Wow! wow! Women will never seize to amaze you.
This woman is a HIV/AIDS patient who is on anti-retroviral drugs. Although, her husband has being medically affirmed as being negative.
With the love and fear of God in him, he refuse parting ways with his wife even in her condition. What he did is that, He uses condom for sexual intercourse regularly with his wife. (how many of you will do that?)
what did he get in return? His wife, who is HIV/AIDS positive in return, indulged in a relationship with a man who is also HIV/AIDS positive in the same community. After three months, she got pregnant for her lover.
Here she is, in the clinic for abortion, but the doctor say no it won't be possible.
How will she stand and tell her husband that she is pregnant? Knowing very well that the pregnancy is out of wedlock. All she need now is advice on how to let her husband know or should she leave it to become an open secret?
Should she marry the man who impregnated her? (that will be betrayal to her loving husband)
if you are in the husband's shoes, what will you do if you find out this?
Thanks for your contributions.

Fa fa fa fowl!
In Zebrudaya Okorigwe Nwobodo's voice.

What wickedness

christinie:
Fa fa fa fowl!
In Zebrudaya Okorigwe Nwobodo's voice.

meaning??

Oga health worker, keep the secret/status of your patients to the four walls of the clinic.

The woman want a baby,

Sexual intercourse with condom won't give babies. The woman has done nothing wrong.

All blames should be directed to the "caring" ignorant husband.

u de craze

Acidosis:
The woman want a baby,

Sexual intercourse with condom won't give babies. The woman has done nothing wrong.

All blames should be directed to the "caring" ignorant husband.

Indomie kid. Ask your big sister.

Fmartin:
meaning??

Sijo01:
Oga health worker, keep the secret/status of your patients to the four walls of the clinic.

Mr person the woman in question need advice not only from the clinic. Get dat?

Acidosis:
The woman want a baby,

Sexual intercourse with condom won't give babies. The woman has done nothing wrong.

All blames should be directed to the "caring" ignorant husband.

A very valid point here.

Health worker, in the course of your counselling these couple would've been educated on how to make conception possible.
How did you know that her cheating partner is positive?

I can't wrap my head around any advice , the situation is too dicey abeg.

these hoes will never be loyal..... I really feel for the husband..... She should tell her husband the truth and let him decide what to do. Am sure that man will even accept that baby as his own.

Acidosis:
The woman want a baby,

Sexual intercourse with condom won't give babies. The woman has done nothing wrong.

All blames should be directed to the "caring" ignorant husband.

what the hell are u talking abt? If she wants a baby, arent there hospitals where her husband's sperms could be transferred to her womb? She is an ungrateful hoe. Simple.

She should tell the man.
That's what I'd do if I was her.
That will even be a valid reason for him to walk away. At least he won't feel obligated to keep staying with her.

They should See it as a kind of solution.
The two HIV positive lovers can raise their baby while he moves on and stops living in fear of getting it from her one day.

Sijo01:
Oga health worker, keep the secret/status of your patients to the four walls of the clinic.

dnt mind that quack health care officer

Permit me not to answer the question but rather to say something on the issue of pregnancy among HIV positive women.

If a woman is HIV-positive and her male partner is HIV negative and she wants to get pregnant, there are "low-tech" and "high-tech" approaches.
A safe and "low-tech" method is to do home insemination using her partner's semen and a needleless syringe, timed with her ovulation. By this method, her partner has no possible exposure to HIV. A more "high-tech" version of this approach is to use either intracervical or intrauterine insemination. For this, she would need the assistance of a fertility clinic.

Approaches that involve unprotected intercourse between the partners are riskier as far as HIV transmission is concerned.
Some strategies significantly reduce the likelihood of infection but are not 100% reliable; transmission sometimes (though rarely) may occur.

The following approach can be considered, though it has not been studied thoroughly in the context of trying to conceive a baby, and currently it is not recommended.

The HIV-positive woman is advised to continuously take anti-HIV drugs and until she has an undetectable viral load; this greatly reduces the risk of infecting her partner. The HIV-negative male partner also takes HIV medications as prophylaxis to reduce his risk of infection with HIV, beginning in advance of attempts at conception and continuing afterward (this is called pre-exposure prophylaxis or PrEP). The couple then has unprotected sex limited to the time the woman is ovulating (this reduces the number of times they have unprotected sex and thus lowers the risk of HIV transmission).

HIV-positive women who become pregnant, regardless of the method, should seek prenatal care, as early in the pregnancy as possible, in a program with experts in preventing HIV transmission during pregnancy or at birth.

The above information which I have provided is for the purpose of enlightenment. Always consult your doctor before you make any decision.