I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

If you want an angel, create a heaven. Give them the enabling ground to love n care. Don't present yourself to be needy, everybody craves for it.


In essence, go OUT of your ways to care for them and be surprise at what you get in return.


The golden rule: Do unto others....

okay... I love you, and I trust you too. do you feel better now??

Paulpaulpaul:
If you want an angel, create a heaven. Give them the enabling ground to love n care. Don't present yourself to be needy, everybody craves for it.


In essence, go OUT of your ways to care for them and be surprise at what you get in return.


The golden rule: Do unto others....

Hmmm....every little way I have I care for dem, show dem how much dey mean to me but dey don't seem to appreciate it

trapQ:
okay... I love you, and I trust you too.
do you feel better now??

Itzjoy:
Hmmm....every little way I have I care for dem, show dem how much dey mean to me but dey don't seem to appreciate it

Do more, more and more. You never can tell what they are passing through and hiding it to make you happy. Someone very close to me was had breast cancer and was hiding it just to make me feel she is and will always be there.


I'm still battling with myself for being so mean all the while.


In another way, Can I send you a pm?

Paulpaulpaul:


Do more, more and more. You never can tell what they are passing through and hiding it to make you happy. Someone very close to me was had breast cancer and was hiding it just to make me feel she is and will always be there.


I'm still battling with myself for being so mean all the while.


In another way, Can I send you a pm?

Oh I'm speechless........ yeah, sure

Itzjoy:
I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

People like you give very little but want so much back. how much have you shown those other people that you love them in practical terms and they didn't reciprocate?

Itzjoy:
I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

Don't ever think that anybody hates you,the first thing is to love yourself.There is also the need to check yourself,are you doing things that makes people maltreat you,remember you have to do unto others what you want them to do you.

Itzjoy:
I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

so how is your family treating u

You sound like a teenager to me because that's the period of life where there's both internal and external turmoil; You don't understand yourself and no one understands you. You crave for love and acceptance but your family just complains about everything you do. That's because they don't know how to relate with a teenager.

I advise you to get a teenage worker of the same sex with you, someone who understands teenage idiosyncrasies. such a person will help you to handle yourself.

Picshure of people treating u like a stranger or adonbelivit

socrateez:
You sound like a teenager to me because that's the period of life where there's both internal and external turmoil; You don't understand yourself and no one understands you. You crave for love and acceptance but your family just complains about everything you do. That's because they don't know how to relate with a teenager.

I advise you to get a teenage worker of the same sex with you, someone who understands teenage idiosyncrasies. such a person will help you to handle yourself.

Hmmm

socrateez:
You sound like a teenager to me because that's the period of life where there's both internal and external turmoil; You don't understand yourself and no one understands you. You crave for love and acceptance but your family just complains about everything you do. That's because they don't know how to relate with a teenager.

I advise you to get a teenage worker of the same sex with you, someone who understands teenage idiosyncrasies. such a person will help you to handle yourself.

Hmmm

Itzjoy:
I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

Well, since ur family is involved, then u need to ask yourself some questions. Maybe,u expect too much from people but u give little or nothing to people. If u are selfless and generally good, u really wouldn't ask to be loved even by your own family. Bottom line? U re simply weird and u know it.





Fix yourself.

Itzjoy:
Hmmm....every little way I have I care for dem, show dem how much dey mean to me but dey don't seem to appreciate it

"Every little way" ? Have u ever tried to see if they are trying to care or love u in their own little way? Like I said earlier, u give little or nothing but expect much more from people. It can never work like that.