My neibour's husband wants to divorce her because she went to the bar last friday alone without telling him, now even though she just visited to clear her head and thinking and have fun with some of her friends, the husband has refuse to talk to her for days now because he believes she is cheating on him. "now my question now is this: is there anything wrong for a married woman to visit the bar without her husband? "cc lalasticlala

Forget this talk about equality and the likes.

It is wrong.

If she wants to clear her head, she should take a walk to a park.

sweetorgasms:
My neibour's husband wants to divorce her because she went to the bar last friday alone without telling him, now even though she just visited to clear her head and thinking and have fun with some of her friends, the husband has refuse to talk to her for days now because he believes she is cheating on him. "now my question now is this: is there anything wrong for a married woman to visit the bar without her husband? "cc lalasticlala

There are plenty things wrong with this. A woman in a committed relationship should inform her partner of things like this.
I cannot say if she's cheating or not. I think both of them have to sit down and talk this out.

Her husband refusing to speak to her will not help matters at all.

Its wrong but I don't think its enough reason to want a divorce

He is not serious, why him no carry am go

sweetorgasms:
My neibour's husband wants to divorce her because she went to the bar last friday alone without telling him, now even though she just visited to CLEAR HER HEAD and thinking and have fun with some of her friends, the husband has refuse to talk to her for days now because he believes she is cheating on him. "now my question now is this: is there anything wrong for a married woman to visit the bar without her husband? "cc lalasticlala

@ CLEAR HER HEAD, dat got me laffing aswear. Y she no comot her Weavon for house since she WAN CLEAR HER HEAD??

I will do the same

This op , complete amebo! Wetin concern U?


Ok, even if dem invite u for the matter, Shey the couple concerned no get elders for them respective family wey fit sort things out for them? For in fact, I do feel there is more to this matter than that pardonable act of chicking out with friends the lady indulged.

Story for the gods. . So it's now a crime to go to a bar right?

He's found another girl, simple!

If this could lead to a divorce, then he neva start. He think sey marriage na beans.. Am not saying the wife is right but this shouldn't lead to divorce naa.. Who knows what the man did to her that made her wanna clear her head, of all places, im come be bar .. Forget ooh, Marriage no be bed of roses.. Fight go dey, Love go dey.. It's just a matter of understanding each other

She went to clear her head & thinking without telling him, which makes me suspect that they weren't talking even then. He probably was in a sulking mood even on that day, hence she just left without saying a word. Your neighbour needs to communicate more with his wife instead of employing the silent treatment to "voice" his grievances. It doesn't work, it's juvenile & it's emotionally draining. Communication is key. Heck, I'd go out & drink too if I lived with an incredible sulk, at least the people at the bar will talk.

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lurlah2014:
He is not serious, why him no carry am go

wht are u sayin,Did the woman ask her husband to talk her to bar?

He is not serious, why himself no carry am go

Dojupyo:
If this could lead to a divorce, then he neva start. He think sey marriage na beans.. Am not saying the wife is right but this shouldn't lead to divorce naa.. Who knows what the man did to her that made her wanna clear her head, of all places, im come be bar .. Forget ooh, Marriage no be bed of roses.. Fight go dey, Love go dey.. It's just a matter of understanding each other

hmmm i like this your comment

PunkyVeer:
She went to clear her head & thinking without telling him, which makes me suspect that they weren't talking even then. He probably was in a sulking mood even on that day, hence she just left without saying a word. Your neighbour needs to communicate more with his wife instead of employing the silent treatment to "voice" his grievances. It doesn't work, it's juvenile & it's emotionally draining. Communication is key. Heck, I'd go out & drink too if I lived with an incredible sulk, at least the people at the bar will talk.

hmm i think ure right

If that Nigga can give positive answers to dz questions He should go ahead with the divorce but if he cant he should go back to his wife and show her more love instead of causing her more hrtache:

1. the friends she went to hang out with in d bar, r dey married or single?

2. Has he warned her to stay away from anyone of dem or all , if no? he should go back and take care of his Babe ooo.

3. was dia any disagreement between dem dt led to her goin to d bar alone?

4. Has she been acting funny few days before she committed d act? if no, he should forget about all dt hapened & continue wid d relationship.

Op, tell him to tk care of his wife nd forget about divorce or someone else will.

On a serious note, she no really try sha if she no true true tell her husband before she commot for house!

He should give her the "last warning"!

If she is caught "wanting" again, then he can go ahead to take whatever action he feels like!

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