Pls read..no matter ow long..isn't that long thou


STOP LETTING PEOPLE DO THESE
THINGS TO YOU . . .
ALWAYS COMPLAIN
When someone is complaining they are stuck in a “woe
is me” mentality and can’t contribute to your
relationship in a positive way. Allow them to vent but
make sure they are taking action to move beyond the
complaint.
GIVE BACKHANDED COMPLIMENTS
You know the kind the kind that sound like they should
be a compliment but don’t make you feel like you were
just complimented? Stop them and ask for real, genuine
compliments when deserved.
BE TOO NEEDY
If they run to you for help with their simplest tasks,
they are robbing you of time. It might seem like it is a
good thing to be needed but there must be a balance.
DEMAND ALL YOUR TIME
It may seem cute at first to have someone want to
spend every waking moment with you, but the demand
for your time should subside after the “honeymoon”
phase. If it doesn’t, you may have bigger problems on
your hands.
DISAPPROVE OF YOUR OTHER FRIENDS
If they are finding things wrong with your other friends
in the hopes you will give them up, you will never be
able to grow your social support network. Their
disapproval is not your problem.
ASK YOU TO CHOOSE THEM OVER YOUR
FAMILY
They are seeking validation when they ask you to
choose them over your family. Someone who truly
cares about you should know how important your
family is and the bonds you’ve shared over a lifetime.
EXPECT YOU TO DO ALL THE
COMPROMISING
A relationship is all about compromising but when you
are the only person comprising there is bound to be
trouble.
PICK FIGHTS
Most people don’t like to live in a constant state of
arguing, and those that do are doing so as a form of
control. You deserve better than to subject yourself to
constant bickering and negativity.
MAKE YOU LESS THAN A PRIORITY
When everything and everyone else takes priority over
you, then you need to stand up for yourself.
HAVE NO FAITH IN YOU
Relationships are built on trust. Without trust, there is
no relationship.
AVOID SHARING THEIR FEELINGS
It is impossible to grow a relationship without becoming
a bit vulnerable and opening up and sharing how you
feel. Be concerned if your partner isn’t emotionally
available to you.
CONSTANTLY BRING UP THE PAST
There is no good that comes from constantly bringing
up past mistakes. You will just end up resenting the
person in the end.
KEEP TRACK OF YOUR EVERY MOVE
Just because someone wants to know everything about
you doesn’t mean they should. They should respect you
enough to allow you to live your life and be okay with
the fact that you have a life outside your relationship.
BE UNKIND TO YOU AND OTHERS
You deserve to be around people that have the ability
to be kind. It’s as simple as that.
HAVE UNUSUALLY HIGH EXPECTATIONS
It is one thing to have high expectations for yourself
but to impose those expectations on others is not
acceptable. If you feel like you can’t measure up then,
the relationship isn’t serving you.
ALWAYS FIND FAULT WITH YOUR
ACTIONS
If you feel like you can’t do anything right, then
chances are you never will. Truly supportive
relationships don’t place blame.
BE OVEREAGER TO PLEASE
When someone is overeager to please, they are
seeking validation from an outside source. That person
is not emotionally stable enough to be in relationship
with you.
DISCOUNT YOUR DREAMS.
You must surround yourself with people who believe in
your dreams, or you will have a hard time achieving
them.
BLAME YOU FOR WHAT GOES WRONG IN
THEIR LIFE
Accepting responsibility for what happens in your life is
an important part of being in a thriving relationship.
Don’t allow someone else to shift the blame onto you.
MAKE YOU FEEL ASHAMED OR
EMBARRASSED
If someone embarrasses you or makes you feel
ashamed of something, they are more focused on
covering up their part than supporting you through it.
MANIPULATE YOU
When someone uses emotion or other “carrots” to get
you to do something you don’t feel good about doing,
they are using your love to manipulate you.
BE LAZY
If you are the one that does all the work, then it isn’t a
real partnership is it?
“REWRITE HISTORY” TO MAKE YOU LOOK
BAD
They selectively remember events to make them look
good, and you look bad. Make sure and correct their
version of history and move on.
USE VEILED THREATS
No good can come from a threat, even when done
nicely. Partners do not threaten, they discuss and
compromise.
NOT FORGIVE
If they are holding onto past actions and refuse to let
them go, they are in essence letting go of the
relationship instead.
Bottom line: trust your inner voice. If something
doesn’t feel quite right, then it probably isn’t, and it’s
time to stick up for yourself. ..

hmmnn...good piece

[quote author=akinswaggs post=39378834]hmmnn...good piece
ar u OK

avnt I told u not to talk to me anymore..go Bleep ur friend u ar having a secret relationship wit.. cheat

[quote author=honeeeybabe post=39411843][/quote]

do i know you?

akinswaggs:

do i know you?

den stay off my life......ojukokoro

akinswaggs:

do i know you?

den stay off my life......ojukokoro

akinswaggs:

do i know you?

D tin is u wld just b receiving insults.... av unfollowed u...so do dsame

akinswaggs:

do i know you?

D tin is u wld just b receiving insults.... av unfollowed u...so do dsame senseless womaniser

QatarPlayboy:
@honeeeybabe and @akinswaggs

u both shud stop disgracing urselves here on nairaland. chebi na una start to dey date nd breakup dat others wont heart word again abi?

my advice to the both of u. i see u both stil hv feelings for each other. as d man in d relationship @akinswaggs i implore u to put pride aside, giv honeeeybabe a cal nd tel her hw beautiful nd precious she is to u. @honeeeybabe stop actin like u dnt care anymore wen u re cryin inside ur heart.

funny thou.. thanks ..well it is better everything end here.. as for Toms... I can't av anytin to do wit smone like DAT anymore..d worst set of pple ar best friends DAT stab u at ur back...