I thought I should share this
As I waited in the departure lounge of a local airport, I noticed there were many children about but it was understandable since it was summer holiday. One other thing I noticed was the way most of the children were dressed. Most of them, especially the girls, were dressed in bum shorts, halter necks, cut off jeans, etc. The clothes in themselves weren't the issue per se; it was the overall look of the children that had me bothered. That was definitely not the first time I noticed it. A few months before, I had taken my kids to a birthday party and found myself in what could easily have been a night club for kids. Scanty clothing such as tight or very short clothes, bum shorts, long weaves, etc, seemed to be the dress code. I noticed my daughter glancing around her, probably wondering, "What in God's world are these other children wearing?" Or something like that. Not long after, the kids were called out to dance to the hit songs of the season - these songs in my opinion should be rated PG 13. 4-6 year olds trooped to the dance floor, miming the sexually explicit songs and gyrating their bodies in the most sensual manner. They could have given Beyonce a run for her money. They ran their hands over their bodies, shook their booties hard while their parents cheered them on. The boys had their upper shirts unbuttoned and rapped along perfectly to gangsta raps while doing flawless break dance. Those who danced like actual children where shooed off the dance floor while the lewd ones were cheered on. As I watched, my child stared out of this circle looking longingly at the others dancing. I knew it was time to leave. As we left, we went to a eatery where I bought them ice cream and gently explained to them the concept of decency and dancing with decorum. Another time, at a game arcade for kids, I ran into a lady who had made-up her kids' faces like they were mannequins for Tara or Mac beauty products. Their skirts were so tight, that running up and down the slide was uncomfortable for them. So the question is, why are we sexualizing our kids? Why does your 4, 6 or 9 year old girl have to look like a chick? Why does she have to be hot or sexy? Should your 8 year old son go around with a comb in his hair and his pants sagged almost to his ankles? If your child wears bum shorts out of the house at age 3, why should she be expected to wear longer ones at 15? If she wears 2 rings and 12 bangles at 6, why won't she pierce a second ear hole at 17 and her bellybutton at 19? Why won't your son pierce his own ear at 15? Are you setting your children up to be immodest and indecent? What trend are you starting them on? That all these are fashionable or trendy doesn't mean it's ok. Some parents even dress their children like this to church. Church! What are you teaching the child? What happened to children wearing dresses to church? Children can look very nice and decent, they can be well covered and still look good. In this age, when children are being abused, is it wise to make your child an object of anyone's sexual attention? When I hear some children belt out sexually explicit lyrics, I ask myself how they became exposed to this songs! As a parent, you can't play the CD of such songs and not expect your children to pick them up; the same goes for watching Mtv Base, Channel O, etc with your children. Studies have shown that children exposed to a high level of sexually explicit information tend to become sexually active early. Is that your goal as a parent? Being a Parent involves sacrifice. You will need to avoid listening to such music where your children are. Most of those lyrics demean women and teach your daughter that she's just a intimacy gadget and her body is for squeezing. It teaches the boys that money is everything and women are things to be used to satisfy their primal urges. These music introduces them to a degrading pop culture. Our children have their lives ahead of them, let's set them on the right path by teaching them to dress decently and sing nice or age-appropriate songs. Let your children be children. Train up a child in the way that s/he should go and when s/he is old, s/he would not depart from it. Do you agree that children are unnecessarily exposed to sexually explicit elements? Is it possible that some parents are victims themselves or is it that they don't know any better? Written by Oluseye Igbafe - http://oluseyeigbafe.bl ogspot.com.ng/2015/09/sexualization-of-children.html

God bles this writer. We r all too quick to blame goverment & churches for the failures of evry aspect of our life 4getting that it all started from our homes.
pity!
i dont expect this to make front page either: its part of what we r talking about. cos its not a story on lynda ikeji's house.

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what baffles me the most is the fact that one can't correct another's child in today's society. if you do,just wait for the insult that can last you a life time from the parent of that child.

glimpse:
what baffles me the most is the fact that one can't correct another's child in today's society. if you do,just wait for the insult that can last you a life time from the parent of that child.

lol . why should you correct another person's child. My dear you will regret not minding your business if you try correcting another person's child


Recently a 3 year old child ran towards the express because the mothers mind was carried away to God knows where while on the que at the atm stand and of course every one minded their business. Thank God the car the child ran into wasn't speeding.the annoying part of it is that it's the sweet he saw that attracted him and obviously people looked away

Decency remains the watch word!! I cringe when i see kids dance like the dancers in Channel O and MTV with their mums hailing them!! I get so embarrassed!! parents especially mums has really lost it. spoiling the child is now trending

SAMBARRY:
Hmnnn

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Nothing is wrong with the dressing of these kids.

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This is the type thread that ought to make front page...
Cc... lalasticlala

Thr is nothing wrong with those clothes... And my advice goes to modern mums of nowadays, pls discipline ur children!

What is wrong in a clothing? Westerners been walking with barely a cloth and they dont languish in poverty
Dint the colonialist introducd clothing

Nig pliz, our ancestors walked with body parts showing, hypocrisy of the highest order