No.1 principle jare!

In Nairaland forum on this topic, we will discuss 10 principles for choosing the right marriage partner and evaluate them one after the other

so where's the rest of the topic?